A judge who is a father, beats his own daughter with a belt (1 Viewer)

[julius]

[video=youtube;Wl9y3SIPt7o]

warning, it's fairy graphic and also might be age restricted.

 

[julius]

Re: A judgew ho is a father, beats his own daughter with a belt

Could someone fix the subject to read "A judge who" instead of what "A judgew ho"?

 

[MARIS61]

Re: A judgew ho is a father, beats his own daughter with a belt

[video=youtube;Wl9y3SIPt7o]

warning, it's fairy graphic and also might be age restricted.

That's not fairy graphic.

This is fairy graphic:

http://www.bing.com/images/search?q...AD994EC6F964C0218B80811063899&FORM=IGRE9#x0y0

 

[MARIS61]

Re: A judgew ho is a father, beats his own daughter with a belt

Same mentality here as with a rapist.

He deserves to be flogged himself, then exiled to Iran where this sort of cowardice is the norm.

Here's the info on this abuse:

2004: Aransas County Court-At-Law Judge William Adams took a belt to his own teenage daughter as punishment for using the internet to acquire music and games that were unavailable for legal purchase at the time. She has had ataxic cerebral palsy from birth that led her to a passion for technology, which was strictly forbidden by her father's backwards views. The judge's wife was emotionally abused herself and was severely manipulated into assisting the beating and should not be blamed for any content in this video. The judge's wife has since left the marriage due to the abuse, which continues to this day, and has sincerely apologized and repented for her part and for allowing such a thing, long before this video was even revealed to exist. Judge William Adams is not fit to be anywhere near the law system if he can't even exercise fit judgement as a parent himself. Do not allow this man to ever be re-elected again. His "judgement" is a giant farce. Signed, Hillary Adams, his daughter.

 

[Further]

Wow, that was hard to watch.

When I was young, my father spanked me with a belt, but without any viciousness. He only spanked me a handful of times, and never with enough force to cause real pain. In my case, he used it judiciously only when I did something that put me in danger, like when I was 7 and just left for a 4 hour walk in the desert in my underwear. It was meant to scare, not cause pain.

The last time I ever got spanked, I was around 9 or 10, and this time was with his hand, not a belt. I forget why I was getting spanked that time, but my father sent me to my room and told me that he was going to come back and spank me. I took a piece of styrofoam from some toy I got from the Boston space museum, and stuffed the styrofoam down my pants. My Dad came in, told me to bend over his knee, and lowered his hand to spank. Thud! was the sound from the spank instead of the slap sound that would normally arise. My father checked to see what was going on and pulled out the styrofoam and just started laughing. He stood up, said I was too old for spankings and told me to come out to the dining room where we could discuss whatever it was that I did wrong.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

All spanking is child abuse. I've said it before, I'll say it again. There's no difference. You try to make your kids right by smacking them? What the fuck is that.

 

[Further]

Although I would never spank a child, I would not go so far as to say "all spanking is child abuse". As I explained in my above post, my father spanked me a few times, but i was never abused. spanking in my case was meant only to scare me a little and remember that moment and be able to associate it with doing something dangerous. Not once, as far as I can remember, did I get so much as a red bottom that would last more than 2 minutes.

 

[jlprk]

Spanking used to be standard for both sexes. I watched my friend's 5-year-old sister get spanked once. We military brats got the belt from the Colonels. I went to school one day in the 8th grade with red marks on my leg the same shape as the tip of a belt. Got a wooden ruler broken over my head once. Far more often, I was threatened with a belt and quickly shut my mouth. You don't have to belt often to make the threats work.

But girls just got spanked, not belted, and this one in the video is age 16, which would have been unusual even back then. When I was 14 I stopped it by hitting back. Gave him 2 black eyes and he never hit me again. This was a typical military family and to a lesser degree nowadays, probabaly still is.

"The judge's wife was emotionally abused herself and was severely manipulated into assisting the beating and should not be blamed for any content in this video. The judge's wife has since left the marriage due to the abuse, which continues to this day, and has sincerely apologized and repented for her part and for allowing such a thing, long before this video was even revealed to exist."

