OT JUDGE ORDERS 3O YEAR OLD MAN TO VACATE PARENTS HOUSE

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https://www.yahoo.com/gma/30-old-or...-harassed-093004235--abc-news-topstories.html

A Judge ordered a 30 year old New York man to vacate his parents house after living there for years rent free. His parents asked him to get a job, insurance, etc, but he declined, so they asked him to leave. He says he should be able to stay because all the harrasment he has endured. The least they can do, he says, is let him stay there and use their hotwater and electricity. He plans to appeal the courts decision.


Wait, is this one of you guys?
 
https://www.yahoo.com/gma/30-old-or...-harassed-093004235--abc-news-topstories.html

A Judge ordered a 30 year old New York man to vacate his parents house after living there for years rent free. His parents asked him to get a job, insurance, etc, but he declined, so they asked him to leave. He says he should be able to stay because all the harrasment he has endured. The least they can do, he says, is let him stay there and use their hotwater and electricity. He plans to appeal the courts decision.


Wait, is this one of you guys?
If this is a new precedent, then ripcitytwo will soon have a lot of non-active posters due to no internet and basement to live in.
 
I’d just like to throw out (based on a similar experience within my own family) that this young man is likely to have at (the very) least some type of mental health issue whether he wants to admit it or not. That may have contributed to him losing custody of his child. We don’t have all the facts and I certainly agree that his parents should not be financially responsible for him if they choose not to be, especially when he refuses to seek mental health counseling. But it’s too easy to simplify these things sometimes, and while the kid disgusts me I can’t help but believe his issues are far more complicated than a short article allows.......so I’m working extremely hard to suspend judgement.
 
Moved out of my parents when I was 20. This guy may have some form of mental illness, but he certainly has no apprrciation for the 30 years his parents have put a house over his head, fed him, etc. They have done the least they could do and then some. In fact, it sounds like they have done nearly the most they could do.
 
I’d just like to throw out (based on a similar experience within my own family) that this young man is likely to have at (the very) least some type of mental health issue whether he wants to admit it or not. That may have contributed to him losing custody of his child. We don’t have all the facts and I certainly agree that his parents should not be financially responsible for him if they choose not to be, especially when he refuses to seek mental health counseling. But it’s too easy to simplify these things sometimes, and while the kid disgusts me I can’t help but believe his issues are far more complicated than a short article allows.......so I’m working extremely hard to suspend judgement.
This is actually a good point...I joke but I would have no problem if my son lived at home ...after college he used a year of free rent at home to put a down payment on a house. Who knows....maybe I'll need to live in his house when I'm walking around with a drool cup.
 
This is actually a good point...I joke but I would have no problem if my son lived at home ...after college he used a year of free rent at home to put a down payment on a house. Who knows....maybe I'll need to live in his house when I'm walking around with a drool cup.

I told my son one day he will be wiping my ass
 
When I was in my late 20’s I had to move home for about 3 months. I was so ashamed. I could have stayed much longer but it was quickly blackening my heart and pissing on my spirit.
After I moved back from China with my wife and baby, things didn't work out for us in Washington DC. We moved home and lived with my parents for 3 months while I searched for a new job. I had the same feelings as you, but felt blessed I had a the support of my family in a tough situation.
 
moving home with parents if fine...but if they ask you to leave, give you some money to leave, and write you letters begging you to go...its time to go. And if he has some mental issues to work out, that sucks, and explains a lot, but either his parents don't care about his issues (unlikely) or...he doesn't have any.
 
Surprised this thread isn’t getting more attention......... considering that 80% of you on here are in the same boat. #BasementLife

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I also was briefly in a position of having to move around crashing in other people's houses. But I hated it and wanted to get a place, even a shitty one, ASAP.

I once threatened to call cops on an unwanted visitor. He was an old college friend. Years after college, after I moved to California, he called and said he was in town. It was just before Thanksgiving so I invited him to my dinner, he said he had no car so I gave BART instructions. I'm only a mile from BART, a reasonably healthy person can easily walk it. (I did so, both directions, every day rain or shine for 7 years.) Instead, he called me up last minute because he did not have BART fare and could I arrange a ride, so I had to call another guest who did not even know him to pick him up. To my surprise, he arrived with backpack and sleeping bag and asked if he could crash. I figured OK, overnight, although frankly after cooking a Thanksgiving dinner I really want to just veg out with my cats rest of the evening. That night I got the call my mother had died and I needed to make plans to drive to Southern California for funeral. Next day I told "friend" he had to leave that day. Turns out he had decided some time ago to not work, just travel around living off other people. I do understand hard times and needing help, but that was not his situation, he just wanted to be a parasite. The people with whom he'd been staying had kicked him out just before Thanksgiving and he said he had nowhere to go. I said I'm leaving for funeral in 2 days and want him gone. He asked if he could stay in my house while I was away but I no longer trusted him. Meanwhile ate up my Thanksgiving leftovers, didn't clean up after himself, day before I had to go said he had nowhere to go. This was back in landline days and he kept making toll calls trying to find someone to put him up. I told him if he was not out of my house by that evening I'd call cops. He finally found someone, but since he had no BART fare I ended up driving him to the next person he lived off of. Never saw him again and don't care to, he totally took advantage of our past friendship at a really tough time.
 
Think there were quotes in the Columbian where they had given him money to find another place to live. He obviously spent it on something else and would not say what. Said something to that it was spent and we all have to move on. With all of the reality TV shows out there, he probably just won himself a chance on one or more of them.

I got to know most of my aunt, uncles, and cousins thru them living with us at one time or another. Had plenty of others that my mom took in. Only had to throw a few out and never any that refused to leave.
 
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