@dviss1
I absolutely understand that I have never dealt with Racism the way most (if not all Blacks) have. I didn't really read Cubans comments and think that's racist, or really about race at all. I immediately thought of my personal experiences with HS / AAU and my families experiences as well. I will certainly not deny there could be racial motivation to what he said that I didn't get.
I don't want to get into an argument with you, I literally just would like help in understanding why some people have taken it as a purely racist comment, with racist intent.
Respectfully, even if you would rather do it in a private convo could you help me understand why from your perspective, it's a racist comment.
Also what I do to combat racism, is pretty easy... I help those in need, no matter what color they are. I respect people no matter what color they are, or what they believe. I teach my kids to love people. I try to call it out when I see it, I don't stand idly by when someone's getting beaten up, or mocked because of their race and yes I've actually seen it and gotten in fights with white kids who were doing it.
Anyways you may very well be right, and it was racist. I can see that "partially" and I know Cuban has a history of things too. Personally, for anyone who is different than me, whether it's color, creed, gender, etc. I feel like the least they can do is help me to understand what they're going through, or why they take things differently than I do. I can't walk in other people's shoes (figuratively), just like no one here knows what it's like to be me. I try to be a respectful, caring person so I can assure you I didn't read it differently just because I don't want to see it.
Sorry if you already explained it to me and I missed.