Not sure where, Maris. Not where I live.
Here's my answer. I worked crappy jobs for years, not by choice, only started making good pay late in life. So there I was 50 with almost no retirement. I am putting the max into retirement account, which limits my current income quite a bit. My father offered to help with a down payment - you can't take it with you, he's 91, and would rather help now - but he would not have the 20% of a modest home where I live. We're talking about $100,000 for a 20% down payment, unless I lived so far out it would take me 6 hours a day to commute. Some people do that, I'd be out of my mind in that much traffic daily. I'd have to cash in part of my retirement for a down payment. And I pointed out that when I retire my income will, at best, be half what it is now - that's without using any of it to buy a house. I'd lose the house. I would not be able to keep up payments.
My rent, thankfully, is not $3226, I'm not sure what they are looking at, even in SF that's high. But I doubt I'll be able to pay the rent on my tiny house (with huge yard) when I can no longer work. I'm looking at best a studio somewhere. At worst a residency hotel. Because my 401K is tied to stock market and it's not safe. To put it mildly.
A coworker of mine is losing her home. At best she'll be out around $80K. So it's just too risky.