I ain't saying she's a Gold Digger....

[EL PRESIDENTE]

[video=youtube;0iyeUcFKRv4] :MARIS61:

 

[Mediocre Man]

hahaha

I'm just sayin', If I could, I'd fuck for money.

 

[Natebishop3]

This dude fakes his videos. He used to be a porn star, and I think someone proved that all the chicks in his videos are former porn stars that he worked with.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

:MARIS61:

 

[julius]

If you aren't saying it, I will. She's a gold digger. Just thought you should know, Trigger.

 

[julius]

This dude fakes his videos. He used to be a porn star, and I think someone proved that all the chicks in his videos are former porn stars that he worked with.

Wait...if he fakes THESE videos, are you telling me that teen ballerina wasn't really in high school? and those girls REALLY weren't tricked into having sex with that casting agent (who wasn't really one)?!?


er..I mean..

WHAT!?!?!?

 

[Natebishop3]

Wait...if he fakes THESE videos, are you telling me that teen ballerina wasn't really in high school? and those girls REALLY weren't tricked into having sex with that casting agent (who wasn't really one)?!?


er..I mean..

WHAT!?!?!?

It's not really that funny if you know it's fake

 

[Stephen Curry]

This dude fakes his videos. He used to be a porn star, and I think someone proved that all the chicks in his videos are former porn stars that he worked with.

No. not to be a dick but your information is False

 

[Natebishop3]

No. not to be a dick but your information is False

There are some videos disproving him on the web. The thread on reddit, where this originated, posted a few examples of him being proven as a fake.

 

[Stephen Curry]

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[magnifier661]

It maybe fake, but this shit happens all the time. I've personally experienced this.

Here is one example of many:

I was in Vegas and I was wearing shorts, a t-shirt and sandals. I looked very average because I never really dress up when I'm planning to lose all my money.

Anyway, I was sitting at this table and two girls sat down. I'm usually pretty friendly to anyone that sits down, so I started conversation with them. They were being pretty rude and stand offish. The moment I pulled out my wallet and grabbed 5k worth of chips; they immediately became friendly; even asking what I was doing that night.

That may not seem like a "gold digger"; but if you were there, you would have agreed.

Another time I had this party at my house. It was a big party; with about 200 people there. I am a very friendly host and I usually like to talk to everyone there.

Anyway there was this smoking hot chic and I walked up and said hi. She was ignoring me and told her friend "who the fuck is this guy?" I overheard it and I yelled "I'm the owner if the fucking house party you are crashing and you bring this attitude to my house, you can get the fuck out!"

Immediately she kept apologizing and trying to give me a hug. I told security to kick her and her friend out. I fucking hate when girls are like this.

 

[Sedatedfork]

I bet this happens to Paul Allen all the time.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

thankfully I don't have this problem.

 

[Natebishop3]

It maybe fake, but this shit happens all the time. I've personally experienced this.

Here is one example of many:

I was in Vegas and I was wearing shorts, a t-shirt and sandals. I looked very average because I never really dress up when I'm planning to lose all my money.

Anyway, I was sitting at this table and two girls sat down. I'm usually pretty friendly to anyone that sits down, so I started conversation with them. They were being pretty rude and stand offish. The moment I pulled out my wallet and grabbed 5k worth of chips; they immediately became friendly; even asking what I was doing that night.

That may not seem like a "gold digger"; but if you were there, you would have agreed.

Another time I had this party at my house. It was a big party; with about 200 people there. I am a very friendly host and I usually like to talk to everyone there.

Anyway there was this smoking hot chic and I walked up and said hi. She was ignoring me and told her friend "who the fuck is this guy?" I overheard it and I yelled "I'm the owner if the fucking house party you are crashing and you bring this attitude to my house, you can get the fuck out!"

Immediately she kept apologizing and trying to give me a hug. I told security to kick her and her friend out. I fucking hate when girls are like this.

Dude, LA women can be the worst! I had a few connected friends that would get me into clubs when they were the hotspots, and some of the things that I heard women say were just horrible. Obviously there are a ton of douchey guys as well, but the women were so overt about their feelings on wealth, it was just sad.

It's like that scene in Swingers when he walks up to the girls and they ask him what he drives.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

eh, its all overrated. maybe it is maybe its not. i guess.

I usually hang at beach bars where it doesn't matter all that much.

 

[The_Lillard_King]

Is it gold digging?

Some stranger walks up and ask you out to dinner, I think most people would probably approach that situation with caution not knowing anything about the person except what they say and how they present. Now the fact he drives 100,000 car doesn't automatically mean he is Mr. Safe and all she does is says she will have a drink with him. She is probably making an assumption that if he drives that car he is probably successful and has made something of his life. The assumption could be wrong, but safe enough assumption to have a drink in public and find out his real story.

