I have a BIG problem...help BCB.

[BrewCityBuck]

I was invitied by a friend from work/school to her birthday party. She works at the police department with me. Her name is Nikita and we are good friends, she likes to talk perverted and I'm attracted to her (I sorta have a g/f). I called her and got directions and she just sent me this on Facebook...<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>j je jes jess jesse j je jes jess jessedude, I hope you are ready to get drunk! its gonna be a big beer fest! plus other alcoholic drinks will be avalible. lol. oh, also bring your swim trunks, there is a hott tub at dons we can go in. see you saturday. have a good one! xoNIKITAxo</div> But the thing is, I don't drink and have never drank anything (never had a drink in my life), my mom is totally against me having that kind of fun...not to mention we are both underage and I work at the police department and getting an underage drinking ticket would be a huge mistake. I don't know if I should go or not, it's her birthday and I really want to see her....

 

[kingjamez]

I'd go, chill out. If it gets out of hand, you can always leave.

 

[7Goat]

Wow... a TV-like situation here.If you're deciding whether to go or not, I think that's up to you. With my conscience I would go [but you have a gf so it's different], I don't know about you.Or you could go and not drink? Or you could drink now and get used to it?I feel for you here.

 

[Mobruler]

So just say you don't drink, it's not hard. And if you have a crush on some girl that's not your girlfriend, then maybe you shoudl re-evaluate your relationship. Thinking some girl is hot and wanting to F*ck her doesn't constitute as a crush, in my opinion, by the way.

 

[Pacers fan forever]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BrewCityBuck @ Jan 4 2007, 09:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I was invitied by a friend from work/school to her birthday party. She works at the police department with me. Her name is Nikita and we are good friends, she likes to talk perverted and I'm attracted to her (I sorta have a g/f). I called her and got directions and she just sent me this on Facebook... But the thing is, I don't drink and have never drank anything (never had a drink in my life), my mom is totally against me having that kind of fun...not to mention we are both underage and I work at the police department and getting an underage drinking ticket would be a huge mistake. I don't know if I should go or not, it's her birthday and I really want to see her....</div>there are too many negatives and possible problems about going to the party so come up with an excuse why you can't go and propose another (better) time (like the next day) that you could get together for something

 

[abc]

Bring your own drinks, but make them non-alcoholic, and only drink them. Like that de-alcholised beer junk.

 

[yankshater213]

If she wants you to go, and you want to go and see her, you should go to the party. It doesn't matter if you don't drink, you don't need to drink to be there.

 

[Memphology]

go, and dont drink....say that you have to be sober cause when your drunk your very disrespectful.<That always works.

 

[valo35]

If you can figure a way to go to this party without your girlfriend finding out, it is a must if your attracted to this other chick that's having the birthday party. If you don't go to the birthday party, she will think less of you for not going to her birthday party. Plus this lets you know what kind of chick she is, a drunk girl will always let you know what they are really about. So go to the party, tell everyone there that your allergic to alcohol and it has a bad effect on you, most of them there will probably be drunk so they won't think any different of you. The one thing you don't do, is hook up with this chick while she is drunk, she will think worse of you for that. So hang out for a while to spark her interest, don't drink, and leave the party early. That's just my advice, and what I would do, except I drink.

 

[CB4allstar]

Go, and don't drink Just tell her that you don't want to drink alcohol..

 

[playaofthegame]

yeah just dont goid say stay out of bad situations even thoughbooze = parttyyyyyyyyyyyyy

 

[7Goat]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (valo35 @ Jan 4 2007, 08:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>If you can figure a way to go to this party without your girlfriend finding out, it is a must if your attracted to this other chick that's having the birthday party. If you don't go to the birthday party, she will think less of you for not going to her birthday party. Plus this lets you know what kind of chick she is, a drunk girl will always let you know what they are really about. So go to the party, tell everyone there that your allergic to alcohol and it has a bad effect on you, most of them there will probably be drunk so they won't think any different of you. The one thing you don't do, is hook up with this chick while she is drunk, she will think worse of you for that. So hang out for a while to spark her interest, don't drink, and leave the party early. That's just my advice, and what I would do, except I drink.</div>But you're allergic to alcohol!EDIT - some didn't get that it was a joke! Imagine that

 

[valo35]

That's what I would do in real life if I don't drink and was in BCB'S shoes. If it's me going to the party, I usually just get destroyed.

