I'm a fuck up

[MickZagger]

Just as those can choose to do what's right or wrong because in their moral fiber and they don't need the religion to puppeteer their life.

 

[jlprk]

I love this forum. Any topic can go sideways. Wait, EVERY topic goes sideways. That's half the greatness of you all.

Thanks all who responded to my post. It's all very helpful and emotional at the same time. I will fight this.

Like a melodramatic movie, you need some comic relief. So your thread becomes arguments over religion, whether PapaG feels insulted, etc. Anyone have ideas about how his divorce problem impacts gay issues, Obama vs Romney, and the war in Syria?

 

[crandc]

Is it "shit" for the people that has had it work for them? It wouldn't be for me, because I lack the faith to by into it, but I certainly wouldn't call any program that tries to help addicts as "shit".

What have you done to help addicts?

OK, Papa G. I apologize for using that word. I should have said "stuff".

As to helping addicts, they are really the only ones who can help themselves. That's what I've learned from knowing some. There are those who can facilitate. Not my job because it's not my strength and I consider it too important to do a bad job at it.

 

[3RA1N1AC]

people trying to derail this thread with political or personal garbage are out of line

tpf, the drink is the problem man...ive always said, i might act on my impulses sober, but when im drunk, i actively seek them out, pretty much every decision i regret in my life was when i was drunk

dial back the drinking as much as you can, just associate drinking with the mess you are in, and it will become less and less tasty

as far as womanizing, if you were fucking other girls, you know in your heart that your wife wasnt the right one for you, and if she was, you dont deserve her

being in love means you wouldnt want to sleep around in my estimation

and try to look on the bright side of the pending divorce/whatever...more time to do your thing, more money?, and depending on your work schedule, it just might be more time with your kid as well...get yourself as right as possible in a hurry, work out, eat right, get your teeth whitened, the whole enchilada

and then focus on the kiddo, you do that, and everything will be just fine

 

[TradeNurkicNow]

sounds like you got drunk a lot and fucked some girls.

the drinking is the problem, because dudes wanna fuck girls. the mark of civility is not doing it, but the drink will hamper that task

so yeah, stop the drinking obviously. be the better person and shit will get better real fast