Honestly, if I meet a woman who clearly takes care of herself or drives a car like that, I'm a little intrigued. It's a hard enough life as it is and if someone has been able to put themselves in a position of financial comfort, they probably are hard working goal driven person and someone I would probably enjoy drinking with and learning about.

 

[VanillaGorilla]

Is it gold digging?

Yes, yes it is.

Not wanting to have a drink with a random person is perfectly umderstandable and normal.

Changing your mind solely because they are rich is gold digging.

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[The_Lillard_King]

Yes, yes it is.

Not wanting to have a drink with a random person is perfectly umderstandable and normal.

Changing your mind solely because they are rich is gold digging.

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How about wanting to have a drink with someone who has built a successful career. Is that gold digging?

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

How about wanting to have a drink with someone who has built a successful career. Is that gold digging?

COULD BE A TRUST FUND BABY.

 

[VanillaGorilla]

How about wanting to have a drink with someone who has built a successful career. Is that gold digging?

If, at first, you didn't want to have a drink with them, then all you found out to change your mind is that they have a successful career (make a lot of money) then yes.

If you found out what that career was and it was interesting, it's a completely different situation.

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[The_Lillard_King]

COULD BE A TRUST FUND BABY.

Could be. Also could be a hard working goal accomplishing asshole. My only point is the car could say more than just that the person has money . . . in fact that car doesn't even mean the person is rich. But I would like to know the story behind the car . . . maybe this is a self realization moment that I am a gold digger.

On a sidenote, I would have no problem with my s/o being a trust fund baby. I wouldn't date someone just for that reason, but it would be a nice little bonus if the person I fell in love with was.

 

[The_Lillard_King]

If, at first, you didn't want to have a drink with them, then all you found out to change your mind is that they have a successful career (make a lot of money) then yes.

If you found out what that career was and it was interesting, it's a completely different situation.

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If you go from not knowing anything about someone to knowing they have a successful career . .. to me that is something valid to change your mind and doesn't automatically make someone a gold digger.

Having said that, I understand why that video comes across as gold digging. I found that guy to be the jerk, but understand the woman comes across as the jerk to most.

 

[Spud147]

So... the issue is that she's shallow and only considering dating him because of what he might own.

Ummmm, why do you think he approached her in the first place? He didn't know if she'd be interesting but he chose to walk up to her and ask her out without even a little bit of a previous connection. Why do you think that is? Maybe he likes some of the things she paid for too.

Get back to me with a video of this average looking slimey dude approaching an average looking woman with all her original body parts.

Sure this girl is shallow but he's just as bad. That high maintenance stuff these woman have to pay for to look perfect is very very expensive and a lot of work.

 

[VanillaGorilla]

So... the issue is that she's shallow and only considering dating him because of what he might own.

Ummmm, why do you think he approached her in the first place? He didn't know if she'd be interesting but he chose to walk up to her and ask her out without even a little bit of a previous connection. Why do you think that is? Maybe he likes some of the things she paid for too.

Get back to me with a video of this average looking slimey dude approaching an average looking woman with all her original body parts.

Sure this girl is shallow but he's just as bad. That high maintenance stuff these woman have to pay for to look perfect is very very expensive and a lot of work.

That's a very good point. Since this video is most likely staged, we can just imagine it as if the woman he approached was 35 years old and average looking. I don't think it changes the situation.

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[Darkwebs]

thankfully I don't have this problem.

Same here, buddy. 'Cuz I'm broke.

 

[Run BJM]

Yeah that vid looks totally fake.

But none the less this is a topic I've talked with a lot of my girl friends about. Its frustrating as a man, but from a woman's perspective its just a part of what they find attractive in someone. I'm of the belief that its sort of gold digging but also a modern form of picking a mate. Women want to pick a successful man because he will provide for them and their kids. The money makes life a lot easier, but isn't that what any living being strives for? To make life easier? Beyond just the money and providing aspect women will read into it that the man has traits that make him successful. BTW ask women about the difference between a man who is independently wealthy vs. just born into wealth. Yeah any wealthy guy is a plus, but the guys who are independently wealthy really make dem panties soak.

I just got a promotion last week and was discussing it with an ex of mine who explained to me how I just got hotter in the eyes of all the women in the office (and any other female who knows about it). I find myself more pissed off than happy about it in that regard. Last week I'm a completely unexceptional, not really desired dude and a week later women find me notably more attractive. It irks me that nothing about me has changed except my job title and salary yet I just got way hotter to women. Granted I do walk around with more of a big dick swangin' confidence knowing I fucking won the job over everyone else who applied, and that's gotta make me more attractive, but it still pisses me off that theoretically I wasn't good enough for some last week but now I am simply because I make more money and have a position of slightly higher status.