 

[abc]

Or you could always be the designated driver :happy0144:

 

[KCX]

go for the gold, I saw her comments on your facebook.. she knows you have a gf doesn't she? well screw your current gf.. go for her.. she wants you

 

[BrewCityBuck]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (KCX @ Jan 4 2007, 10:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>go for the gold, I saw her comments on your facebook.. she knows you have a gf doesn't she? well screw your current gf.. go for her.. she wants you</div> Yeah, she knows...she knows it isn't serious though...<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>oh officer jesse (sounds like a hooker name...right on).... u are too nice to me some times... but you know u are the very hott and sexy one. congrats on the postition!!!!!! I knew ud get it. when do u start? im so excited to work with you now... killa man! I hope you had a good xmas, mine was swell. I guess I will talk to you later. take er easy! lots-a-love!!!!xoNIKITAxo</div> :cry2:

 

[7Goat]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>oh officer jesse (sounds like a hooker name...right on).... u are too nice to me some times... but you know u are the very hott and sexy one. congrats on the postition!!!!!! I knew ud get it. when do u start? im so excited to work with you now... killa man! I hope you had a good xmas, mine was swell. I guess I will talk to you later. take er easy! lots-a-love!!!!xoNIKITAxo</div>Hit it Officer Jesse, HIT IT!

 

[CB4allstar]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (7Goat @ Jan 4 2007, 11:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Hit it Officer Jesse, HIT IT!</div>:HAHAHA: :HAHAHA: :HAHAHA:

 

[Clangus]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (CB4AllStar @ Jan 5 2007, 11:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Go, and don't drink Just tell her that you don't want to drink alcohol..</div>exactly, if she's anysort of decent person she'll respect that. Somechickswould admire the strength.or Drink a whole heap of red cordial, go all hyperactiveshe will think your already drunk.

 

[BrewCityBuck]

This is really stressfull...were going to Nikita's/I's friends house...our gay friend Don...first were having pizza at her place. <div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>merry fucken christmas jessy! I hope santa treats you well. good luck with the interview, remember dress up a little, they like that stuff. otherwise I know youll do fine! have a good one! warm winter wishes and snow flake kisses!!!! xoxo</div><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>oh jesse! I know im a big F*ck up, my parents remind me all the time. I was a mistake! u on the other hand..... u are so perfect, you dont F*ck up. lots-a-love!xoxoxoxo</div>

 

[MaRdYC26]

you should hook us up with a pic of her hahahahha...anyway, good luck with this enitre situation..its a bit confusing..haha

 

[BuLLzDoMaIn]

mannn unless you reallly love then other girl then fine dont go if u dont wanna.. Drink a lil. take shots .. since you never drank you will get tipsy fast then your fine.... I mean it just sounds like he wants to have fun

 

[7Goat]

From what I'm reading she seems really into you. I'm not sure if she's just messing with you or that's how she speaks, but by what you said I think she likes you.You're going to have a time where you have to just tell her straight out if you are into her or not.Drama!

 

[bbwWolf]

Stick with your girlfriend, this chick sounds like trouble anyways...

 

[CB4allstar]

Yeah, she drinks alchohol! We don't want you hanging around this girl, BCB!

 

[BrewCityBuck]

 

[CB4allstar]

Uh...that's a dead woman, BCB...

 

[Zards]

EDIT: NVM, I saw the pic. Yes, she's a good one.

 

[7Goat]

Nevermind, DON'T HIT IT. She has 1 nostril!

 

[BALLAHOLLIC]

BCB is starting to get the ladies? Maybe the world is coming to an end shorter than I thought.