Anybody been depressed over a girl once?

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Since there's that other girl thread about asking out, Has anybody been depressed over a girl?Please, Don't pull any of that tough guy crap here. Be honest. :lol:The reason I made this thread is because I am right now. I'll tell the reason why later...But yeaah.
 
Yeah...for the same reason I posted in the other thread.
 
Never. Even when me and Melanie broke up after 2 years I didn't care. We are back together now but that's beside the point.I always look at things as a positive. I'm never depressed.
 
Yuhssur, I ain't gonna lie. I am right now, My girl is gettin mad and we arent' talkin anymore for idk how long..1
 
Yeah, but as it turns out, it wasn't a big deal..So I just learn to stay calm and let things happen..
 
Thats why you don't say dumb sh*t to your girl. But like when they are mad at you or something like that, It's a bad feeling.
 
Yeah, for the same reason in the other thread. I guess I'll make a more explanatory post about it later.
 
eh, I kinda am right now, but at the same time Im trying to let stuff just run its course in this situation
 
Never been depressed, But been mad like when you know a girl likes you an sh*t when you don't go a holla at her, then after couple mins your like damn why the F*ck didn't I holla at the girl that happen to be 3 times I hate when that sh*t happens.
 
The last week me and my gf were together I felt kinda depressd.. dunno why.. which led to us breaking up later on that weekAlso during homecoming assembly, I saw her with her friend who was friends with these "ghetto" asian guys.. when she walkd over there I just felt weird... distracted me from watching the senior song girls :lol:but yah.. im over it but shes so hot.. lol.. I think she got hotter after we split.... dat suxxx...........
 
I've never felt depressed over a girl. Maybe I've felt a little down, felt a little angry, but depressed is too strong a word
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Madness @ Nov 7 2006, 08:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Thats why you don't say dumb sh*t to your girl. But like when they are mad at you or something like that, It's a bad feeling.</div>I didn't, I did something she told me not too do without remembering she told me not too do it :doh:
 
Well the story was...I just broke up with my GF today. The reason was because I like some other girl. I liked her for quite a bit and I like her a lot! It was a hard decision for me because I also liked my GF a lot. I had this problem little over two weeks and I've just been stuck in the middle. I didn't know what to do at all. So today I decided to break it off. I said I was confused about what's going to happen in the future between us and I think it's the best thing to do since im always pissed these days and im scared one day I might take it out on her. She understood and I guess she was "okay"? I don't really know because my friend did it for me, I was at V-Ball Practice. <_<The other sucky thing is, the girl I like a lot has a BF which happens to be my friend. Im not going to pull nothing and try to hit on her though. That's just cold.
 
The mistkaes of youth.A little bit of advice dSoung - Whenever you enter a relationship, serious or not, college or elementary school, shut your flirtatious desires out from all others who may try and unlock them. The break up was yours to make, something I think is hurting you more than anything, and it was inspired by your liking of another girl who currently has a boyfriend.The best line I've ever uttered:"So many times one does not become infatuated with a person, but rather the image of a person"Its something I've come to learn, even in my youth, and it is the reason every single time one likes someone they shouldn't, the reason people cheat on one another and the reason you liked this girl you had no business in liking. You're liking of her was most likely created by you, created by your occasional conversations with her and where you could have went with it. I was not there, I don't know you, but from experience I can tell that was probably the case.dSoung, you're young, you'll be fine man. Look up, stay positve. Just know that next time you embark on a relationship, you should probably make more an effort not to gain feeling outside of it.Power to you man, stay strong
 
I was depressed one time because this girl was going to show the cops the black eye I gave her. Luckily, she's gone now.Hah, but seriously. Yes, I have. The girl I was with pretty much made me believe things that weren't true. I knew better, but I wanted to believe so badly, that I basically did. Anyway, I'm over her now. Way over her.
 
I did a little. Once there was this girl in 7th grade, and she asked me if I liked here as if she liked me. I didnt like her at the time and I said she was ok. then like that night I started to like and she started to look better as time went on. I never had the balls to tell her again and I will always be pissed at myself for it. :brickwall:
 
I really wasnt depressed, but I was down for a week or so. My first love(if you wanna call it that, more like puppy love) and I broke up after about 3 months. Sucked pretty bad. Btw, she was my only white girlfriend. Maybe she put a bad taste in my mouth or something...dont know.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (dsounG @ Nov 7 2006, 09:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Well the story was...I just broke up with my GF today. The reason was because I like some other girl. I liked her for quite a bit and I like her a lot! It was a hard decision for me because I also liked my GF a lot. I had this problem little over two weeks and I've just been stuck in the middle. I didn't know what to do at all. So today I decided to break it off. I said I was confused about what's going to happen in the future between us and I think it's the best thing to do since im always pissed these days and im scared one day I might take it out on her. She understood and I guess she was "okay"? I don't really know because my friend did it for me, I was at V-Ball Practice. <_<The other sucky thing is, the girl I like a lot has a BF which happens to be my friend. Im not going to pull nothing and try to hit on her though. That's just cold.</div>wait, you're in volleyball? :shok: but that was pretty dumb. why would you break up with your girlfriend, which you like, if the girl you like more is going out with a friend of yours?
 