 

[julius]

Yeah that vid looks totally fake.

But none the less this is a topic I've talked with a lot of my girl friends about. Its frustrating as a man, but from a woman's perspective its just a part of what they find attractive in someone. I'm of the belief that its sort of gold digging but also a modern form of picking a mate. Women want to pick a successful man because he will provide for them and their kids. The money makes life a lot easier, but isn't that what any living being strives for? To make life easier? Beyond just the money and providing aspect women will read into it that the man has traits that make him successful. BTW ask women about the difference between a man who is independently wealthy vs. just born into wealth. Yeah any wealthy guy is a plus, but the guys who are independently wealthy really make dem panties soak.

I just got a promotion last week and was discussing it with an ex of mine who explained to me how I just got hotter in the eyes of all the women in the office (and any other female who knows about it). I find myself more pissed off than happy about it in that regard. Last week I'm a completely unexceptional, not really desired dude and a week later women find me notably more attractive. It irks me that nothing about me has changed except my job title and salary yet I just got way hotter to women. Granted I do walk around with more of a big dick swangin' confidence knowing I fucking won the job over everyone else who applied, and that's gotta make me more attractive, but it still pisses me off that theoretically I wasn't good enough for some last week but now I am simply because I make more money and have a position of slightly higher status.

Sadly, that's very true.

I have a friend who seems to be more interested in how much money her boyfriend makes than how he treats her. Now obviously, that's not exactly how it goes, but you get the jist. Me? I make far less than the guy she's dating, but unlike him, I actually enjoyed spending time with her, treated her nice and wanted to spent time with her.

But...she wanted someone who had a job because it showed (in a weird, and imho, inaccurate way) that he was a "better man" than others.

But they end up being replaced for some other twit anyways.

Usually women in their mid 30's grow out of it (just as guys once they hit their mid 30's, tend to grow out of their own annoying habits about women)

 

[Natebishop3]

Yeah that vid looks totally fake.

But none the less this is a topic I've talked with a lot of my girl friends about. Its frustrating as a man, but from a woman's perspective its just a part of what they find attractive in someone. I'm of the belief that its sort of gold digging but also a modern form of picking a mate. Women want to pick a successful man because he will provide for them and their kids. The money makes life a lot easier, but isn't that what any living being strives for? To make life easier? Beyond just the money and providing aspect women will read into it that the man has traits that make him successful. BTW ask women about the difference between a man who is independently wealthy vs. just born into wealth. Yeah any wealthy guy is a plus, but the guys who are independently wealthy really make dem panties soak.

I just got a promotion last week and was discussing it with an ex of mine who explained to me how I just got hotter in the eyes of all the women in the office (and any other female who knows about it). I find myself more pissed off than happy about it in that regard. Last week I'm a completely unexceptional, not really desired dude and a week later women find me notably more attractive. It irks me that nothing about me has changed except my job title and salary yet I just got way hotter to women. Granted I do walk around with more of a big dick swangin' confidence knowing I fucking won the job over everyone else who applied, and that's gotta make me more attractive, but it still pisses me off that theoretically I wasn't good enough for some last week but now I am simply because I make more money and have a position of slightly higher status.

The extra confidence is a huge difference though. Women love confidence.

 

[Run BJM]

Another note; in general girls are raised to be more cooperative- both in behavior and collaboratively working together on projects- and develop strong friendships with one friend at a time (and these best friends tend to rotate over the course of their childhoods/lives). Contrast that to boys who are raised to be more competitive but socially they tend to have a larger core group of friends but they're less intimate with each friend. My point is that women are sort of wired to look for that one relationship, and they're trained for much of their lives to have these best friend relationships where the two friends are very intimate and emotionally supportive of one another. When they're looking for someone to marry its a lot like looking for that best friend, but you also have to factor in that they're judging people based on how well they will provide and how good of a father they'll be. They're not necessarily just looking for a sugar daddy, I think they view the marriage as a team/partnership kind of thing where they'll be working cooperatively with this person for the rest of their lives. Its like a two-on-two bball tournament that but you only get to have one teammate the rest of your life- you want to get a LeBron if at all possible. Women are judged largely on the family they raise and the person they're with. They want a winner and they want to have better lives/mates/families than everyone else they know.

Its a foreign concept to men who are taught to be independent and make something of themselves rather than relying on a partner for assistance.

But all this said, most of the young girls I know act very much like young guys- they just wanna fuck the hottest guy around. Status plays a part, but they're pretty focused on good looks. As they get older their priorities change, but a lot of the girls I know just wanna get a nut off in their early 20's. Still frustrating to me but can I really knock them if they're not much different than men?