...or maybe he wishes the stuff he sees Dame going out of his way doing with Nurk is the brotherhood he desires

Pretty fascinating read when you swap names around:
“Me and Dame had a good relationship. We never had a single argument. We really got along,’’ McCollum said. “I’m just saying the stuff I want to go out of my way to do for (KAT), is the stuff I wish I got from Dame.’’
“I wish it was like more of a brotherhood, more of a line of communication, with me as young player and him as an All-Star,’’ McCollum said.