There was that one time with the whole gonorrhea thing. I was pretty depressed about that.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (dsounG @ Nov 7 2006, 07:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Since there's that other girl thread about asking out, Has anybody been depressed over a girl?Please, Don't pull any of that tough guy crap here. Be honest. :lol:The reason I made this thread is because I am right now. I'll tell the reason why later...But yeaah.</div><span style="font-family:Tahoma">I thought you said you don't like girls yet... :no3: Anyway, I have never been depressed over a girl... EVER! Well, okay, maybe once... My girl friend (not g/f; just a female friend) hadn't spoken to me for a long time and I thought she was mad or something. So, finally, I got the courage to ask her what's the deal and she replied, "Nothing, babe. Just been thinking about things..." I didn't understand and I left it at that. I was still depressed over her; I liked her...
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After a couple of more days of no-see, no-speak moments, one of her friends told me that she (my friend) wants to date me. Suddenly, my depression left. :shifty2: End of story.P.S: We dated, broke up after a couple of weeks (like 3 weeks, I guess), and we're still friends.</span>
 
I can honestly say I've never been like this...
 
Yeah, kind of once. I met this girl through tennis one time. She is really pretty and one of the coolest girls I've ever met in my life. We talked a bit while we were playing tennis, then gradually we started talking outside of it and hanging out more. She lives like 45 minutes away from me in New Hampshire, so the only time I'd really get to see her would be on the weekends. I'd go up and see her Friday/Saturday sometimes. I eventually started to like her so much that I wanted to ask her out. But I never did because I thought it'd just be weird. Then finally I did and she denied me because she didn't want to ruin our great friendship. I guess I was depressed for a while then I realized it was better and I don't think I would have wanted it to go any other way.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (yankshater213 @ Nov 8 2006, 01:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Then finally I did and she denied me because she didn't want to ruin our great friendship. I guess I was depressed for a while then I realized it was better and I don't think I would have wanted it to go any other way.</div>I hate to break it to you, but girls are really manipulative and don't usually say exactly what they mean.
 
Well she wasn't being manipulative, because to this day, she is still my best friend, so I'm happy with it.We both love each other, and I don't this she wanted, and neither do I, anything to really get screwed up with a bad relationship. Both of us are content with being best friends and we don't really want to be labeled anyways, be it a good or bad way.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BALLAHOLLIC? @ Nov 7 2006, 07:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Never. Even when me and Melanie broke up after 2 years I didn't care. We are back together now but that's beside the point.I always look at things as a positive. I'm never depressed.</div>True this.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (yankshater213 @ Nov 8 2006, 01:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Well she wasn't being manipulative, because to this day, she is still my best friend, so I'm happy with it.We both love each other, and I don't this she wanted, and neither do I, anything to really get screwed up with a bad relationship. Both of us are content with being best friends and we don't really want to be labeled anyways, be it a good or bad way.</div>You don't even get what I'm saying. Manipulation can still be done by friends. I was implying that she probably said that because she didn't want to hurt your feelings.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Illosophee @ Nov 7 2006, 10:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-family:Tahoma">I thought you said you don't like girls yet... :no3: Anyway, I have never been depressed over a girl... EVER! Well, okay, maybe once... My girl friend (not g/f; just a female friend) hadn't spoken to me for a long time and I thought she was mad or something. So, finally, I got the courage to ask her what's the deal and she replied, "Nothing, babe. Just been thinking about things..." I didn't understand and I left it at that. I was still depressed over her; I liked her...
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After a couple of more days of no-see, no-speak moments, one of her friends told me that she (my friend) wants to date me. Suddenly, my depression left. :shifty2: End of story.P.S: We dated, broke up after a couple of weeks (like 3 weeks, I guess), and we're still friends.</span></div>Man you really do like that Azzy girl don't you? Go ahead and admit it.Of course I've been depressed. That's what happens when you like girls since preschool and you are pretty ugly.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (nba dogmatist @ Nov 7 2006, 10:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>wait, you're in volleyball? :shok: but that was pretty dumb. why would you break up with your girlfriend, which you like, if the girl you like more is going out with a friend of yours?</div>Yeah, Im in Volleyball. I just won 2 games today. :)Anyways, Well I was going out with her and I started talking to the girl I like more and more then I liked her, And this was before she went out with my friend. Then like a week later they went out.I don't really see anything between them two. They really never hang out. And I thought it was the best thing to do since I was pissed a lot and I didn't wanna take it out at my GF at the time.
 
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