Exclusive Me Too.

[bodyman5000 and 1]

What's the most consistent thing in all of these posts?

People are afraid to tell.

The rape culture in our society has people scared of the victim blaming that occurs after you tell.

Oh, she was drunk... Was she coherent enough to give consent?

Oh, she wears tight clothes... IDGAF if you're in the MIDDLE of intercourse. If she says stop you fucking stop...

Oh she's a slut... Is she your slut?

Never had a stop in the middle. Logically...stop. Can't swear on my life I would have.... at least when I was younger

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Never was messed with in that way. Had a close friend that was molested at the school pool by another guy. We used to go to the pool during the summer because it was a couple blocks away. Long story short, a guy a couple years older took my friend into a bathroom and touched his penis, and tried to get my friend to jerk him off.

The guy who committed it went through hell though. Some of our buddies older brothers were in his grade and would ruthlessly ridicule him and call him every gay slur in the book. He did end up being gay.

My buddy still has weird episodes about it.

Just a shitty situation all around. What makes kids do shit like that to other kids? Seeing the behavior from parents? Or are they just that fucked up?

Freshman year, there was a gay dude on our floor who would pretend to brush his teeth but would watch us shower in the communal dorm showers at an angle via the mirror. Totally obvious.

 

[Charcoal Filtered]

Maybe El Pres can share more, but it sounded like someone with special needs was being inappropriate with him. Not sure how it affected him, but guessing it was not as bad as someone that was in the same position but it was someone that had more power. I think all are inappropriate but think what the #MeToo objective is trying to highlight is where people with power (could be physically, chemically, or financially) abuse it and it does not get reported.

I had a similiar experience where a girlfriend that I was about to dump woke me up for sex. She got aggresive and wanted to do it without a condom. I thought she would get the idea when I said no but she tried to muscle me. I was easily able to get her off of me and was only uncomfortable after the encounter. If it had been me trying the same thing with her, it would have been different.

 

[BLAZINGGIANTS]

I was told that I wasn't allowed to say "me too" or express any encounters I have had, because as a white male, I am privileged and expressing my story would only detract from the movement.

So I must remain silent.

No. Fucking. Joke.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Maybe El Pres can share more, but it sounded like someone with special needs was being inappropriate with him. Not sure how it affected him, but guessing it was not as bad as someone that was in the same position but it was someone that had more power. I think all are inappropriate but think what the #MeToo objective is trying to highlight is where people with power (could be physically, chemically, or financially) abuse it and it does not get reported.

I had a similiar experience where a girlfriend that I was about to dump woke me up for sex. She got aggresive and wanted to do it without a condom. I thought she would get the idea when I said no but she tried to muscle me. I was easily able to get her off of me and was only uncomfortable after the encounter. If it had been me trying the same thing with her, it would have been different.

It freaked me out. The athlete was an older person, probably in his 30s. He was a pretty big/strong guy, just not fully mentally developed. He had asked me to take him into the bathroom and was "scratching" his crotch area the whole time there and kept on asking to help him in the bathroom and signaling his hand to go into the stall, and I wasn't going to do that. He was in there a good 10-15 minutes, then I knocked to make sure he was ok, he came out with a full erection and then kept on following me and pointing at his dick trying to touch me with it. Like I said, I reported this to the coordinators, who looked like they were unsure of what to do and kind of brushed the whole thing off.

 

[Charcoal Filtered]

I was told that I wasn't allowed to say "me too" or express any encounters I have had, because as a white male, I am privileged and expressing my story would only detract from the movement.

So I must remain silent.

No. Fucking. Joke.

Wow. So also as a white privileged male, I have been immune to sexual assault this whole time? Guess I do not have to worry about my son anymore?

It freaked me out. The athlete was an older person, probably in his 30s. He was a pretty big/strong guy, just not fully mentally developed. He had asked me to take him into the bathroom and was "scratching" his crotch area the whole time there and kept on asking to help him in the bathroom and signaling his hand to go into the stall, and I wasn't going to do that. He was in there a good 10-15 minutes, then I knocked to make sure he was ok, he came out with a full erection and then kept on following me and pointing at his dick trying to touch me with it. Like I said, I reported this to the coordinators, who looked like they were unsure of what to do and kind of brushed the whole thing off.

Thanks for clarifying. For those that are brushing this off as a joke, I think the fact that nothing was done after you reported it has a whole lot of merit. His mental capacity changes the situation slightly but something should have been corrected. Betting that you are not the only person that he did this to and they may not have been able to defend themselves. By doing nothing, they made it more likely someone else would be assaulted.

 

[TradeNurkicNow]

How is the thread a joke? This is happening across social media (look up Alyssa milano)

Because you started it.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Because you started it.

Victim shaming. Got it.

Its just all part of the problem.

"You can't believe what she says based on her past behavior".

Bravo.

 

[TradeNurkicNow]

Victim shaming. Got it.

Its just all part of the problem.

"You can't believe what she says based on her past behavior".

Bravo.

The biggest troll on the forum started a #metoo thread and is surprised people think it's a joke. lmao

 

[barfo]

The biggest troll on the forum started a #metoo thread and is surprised people think it's a joke. lmao

???

Denny didn't start this thread.

barfo

 

[TradeNurkicNow]

Denny didn't start this thread.

Denny is next level. He's ascended past troll into performance art

 

[crandc]

In all honesty, is this sexual assault? I've always considered it a ridiculously funny story to tell.

Honestly, I would - but if you considered it just fun, truly, then I can't tell you what to feel.

What I feel is very uncomfortable that all these dudes are taking over "Me Too" and as usual making it a joke.

It's not.

