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HoNgKoNgKoBe

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Ok so there was this girl that I was really tight with last year. We would go to class together, eat lunch pick up after school and etc. So then near the term last year I dunno how to say it, but its like she dumped me and then we never talked again. And so far this year we haven't talked much and isn't as close. And since its almost Valentine's Day I'm not sure if I should get her a rose. I would like to start talking again.. I need some help guys. My instincts tell me go for it, the other says don't go for it. And I dunno what her reaction will be when she gets it. And also I don't even know what she thinks of me now. Help me out guys, this been bothering me for so long.
 
Do you have one of those things in your school were they deliver roses to the person you want in one of their classes? That was you can give it to her, but not have to face her at that moment just in case.
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I say go for it though, the relationship can only get better.
 
She doesn't want you anymore.... I wouldn't actually. I'd go find another girl.
 
no, dont send her a rose, cause thats for couples. As Dane Cook would say, try to get a talky talk going.;...ask whats up and why she doesn't talk to you anymore....ive learned to just come straight with girls....much easier.
 
I don't know I do think that talking to her is the right thing to do. Ill wait and see what other people think as well. And I'm not sure if the rose is delivered to their class. I might have to give it myself.And I tried to find another girl, but then they jsut ended up getting a bf.
 
You should just talk to her, none of this rose business as mf pointed out that's mainly a couple thing in school.
 
Give her the rose, what's the worst thing that could happen? You guys don't talk now anyway, it couldn't hurt.
 
It could scare the girl away and he will never have a chance.....not everybody is as sexy as you Tony....
 
Even if it did scare her away (which I doubt it will) They don't talk anyway, so things wouldn't be any different than they are now.That's the worst case scenario, the best case is that she finds it sweet and gives him a shot. He has nothing to lose, I would take that chance.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Memphis Fan @ Feb 12 2007, 11:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>no, dont send her a rose, cause thats for couples. As Dane Cook would say, try to get a talky talk going.;...ask whats up and why she doesn't talk to you anymore....ive learned to just come straight with girls....much easier.</div>Agreed just go for it, you never know what is going to happen until you do it, I mean no guy knows what a girl reaction is going to be when you do things for them or ask them things or anything like that.
 
o dam. I just decided to not buy a rose. But then now you guys say go. I dont know what to do. Cause im talking with this girl and she's saying dont do it. So I just dunno what to do. And I really wanna talk with her again to. Im not normally shy with girls. But I've been scared to talk to her some reason. I wann talk to her I cant go up to her. So I dunno what's going on.
 
I think your making it more complicated than it should be. If you want to respark conversation, how about actually having a conversation. Instead of resorting to a rose.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (KCX @ Feb 12 2007, 11:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>elaborate on her dumping you</div>Well I dunno if you guys would call it dumping, but I would. So its like a friday last period and class already ended. So we're normally like leave right away and I drop her off at her school bus hug and etc. But then this particular day she waits for everyone to go, and I didn't find this odd though right. So it's just me her and the teacher packing now. and then she says you don't need to pick me up and wait for me any more and then she walks off. And then this was like a week before finals and then we just didn't talk after that.
 
was it real quick or was she just informing you? Sounds like she just got another way home...after that did you act differently around her?
 
I question how much of a relationship you had one with her as a friend with what you said, let alone girlfriend/boyfriend.Either that or you had one strange ass relationship to where it ends like that. Go figure.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Memphis Fan @ Feb 12 2007, 11:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>was it real quick or was she just informing you? Sounds like she just got another way home...after that did you act differently around her?</div>she just started kinda ignored me after she said that. She said it in some serious tone too and then walked off. And then I started to act odd around her.
 
lol. weird shorty. give her the rose n be a man. she's missin out if she wants to disregard it. dont be nervous giving her the rose either. Just look at her in the eyes and give it to her to see her reaction which will probably be good and dont look down like your blushin or some sh*t. man up most shawties dont say sh*t nowadays unless u flash your dough around not in their face.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Rok @ Feb 12 2007, 11:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I question how much of a relationship you had one with her as a friend with what you said, let alone girlfriend/boyfriend.Either that or you had one strange ass relationship to where it ends like that. Go figure.</div>I'm not getting at what your trying to say? We were like very tight and liked talked about eveything and chilled a lot together and stuff. and we were practically dating, but now quite.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>I'm not getting at what your trying to say? We were like very tight and liked talked about eveything and chilled a lot together and stuff. and we were practically dating, but now quite.</div>I'm just reading what your saying and it's weird. You say you were basically dating and one day she says you don't have to wait for me and you just stop talking to her. Just like that, no explanation. I mean come on. If you were good friends or dating, then you would have at least questioned why(the clear cut reason I don't get it) and continued some kind of relationship. Not just end it at a drop of the hat.I would call loose, not "very tight."
 
This is the way I see it... nobody can really tell you what you should do in this situation. Just go with your instincts. If you want to give her a rose, just give it to her. If not, then just go up to her and casually strike up a conversation with her and basically try to see where you guys stand. The rose thing really depends on the girl. I give roses to some of my girlfriends on Valentine's Day even if they have boyfriends or if we're just friends, etc., and some of them I don't. It just depends on the girl and only you can judge what would be best. If you can't, just go with your gut feeling. What's the worst that can happen? You guys really aren't talking anymore, so it's not as if the relationship is going to get any worse... right?By the way, do you like this girl or are you just looking to become friends with her again or whatever?
 
id start getting a relationship back together and start over maybe
 
Here's my opinion, hate it or love it: She's probably already forgotten about you, women tend to do that. Some other guy has probably already bought her a bunch of shiny things and her woman's ADD kicked in and kicked you out of her mind. If you really give that much of a crap about her, send a card along with a note that says like 'will we ever be friends again', etc. Otherwise forget about it and find someone else. You mentioned that other girls you 'go after' get BFs, well just make and keep friends with those that you really like and it's like a 90% guarantee they'll break up at some point soon anyway.Also, I should ask, how old are you?
 
give her a rose shaped like a penis- since we all know that what you really wanna give her
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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Clangus @ Feb 13 2007, 06:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>give her a rose shaped like a penis- since we all know that what you really wanna give her
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</div>lol nice, but then again what if he is caught holding it... not a cool sight indeed.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Ginger Jesus @ Feb 13 2007, 05:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Here's my opinion, hate it or love it: She's probably already forgotten about you, women tend to do that. Some other guy has probably already bought her a bunch of shiny things and her woman's ADD kicked in and kicked you out of her mind. If you really give that much of a crap about her, send a card along with a note that says like 'will we ever be friends again', etc. Otherwise forget about it and find someone else. You mentioned that other girls you 'go after' get BFs, well just make and keep friends with those that you really like and it's like a 90% guarantee they'll break up at some point soon anyway.Also, I should ask, how old are you?</div>I'm almost 17.
 
Forget her man..obviously she doesn't want anything, or she doesn't care.Theres more women out there, give some other girl you talk to alot, and care about and stuff a rose
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BALLAHOLLIC? @ Feb 13 2007, 12:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Even if it did scare her away (which I doubt it will) They don't talk anyway, so things wouldn't be any different than they are now.That's the worst case scenario, the best case is that she finds it sweet and gives him a shot. He has nothing to lose, I would take that chance.</div>Man tony, you sound like a marriage counselor or something. But I agree bro, it cant hurt.
 
Yeah, man she's probably already got another boyfriend or three, so just do your best to forget about her.
 
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