If you watched her in the video, you know that she initiated, and wasn't just an accomplice. This is just more manhater bullshit from the legal system--not holding women responsible for their actions as if they're children. My mother was influenced by the Colonel but only used a coat hanger on me.

I love my dead parents very much and miss them. It's easier to believe in Love Thy Neighbor if you've been oppressed. It's easier to believe in war and torture if you weren't oppressed. The pseudo-humane government wants to stop kids from getting hit because suffering turns you into a liberal, and not suffering makes you a heartless warmonger.

 

[Bob Dobalina]

All spanking is child abuse. I've said it before, I'll say it again. There's no difference. You try to make your kids right by smacking them? What the fuck is that.

Completely disagree. I've spanked my kids like once each in 12 years. Three swift whacks with a belt and didn't even draw back very far. I hated it, but knew the "act" was necessary. As the act itself is enough of a deterrent and to let them know you're serious. It's the parents who claim "all spanking is child abuse" that have the terrible children running amok in public while my kids just watch and shake their heads.

What this guy did in the video was not spanking though. That was beating.

 

[Mediocre Man]

All spanking is child abuse. I've said it before, I'll say it again. There's no difference. You try to make your kids right by smacking them? What the fuck is that.

I wholeheartedly disagree. I have a non combative question for you.

What do you do, or would you do, if timeouts, groundings from stuff they like, etc, don't work. What if your child is still doing something that is wrong. What is the next step?

 

[bluefrog]

That left me stunned. He's cursing and beating her into submission. That's not disciplining a child, its child abuse.

I wonder what the statute of limitations are on something like this.

 

[BoBoBREWSKI]

Completely disagree. I've spanked my kids like once each in 12 years. Three swift whacks with a belt and didn't even draw back very far. I hated it, but knew the "act" was necessary. As the act itself is enough of a deterrent and to let them know you're serious. It's the parents who claim "all spanking is child abuse" that have the terrible children running amok in public while my kids just watch and shake their heads.

What this guy did in the video was not spanking though. That was beating.

Agree!

Wow, that was brutal. 100% child abuse! This jackass is obviously one of those moronic rednecks who has control issues. I'd love to give him a beating of his own! I'll give the girl credit, she's tough! I find it a little funny that the compter/internet that he hates so much is what got him busted. I cant wait to see what happens to this piece of shit!

more info:
http://gawker.com/5855478/reddit-video-apparently-shows-texas-family-judge-beating-disabled-daughter

 

[BrianFromWA]

All spanking is child abuse. I've said it before, I'll say it again. There's no difference. You try to make your kids right by smacking them? What the fuck is that.

No matter how much you say it, being wrong vehemently is still being wrong.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Completely disagree. I've spanked my kids like once each in 12 years. Three swift whacks with a belt and didn't even draw back very far. I hated it, but knew the "act" was necessary. As the act itself is enough of a deterrent and to let them know you're serious. It's the parents who claim "all spanking is child abuse" that have the terrible children running amok in public while my kids just watch and shake their heads.

What this guy did in the video was not spanking though. That was beating.

all you are doing is perpetuating the thought that physical violence solves problems. "but I didn't hit him that hard".

If you have to resort to physical violence to assert your authority and call that "great parenting", I guess that's better than having children "run amok" and shake your heads as you slap your kids again, then tell them you're doing it out of love.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Although I would never spank a child, I would not go so far as to say "all spanking is child abuse". As I explained in my above post, my father spanked me a few times, but i was never abused. spanking in my case was meant only to scare me a little and remember that moment and be able to associate it with doing something dangerous. Not once, as far as I can remember, did I get so much as a red bottom that would last more than 2 minutes.

If your wife is out of line, is it ok to slap her, just as long as her face gets a red face for less than 2 minutes?

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

I wholeheartedly disagree. I have a non combative question for you.

What do you do, or would you do, if timeouts, groundings from stuff they like, etc, don't work. What if your child is still doing something that is wrong. What is the next step?

