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What should I do?

  • Ask her out

    Votes: 15 68.2%

  • Harmlessly flirt

    Votes: 5 22.7%

  • Play hard to get for a bit longer

    Votes: 2 9.1%
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Natebishop3

Natebishop3

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So I decided to go back to school to finish up my education. I'm 18 credits shy of an associates and then I can transfer and get my bachelors.

The point of this story, I met a girl in one of my classes... Dancer.... model..... 5'9..... hot..... trouble. This girl can be nothing but trouble. She's about six years younger than I am, and she has been flirting. Could you date a girl knowing that it could explode in your face?
 
Natebishop3 said:
So I decided to go back to school to finish up my education. I'm 18 credits shy of an associates and then I can transfer and get my bachelors.

The point of this story, I met a girl in one of my classes... Dancer.... model..... 5'9..... hot..... trouble. This girl can be nothing but trouble. She's about six years younger than I am, and she has been flirting. Could you date a girl knowing that it could explode in your face?
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You said it: Trouble.

I believe you're a smart lad and will do the right thing. *check*
 
Roll 40 deep with your posse, and get some cuddy, yano?


That was terrible. I call that my BlackShake impersonation.
 
I've had girls explode in my face, and frankly I rather enjoyed it. There's always toys if you aren't into that sort of thing.
 
Natebishop3 said:
So I decided to go back to school to finish up my education. I'm 18 credits shy of an associates and then I can transfer and get my bachelors.

The point of this story, I met a girl in one of my classes... Dancer.... model..... 5'9..... hot..... trouble. This girl can be nothing but trouble. She's about six years younger than I am, and she has been flirting. Could you date a girl knowing that it could explode in your face?
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Just do it.

You learn from your mistakes, and if mistakes involve tapping a model/dancer, I hope to make huge mistakes every day of my life.
 
Dude... go for it, but go in with eyes open.

Ask her out and be sure of what YOU are willing to do and not do. You're focused on school and you've got a plan, but presumably there's an opportunity to date.

You might be right and she might be trouble, but if you don't let her knock you off track, then it's no big deal. If you're wrong and she's more stable than you anticipate, then you've really got something.

Ed O.
P.S. Six years is nothing. Trust me. :pimp:
 
At least flirt with her, see if she is interested in you or not. If things eventually escalate, then go for it, but don't forget to wrap it up!
 
As long as you know what you are getting yourself into (a few weeks or maybe months of a good time) then go for it. If you're one of those "serial monogamer" types that "fall in love" easily and you like to get serious with every girl that you date then steer a wide berth. Only you know how you will react or behave.
 
I wonder why you think she's "trouble"?

Your description sounds like a nice attractive young woman, eager to learn, who is interested in you.

Did you bump your head or what?
 
Natebishop3 said:
So I decided to go back to school to finish up my education. I'm 18 credits shy of an associates and then I can transfer and get my bachelors.

The point of this story, I met a girl in one of my classes... Dancer.... model..... 5'9..... hot..... trouble. This girl can be nothing but trouble. She's about six years younger than I am, and she has been flirting. Could you date a girl knowing that it could explode in your face?
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I wouldn't think twice about it. Go for her.
 
Natebishop3 said:
So I decided to go back to school to finish up my education. I'm 18 credits shy of an associates and then I can transfer and get my bachelors.

The point of this story, I met a girl in one of my classes... Dancer.... model..... 5'9..... hot..... trouble. This girl can be nothing but trouble. She's about six years younger than I am, and she has been flirting. Could you date a girl knowing that it could explode in your face?
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Listen to three days worth of the Tom Leykus show.

Study the materials on his website. http://www.blowmeuptom.com/

Make a commitment to spend no more than $60.

Go have fun. Don't fall in love. Don't think relationship. Think fun.
 
why the hell wouldnt you? im 29 and my girl is 21. one before that was 19.

age is just mind over matter. if you dont mind, it dont matter
 
You should ask her if she has a younger sister at home.

barfo
 
Sounds like my own story. I married the girl and it's now been 27 years, our anniversary 4 days ago.
 
^Congrats on that Denny.

I had it backfire in my face once. My freshman year I asked a girl out after we had worked on a poli sci project all semester. She said yes, bu then stood me up. She called to apologize and I never bothered to call back. Long story short, she was in my poli sci class the next semester (she even came and sat right next to me), I always would run into her at the gym, and she coincidentally she got a job at my favorite place to eat on campus.

I'm going back to school in winter after some time off, and there is no doubt that karma will put her in my path at some point in an awkward situation.

But hey, good luck!
 
Jurassic said:
^Congrats on that Denny.

I had it backfire in my face once. My freshman year I asked a girl out after we had worked on a poli sci project all semester. She said yes, bu then stood me up. She called to apologize and I never bothered to call back. Long story short, she was in my poli sci class the next semester (she even came and sat right next to me), I always would run into her at the gym, and she coincidentally she got a job at my favorite place to eat on campus.

I'm going back to school in winter after some time off, and there is no doubt that karma will put her in my path at some point in an awkward situation.

But hey, good luck!
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Oh lol I'm very sorry to hear that. I think it is better to not fear rejection though.
 
My wife is 6 years younger then me. It's cool! Also,you better move on it fast before she finds out you're in the band!
 
I agree, rejection makes us stronger. In fact I think the girl wanted me to ask her out again, that's why she came and sat next to me. I just wasn't in the mood for her games so I was polite and left it at that. I'm pretty outgoing so I was over it quickly.

My story is an extreme example of what can happen.
 
I met my wife in a similar situation, except that I was teaching and she was a student. We just celebrated our 5th anniversary and her 13th birthday last week!

The age difference really hasn't been a problem - in fact when we go out she gets the child discount and I get the senior discount. It's the best of both worlds.

barfo
 
barfo said:
I met my wife in a similar situation, except that I was teaching and she was a student. We just celebrated our 5th anniversary and her 13th birthday last week!

The age difference really hasn't been a problem - in fact when we go out she gets the child discount and I get the senior discount. It's the best of both worlds.

barfo
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hahahaha.... ahhh Barfo. You slay me.

Thanks for the advice guys. I'm going to see her in class tomorrow. I'll play it by ear. :devilwink:
 
barfo said:
I met my wife in a similar situation, except that I was teaching and she was a student. We just celebrated our 5th anniversary and her 13th birthday last week!

The age difference really hasn't been a problem - in fact when we go out she gets the child discount and I get the senior discount. It's the best of both worlds.

barfo
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McDonald's happy meals are the way to go!
 
Update:

Been talking to this girl a lot over the last week. Went swing dancing last weekend. Gonna see her again on Sunday probably.

How often do you find a girl who dances, models, and knows her way around a rifle? She bowls too... I'm definitely in trouble gentlemen. :grin:
 
Natebishop3 said:
How often do you find a girl who dances, models, and knows her way around a rifle? She bowls too... I'm definitely in trouble gentlemen. :grin:
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Good god man, you are dating Sarah Palin! Ask her about the Bush Doctrine.

barfo
 
Natebishop3 said:
So I decided to go back to school to finish up my education. I'm 18 credits shy of an associates and then I can transfer and get my bachelors.

The point of this story, I met a girl in one of my classes... Dancer.... model..... 5'9..... hot..... trouble. This girl can be nothing but trouble. She's about six years younger than I am, and she has been flirting. Could you date a girl knowing that it could explode in your face?
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You date a girl knowing you can explode in her face
 
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