I’ll give you this, a lot of cops end up with drinking problems because of the crap they see.
I said earlier in this thread that I was robbed at gun point by a couple Black men, and I will admit that it took me a while to mentally over come that, like being out alone, or when people would walk up behind me on the street.
I don’t know the answer though, I think Cops are put in poor positions, poorly trained, make huge mistakes all the time, and I think a lot of them never intended to go kill someone that day.
I also understand I will never know what’s it’s like to be a Black Guy in America, and while I believe I am empathetic to their struggle. I can’t really say if fearing every police officer is “right” or”wrong”, but I understand that sometime instinct kind of takes over and when we feel like we might be in danger, it’s more about survival than is it right to feel this way.
Like in the story you told of you and your son at Starbucks, I don’t know if those cops even thought twice about the fact you were there, but it sounds like (at least to me) the instinct are these guys out to get me, came up.
I hope this doesn’t sound like I’m making excuses for cops, or like I’m being a racist. I want to be involved in this discussion because I honestly wish I could help be a part of the solution, but maybe I just can’t be.