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MickZagger

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I met this chick at the gym I workout at and she's 40, has a smoking bod, definitely has the whole MILF thing going on for her. She has a kid, who's 4 years younger than me, heck her daughter went to high school with my little brother. Anyways, Sat. night we hung out, went out for drinks, went back to her place (lol I live at home right now) and it was on like donkey kong. She has a sex drive thats out of this world. She's a real down to earth girl, into the same kind of stuff as me, and is always DTF. I don't plan on getting serious with her, and I don't know her intentions with me (hell, I'd just be fine being her sex puppet for awhile). So my question is, how do I keep this thing going, without telling her that I straight up don't want to be her boyfriend, or do you think she is just using me and abusing me (which I'd be fine with)?
 
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That is awesome. I'm down with the whole MILF/COUGAR thing. so hot.

She knows what the deal is or she should.
 
I don't think there is a way to keep it going... just do what you're doing. She's a grown woman and can handle herself. As long as you don't lie, I wouldn't worry about it.

If she wants to be your girlfriend, I'd imagine she'll bring it up. I would GUESS it's not very likely.

Exclusivity short of bf/gf might be an issue that comes up.

Just ride it out man. In a good way.

Ed O.
 
zagsfan20 said:
I met this chick at the gym I workout at and she's 40, has a smoking bod, definitely has the whole MILF thing going on for her. She has a kid, who's 4 years younger than me, heck her daughter went to high school with my little brother. Anyways, Sat. night we hung out, went out for drinks, went back to her place (lol I live at home right now) and it was on like donkey kong. She has a sex drive thats out of this world. She's a real down to earth girl, into the same kind of stuff as me, and is always DTF. I don't plan on getting serious with her, and I don't know her intentions with me (hell, I'd just be fine being her sex puppet for awhile). So my question is, how do I keep this thing going, without telling her that I straight up don't want to be her girlfriend, or do you think she is just using me and abusing me (which I'd be fine with)?
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...you're a lesbian??? :confused:
 
zagsfan20 said:
So my question is, how do I keep this thing going, without telling her that I straight up don't want to be her girlfriend, or do you think she is just using me and abusing me (which I'd be fine with)?
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Hang this sign on the wall above your bed before the next time you bring her over. She'll get the point.

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HAAK72 said:
...you're a lesbian??? :confused:
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Tranny..but he's going to be post-op next year so it's close enough.

Zags, you're living at home and boinking a 40 year old with a kid old enough to be your sibling.

Stay classy Portland.
 
its pretty easy actually, don't go on dates with her (unless its a drink at a bar), don't hang out with her during the day and maybe go to her house after the gym and fuck her in the shower!
 
Ed O said:
I don't think there is a way to keep it going... just do what you're doing. She's a grown woman and can handle herself. As long as you don't lie, I wouldn't worry about it.

If she wants to be your girlfriend, I'd imagine she'll bring it up. I would GUESS it's not very likely.

Exclusivity short of bf/gf might be an issue that comes up.

Just ride it out man. In a good way.

Ed O.
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Yeah, thats what I'm thinking. Just kind of take it for what it is, a fling. I have no problems thus far, her libido is nuts, sends me new dirty pics of herself all day.
 
yakbladder said:
Tranny..but he's going to be post-op next year so it's close enough.

Zags, you're living at home and boinking a 40 year old with a kid old enough to be your sibling.

Stay classy Portland.
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Seems as though a lot of older guys get a little pissy when younger guys get involved with their talent pool.
 
haha, didn't that happen before with someone finding someone on this board? helping the motorist?
 
zagsfan20 said:
Yeah, thats what I'm thinking. Just kind of take it for what it is, a fling. I have no problems thus far, her libido is nuts, sends me new dirty pics of herself all day.
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Yes. The more time you spend thinking/worrying about it, the less you're going to savor the "now".

Not that you shouldn't ask or think about it at all, but once you've decided how you're going to handle it just enjoy.

