Every time I post lately it says that the person before me is the last poster. Then I go back on the thread and I am? Anyone else got this?
I had this problem once a few months ago. I logged out, and then cleared my internet history. Then logged back in and everything was back to normal. As for the speed issue, all the pages load just fine for me.
If you're using the quick reply, when you post it just adds your post to the bottom of the page you're viewing - just you see it that way. So your browser doesn't have to do a reload. It really puts it at the end of the thread.