You make the timeouts, groundings, etc work then. If you have to hit your children, you're doing something wrong. Its the easy way out.

 

[3RA1N1AC]

who wasnt spanked/whipped as a child?

going overboard is cruel and cowardly, but give it a rest, dont be holistic bleeding liberal vag holes

 

[Mediocre Man]

You make the timeouts, groundings, etc work then. If you have to hit your children, you're doing something wrong. Its the easy way out.

How do you make them work? This is my question to you. Because for some children, they simply don't work, or lose effectiveness over time. What is the next step?

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

How do you make them work? This is my question to you. Because for some children, they simply don't work, or lose effectiveness over time. What is the next step?

You're right.

I guess hitting them is the only answer.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

and if hitting them doesn't work, I suppose you need to hit them harder.

 

[BrianFromWA]

Now you're getting the idea.

 

[Mediocre Man]

who wasnt spanked/whipped as a child?

going overboard is cruel and cowardly, but give it a rest, dont be holistic bleeding liberal vag holes

I never even received warnings. My parents made a list and posted it on the refrigerator. It had crime and punishment for such crime listed on it. Ranged from switch to grounding. If I stole, harmed someone not in self defense, broke a law, was disrespectful to an adult, etc. I was marching outside to get a switch. If I was too wild in the house and broke something I got grounded the first time and spanked there after. Knowing in the back of my mind that my mom or dad would spank the shit out of me, made me a very well behaved boy, young man and adult.


Fast forwarding to today, all three of my children get rave reviews about how well behaved they are and wished that other kids were that well behaved. They know if they're not they will get more than a timeout. I also have a son with adhd and anxiety disorder. Not a great combo for him or the household. he has huge rages because he doesn't know how to deal with the anxiety, do I beat him because of it....no because it's not something he wants to do. If I remind him that whether or not he can control the level of his anger at the time, he can't be disrespectful and he continues......A nice swift swat on the ass calms him down ASAP

 

[Mediocre Man]

You're right.

I guess hitting them is the only answer.

You can't answer the question, or you don't want to answer the question?

What would you do next?


ps I am expecting you to drop this at any moment because there is only one answer.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

You can't answer the question, or you don't want to answer the question?

What would you do next?


ps I am expecting you to drop this at any moment because there is only one answer.

I answered it. You have to hit them. You're right, violence solves all problems.

 

[3RA1N1AC]

my dad spanked me once for throwing rocks at cars. i deserved it

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

my dad spanked me once for throwing rocks at cars. i deserved it

Imagine if he stabbed you with a knife. That would have been more effective.

 

[Mediocre Man]

I answered it. You have to hit them. You're right, violence solves all problems.

Maybe I should have been more clear.

Would you like to try and answer the question honestly, or are you not able to do that? It is just an opinon I am looking for. Whether I agree with it or not means nothing. The question, and anyone can answer, is after timeouts, groundings don't work, what is the next step?

 

[BrianFromWA]

Concur, though, with whoever said it above....there's "spanking," and there's child abuse. Swatting a child on a diaper-covered bottom is different than punching a kid in the face.

I never got anything harder than a belt, and nothing after age 10 or so, but it's another tool to use. One of my nieces will change behavior if her father so much as raises his voice a bit. Her sister is usually punished by being sent to her room for a time. Another sister needs the physical side for any effect to happen. I have no idea why that is, but I don't think you do, either, and applying some overarching "it's always child abuse!" :MARIS61: line is both hyperbolic and ignorant.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Maybe I should have been more clear.

Would you like to try and answer the question honestly, or are you not able to do that? It is just an opinon I am looking for. Whether I agree with it or not means nothing. The question, and anyone can answer, is after timeouts, groundings don't work, what is the next step?

Sensory deprivation. Maybe starve your children until they "get it".

 

[Mediocre Man]

my dad spanked me once for throwing rocks at cars. i deserved it

You should have only been given a timeout. That horrible man. You go sit in the corner for 5 minutes and think about what you did