And I sure as FUCK won't share with THIS group.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

The biggest troll on the forum started a #metoo thread and is surprised people think it's a joke. lmao

It is a safe space to share one's sexual assault experiences. Sorry they don't conform with your personal, privileged definition of what sexual assault is.

 

[TradeNurkicNow]

It is a safe space to share one's sexual assault experiences. Sorry they don't conform with your personal, privileged definition of what sexual assault is.

still trolling.

it's almost like constant trolling will make it so if you ever try to be serious, no one believes you.

huh, weird.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

still trolling.

it's almost like constant trolling will make it so if you ever try to be serious, no one believes you.

huh, weird.

I made this thread to show that males (who are primarily the participants on this board) can also be the victims of sexual assault and harassment. That the problem is larger than simply just limited to females.

These are our stories.

But continue to mock, ignore and victim shame.

 

[The Professional Fan]

I made this thread to show that males (who are primarily the participants on this board) can also be the victims of sexual assault and harassment. That the problem is larger than simply just limited to females.

These are our stories.

But continue to mock, ignore and victim shame.

You're either being completely disingenuous or you're trying to hijack a cause that has little to do with you. Either way, you're being a dick and you know it. @hoojacks is 100% correct.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

You're either being completely disingenuous or you're trying to hijack a cause that has little to do with you. Either way, you're being a dick and you know it. @hoojacks is 100% correct.

So the "cause" can only be appropriated by women? Males cannot be the victims of sexual assault?

The stories listed here say otherwise. And for many, its comforting to be able to discuss them.

 

[The Professional Fan]

So the "cause" can only be appropriated by women? Males cannot be the victims of sexual assault?

The stories listed here say otherwise. And for many, its comforting to be able to discuss them.

Again, you're hijacking to prove a point. You're lessening the impact to women, period. And you know this. And you know what you're doing. But whatever. Doesn't change anything. Trolls be trollin'

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Again, you're hijacking to prove a point. You're lessening the impact to women, period. And you know this. And you know what you're doing. But whatever. Doesn't change anything. Trolls be trollin'

You are qualifying sexual assault

 

[Charcoal Filtered]

So the "cause" can only be appropriated by women? Males cannot be the victims of sexual assault?

The stories listed here say otherwise. And for many, its comforting to be able to discuss them.

We better start going after the media for bringing up Corey Feldman. White and male.

#ALLASSAULTSMATTER

 

[TradeNurkicNow]

You are qualifying sexual assault

you're being disingenuous to score coolguy meme points. nice virtue signaling, bro. should I look for screencaps of this thread on 8chan?

 

[JfizzleBlazer]

Honestly, I would - but if you considered it just fun, truly, then I can't tell you what to feel.

What I feel is very uncomfortable that all these dudes are taking over "Me Too" and as usual making it a joke.

It's not.

And I sure as FUCK won't share with THIS group.

Huh? I'm sorry, when did I take it over and make it into a joke? It is a seriously shitty event that happens in many peoples lives.

I had nothing to share because I thankfully have never experienced it, so I shared two stories of people that were close to me and meant something to me.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

you're being disingenuous to score coolguy meme points. nice virtue signaling, bro. should I look for screencaps of this thread on 8chan?

Weird.

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

Honestly, I would - but if you considered it just fun, truly, then I can't tell you what to feel.

What I feel is very uncomfortable that all these dudes are taking over "Me Too" and as usual making it a joke.

It's not.

And I sure as FUCK won't share with THIS group.

It isn't funny. It seems like almost every woman and maybe half of men were assaulted in some way.

I think men feel like they should have stopped it and if they didn't they aren't a real man. Most of the stories are of kids so why they feel that way is anyone's guess.

Even if this thread was all trolling it might help if people realize how bad human beings really are. I wouldn't trust my kids with anyone (one major reason I don't want any)

 

[Charcoal Filtered]

It isn't funny. It seems like almost every woman and maybe half of men were assaulted in some way.

I think men feel like they should have stopped it and if they didn't they aren't a real man. Most of the stories are of kids so why they feel that way is anyone's guess.

Even if this thread was all trolling it might help if people realize how bad human beings really are. I wouldn't trust my kids with anyone (one major reason I don't want any)

Can only speak for myself and cannot speak for anyone else, you included. Hopefully by my sharing what happened to me does not minimize what happened to you. You felt what you felt with your experience. Guessing if you had tried to press charges that it would not have went anywhere.

Agreed that this thread should not be derailed because people have issues with El Prez.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

You mean they have issues with themselves.

 

[theprunetang]

I was told that I wasn't allowed to say "me too" or express any encounters I have had, because as a white male, I am privileged and expressing my story would only detract from the movement.

So I must remain silent.

No. Fucking. Joke.

Yeah. I shared that I had been drugged and raped. And got told that it doesn't mean the same thing because I don't have to deal with the same things women do. And that I shouldn't have posted it.

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

Yeah. I shared that I had been drugged and raped. And got told that it doesn't mean the same thing because I don't have to deal with the same things women do. And that I shouldn't have posted it.

Here? I miss something? I often do.

Either way that is fucked up.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Yeah. I shared that I had been drugged and raped. And got told that it doesn't mean the same thing because I don't have to deal with the same things women do. And that I shouldn't have posted it.

I hope you told them to lick your balls.

 

[theprunetang]

Here? I miss something? I often do.

Either way that is fucked up.

Facebook.

I get that men and women have to deal with different things. I prefaced my post with that as well. I understand that I don't have to deal with 90 percent of what women do. But, sexual assault can effect anybody, and no one's personal experience should be devalued based on their gender.

I was told that my rape didn't matter and that should take my post down because it was distracting from the narrative. I didn't post my experience lightly or as a joke. I saw brave people sharing their stories and found the courage finally share my experience and now I just kind of feel like shit. Thanks internet!