My son I haven't seen in 8 years

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  1. magnifier661

    magnifier661 B-A-N-A-N-A-S!

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    Long story short, I had a short relationship with this woman after my first divorce (1 month). I got her pregnant and we broke up during pregnancy. Anyway, she left after a couple years after my son was born and I couldn't get in touch with her.

    All the while, I still kept him on my insurance and tried people searches all of 7 years and couldn't find her. A couple weeks ago, I saw a kaiser bill that showed my son used the Lancaster Kaiser (where I lived). I used a revised people search and found him.

    I contacted the mom and arranged for a visit. This is what he looks like.

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    I got him a cellphone so he can contact me anytime. Since the visit, he's called me 2 times a day. I'm excited that I can rekindle our relationship.

    He's 10 years old now.
     
  2. Eastoff

    Eastoff But it was a beginning.

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    Congratulations Mags! That's wonderful you were able to connect.
     
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    SlyPokerDog Woof! Staff Member Administrator

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    That's awesome! Kinda fucked that the mom didn't keep him in your life. How do your kids feel about it? How does he feel about now having to be a Blazer fan?
     
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    porkchopexpress Well-Known Member

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    Congrats Mags! That is great news
     
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    magnifier661 B-A-N-A-N-A-S!

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    Yeah I was pretty upset about it for a long while, but I guess it's better late than never. My kids are excited cuz they remembered him. They would blame me for why he wasn't around. It was a battle.

    I am going to forget about the past and work on the future. I still have a lifetime left to work on our relationship.
     
  6. magnifier661

    magnifier661 B-A-N-A-N-A-S!

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    Yeah it has made my year
     
  7. magnifier661

    magnifier661 B-A-N-A-N-A-S!

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    Thanks bro
     
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    Way to avoid the Blazer question. Stay firm, don't be afraid to spank the Laker fandom out of him. #ToughLove
     
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    magnifier661 B-A-N-A-N-A-S!

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    There is no debate on which team he will like. My influence is strong!
     
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    Awesome! Sounds like you have the right emotions about it, let the past alone and concentrate on the future.
     
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    Mags..this is so great, I am so happy for you all.
     
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    7 years of unused health insurance is an expensive search method. Enjoy him while he's young! He'll toughen up and ignore you in a few years.
     
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    Fantastic! I hope it all works out.
     
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    Alright! Good stuff.
     
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    By chance, does he have a paper route?
     
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    Awesome news mags, congrats!

    I'm happy for you, but even more so for the kid.
     
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    Natebishop3 Don't tread on me!

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    That's great news man. He looks a lot like you.

    Your eldest doesn't look thrilled to have another brother though :lol:
     
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    PDXFonz I’m listening

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    He is a handsome young man, sure he's yours? :lol: congrats mags, glad you were able to get in touch!
     
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    bodyman5000 and 1 Lions, Tigers, Me, Bears

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    Pffffftttt, year is barely half over.......:)
     

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