OT Lillard files for divorce

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  1. Shaboid

    Shaboid Well-Known Member

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    From what little I know about Dame's personal life, which I will admit is very little, I was surprised when they announced their initial engagement and eventual nuptials.

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    Kano John Start 'em young!

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    I don't know how most families work but in my family my wife and I discuss every single important issue and then she decides what we're going to do!
     
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    you fixed it for ya self

    wait…. You wouldn’t know.
     
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    AldoTrapani Well-Known Member

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    Why is that surprising?
     
  5. Shaboid

    Shaboid Well-Known Member

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    They were together for like 8 years or something, had Dame Jr., and still weren't married.
     
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    Phatguysrule Well-Known Member

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    I am the father of three wonderful teenage daughters. I'm fully aware of what's involved.

    My wife and I agree on how to deal with issues with our kids so we just make those decisions as they come up (at this point, the girls make their own decisions). We let each other know after it's already been set up or done and it is what it is. We've never disagreed or had concerns.

    I have no problem with her making all decisions about our kids and she has no problem with me doing so.

    Of course we do discuss things. Me traveling 8 months of the year wouldn't change these things. We'd still talk on the phone and raise our kids the same way. And I wouldn't feel like I needed to be intimately involved with every dentist appointment.

    My point is simply that there really isn't much for her to complain about here. My wife loved staying home with the kids when they were younger, and she did so for years.

    Simply saying, she had kids with an NBA player, who is also a rapper. Him being home all the time wasn't in the cards.
     
  7. wizenheimer

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    'extremely successful father with an extreme time & energy consuming job involving lots and lots of travel and nights away is not involved with his children as much as the stay-at-home mother'

    surprising news about this never seen before type of story at 11:00
     
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    barfo triggered obsessive commie pinko Staff Member Global Moderator

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    Shouldn't they be potty trained by now?

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    Phatguysrule Well-Known Member

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    You're telling me!?
     
  10. crandc

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    Not saying she has something to complain about. Just reporting what she is claiming, that she has been the one who took responsibility for their children and wants full custody.
     
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    Yeah but you're a man so you can't possibly know what raising kids takes bro. Don't you know that?
     
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