I don't know, but those two quotes seem eerily similar in meaning. By wanting the team built around him, he is most certainly "wanting his".
Not necessarily.
WARNING: SPECULATIVE BULLSHIT AHEAD.
Roy's simply operating under the assumption that he has been chosen as the hub of the team, The Man. "Getting His" is more like just wanting what he wants with no regard for his teammates. But Roy has the team's best interests in mind, just filtered through his assumption that he's The Man.
Now, with getting the max contract that he did, being the most productive team member last year, etc, there's plenty of evidence to support the "Roy Is The Man" assumption. So Roy is simply trying to organize the team in such a way that he and they will succeed. He feels that success will come most easily when he is The Man. After all, he was The Man last year, and look how successful they were.
So he definitely wants the team to succeed, but he feels that the burden of that success rests with him. Where Roy goes, so go the Blazers. It makes sense that Roy doesn't have an ulterior motive of getting his; rather, his motive is team success. The trouble seems to be that his assumption that Royball = Team Success that is grating against this year's reality of Odenball = Team Success.
Miller was brought in to make LMA and Oden better. He sets ups the post well, runs the break, and leads in alley-oop assists. In the starting lineup, that means LMA and Oden can feast on offense. But, unless we suddenly shoot 20 more shots per game, Roy's game is neglected. And since -- in Roy's mind -- Roy's Game is Blazer Ball, Roy feels like Miller in the starting lineup means going away from what made the Blazers successful.
Roy may have put the bug in Nate's ear to have Oden focus on defense only early on. After all, Oden's the better center when he's in, but Odenball isn't Blazer Ball. Oden isn't The Man; Roy is.
The actions all look very selfish, but I believe that Roy's intentions aren't motivated by greed. Again, he believes truly that he has the team's best interests in mind when he insists on being The Man. He's a proven commodity, the best player on the team. Jordan didn't win by not being The Man. Kobe didn't win last year by not being The Man. In his mind, successful guards must be The Man on their teams in order for them to succeed.
The trouble is two-fold: selling Roy on Balance as Blazer Ball, and succeeding in spite of Roy to prove to him that Balance *is* Blazer Ball. You have to succeed without Roy to show Roy that a balanced attack where he's not The Man, but one of Three Men. But that sell becomes harder and harder the more the team underachieves.