Ed O.
 
Well this is 2009, if you think young guys hooking up with older women is some kind of "Portland thing", your sadly confused.
 
Now you need to see if she will get her daughter to hook up with you guys! That my friend would put you in a whole other pimp status!
 
zagsfan20 said:
I met this chick at the gym I workout at and she's 40, has a smoking bod, definitely has the whole MILF thing going on for her. She has a kid, who's 4 years younger than me, heck her daughter went to high school with my little brother. Anyways, Sat. night we hung out, went out for drinks, went back to her place (lol I live at home right now) and it was on like donkey kong. She has a sex drive thats out of this world. She's a real down to earth girl, into the same kind of stuff as me, and is always DTF. I don't plan on getting serious with her, and I don't know her intentions with me (hell, I'd just be fine being her sex puppet for awhile). So my question is, how do I keep this thing going, without telling her that I straight up don't want to be her boyfriend, or do you think she is just using me and abusing me (which I'd be fine with)?
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You're putting way too much thought into this. You're a hook-up from the gym to her at this point. Sounds like you may be the one wondering if there is a future? From your post, it doesn't appear she is giving you any signs of wanting any relationship outside of you being her Boy Toy for a while. Keep on banging her, if that's what you want, and when it ends, it ends.
 
PapaG said:
You're putting way too much thought into this. You're a hook-up from the gym to her at this point. Sounds like you may be the one wondering if there is a future? From your post, it doesn't appear she is giving you any signs of wanting any relationship outside of you being her Boy Toy for a while. Keep on banging her, if that's what you want, and when it ends, it ends.
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I guess your right. I've just never been in a situation like this with an older women before. Then again, I can see where she's coming from. She's in her sexual prime and looking to get her rox off. The constant text messages throughout the day I guess are whats throwing me in a loop. I'm just going to try and keep it simple and not put too much thought into it, let things come as they may.
 
zagsfan20 said:
I guess your right. I've just never been in a situation like this with an older women before. Then again, I can see where she's coming from. She's in her sexual prime and looking to get her rox off. The constant text messages throughout the day I guess are whats throwing me in a loop. I'm just going to try and keep it simple and not put too much thought into it, let things come as they may.
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Women that hit 40 have their libido go on overdrive. Sex isn't for kids anymore, it's for pleasure. Enjoy it! :cheers:
 
Hooked up with My dad's wedding planner at his wedding a few weeks ago. Also 40 yrs. old and a very nice little package. She's got a couple of young kids though so I will steering clear.

Just have fun dude, wouldn't worry about hurting feelings. Don't forget to suit up!
 
zagsfan20 said:
I met this chick at the gym I workout at and she's 40, has a smoking bod, definitely has the whole MILF thing going on for her. She has a kid, who's 4 years younger than me, heck her daughter went to high school with my little brother. Anyways, Sat. night we hung out, went out for drinks, went back to her place (lol I live at home right now) and it was on like donkey kong. She has a sex drive thats out of this world. She's a real down to earth girl, into the same kind of stuff as me, and is always DTF. I don't plan on getting serious with her, and I don't know her intentions with me (hell, I'd just be fine being her sex puppet for awhile). So my question is, how do I keep this thing going, without telling her that I straight up don't want to be her boyfriend, or do you think she is just using me and abusing me (which I'd be fine with)?
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Does she want to go out in public with you? Or introduce you to her friends?

I can only tell you from my perspective... but it doesn't sound like she's looking to make a meaningful relationship out of this. She's a single mom with responsibilities and you don't have "long term" type qualities right now. I'm not trying to offend you (because from the tone of your message I think you realize that) but she's stupid if she sees you as anything more than fun.
 
I don't think there's any risk she's going to introduce you to her kids as their "new daddy". In fact, I don't think there's any risk she's going to introduce you to anyone at all.
 
I don't think zagsfan really has a question, he just wants to brag about banging a smoking hot milf!

rock on, dude. rock on.:rockon:
 
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