This is a story about a 19-20year old guy has sex over 100 times with 100+ women because of OKCupid.
I am using a throwaway but because of the sheer volume I did this with, I may even be recognized.
Experiment: See how many women I could have sex with, with the opening message being "Why haven't we had sex yet?"
Why: It was April/May 2012 and I had just broken up with my girlfriend. I was taking a summer Human Sexuality class for my university and we had a paper to write, we could pick our own topic for once! I decided to compare and contrast the differences between online dating and offline dating in terms of casual sex. I'm not gonna lie to you, I mainly came up with this because I was slightly depressed and kind of on the rebound.
I proceeded to message hundreds of girls in my area on OKCupid by only looking at their picture and relationship status (I ain't a cheater). If she was single and at least a 6 out of 10 for attractiveness (with 5 being average) then I messaged her.
I messaged 300 women that week with a simple message "Why haven't we had sex yet?" Only about 70 responded over the course of the next couple weeks. I'll share some of the statistics below but from that 300, I had sex with 26 women from that initial 300. I then went to some clubs and bars and tried the same thing. I went up to 83 women and simply smiled and said "Why haven't we had sex yet?". I was slapped, I had drinks thrown in my face, I was mocked, but shockingly I had sex with 8 women from the offline experiment.
I'll give a little about me. I was 19 at the time, slightly overweight and on /r/rateme I've averaged a 6.4 in looks. I am a personable fellow if I am being honest and I moved around a lot so I know a little about a lot of things. Basically I am super easy to talk to and I've been told I have a great sense of humor.
Stats:
OKCupid - 300 women messaged (ages 18-24)
No reply: 231
Negative reply: 38 (e.g. "Because you're gross")
Positive reply: 11 (e.g. "I don't know, you tell me
")
Neutral reply: 21 (e.g. "What?", "???", "Excuse me?")
Of the 11 positive replies I had sex with 9 women.
Of the 21 neutral replies, I had sex with 12 women.
Of the 39 negative replies, I had sex with 5 women.
Success rate 26/300 = 8.67% or 26/70 = 37.14%
Offline - 83 women contacted (ages 18-25ish)
Negative response: 65 (e.g. "What the fuck", Drink in face, slap)
Positive response: 8 (e.g. "Because I need another drink in me" with smile)
Neutral response: 10 (e.g. "That is an interesting pickup line")
Of the 8 positive responses, I had sex with 6 women.
Of the 10 neutral responses, I had sex with 1 woman.
Of the 65 negative responses, I had sex with 1 woman.
Success rate 8/83 = 9.63%
Conclusion: Basically if you're looking for casual sex, you'll find it.
After the paper/experiment: So after I received my A- on my paper I didn't use OKCupid other than responding to random woment that contacted me first. I was drunk one night and I apparently decided to run my experiment again. I messaged about 200-250 women that night.
I had a similar amount of response percentages and their types of responses. I kept it up. The rest of the summer I had sex with about 20 more women along with repeats from before.
I came up with about a dozen pre-scripted responses based on the women's responses. I would just copy and paste, copy and paste.
I kept doing it on a much smaller scale during the school year and added on about 10 more women.
The following summer (2013) I had a job somewhere away from home and thought "Why not" and proceded to message pretty much 1000 women over the course of the next 3 months. I had a much higher percentage of no replies but this is when I found out about the last logged in! (I had no idea!) Anyway, I added another 30+ woman from OKcupid alone all while using "Why haven't we had sex yet" as the first message.
I became an OKCupid Moderator in June 2013 (REALLY!).
At this point I had sex with roughly 90 women because of OKCupid. I was honestly addicted. The past semester, I had to hit 100. I eventually did during Christmas break and kind of ironically, I was banned the following day.
Ttl;dr *I had sex with over 100 women by using the line "Why haven't we had sex yet?" *
So that is my story! I think I am going to take a break for a little while but I may go back to OKCupid to actually date, I am honestly looking to settle down a bit. Also, if you're one of the women I messaged... now you know.
