OT Opinion: Why I felt trapped by violent misogyny at the Wally Awards

[BlazerDuckSeahawkFan94]

Wrong event to be doing what he did, that’s for sure.

 

[Cippy91]

So the same white dudes who whitesplain to dviss "there is no racism" mansplain "there is no misogyny". Big surprise (not).

Do any of you know any women? Because any women, OK, 99% of women, would hear a threat.

A man says over and over you owe me sex. You are obligated to be fucked by me. It is required that I fuck you. What if she says no? What if she doesn't want it? And he says she is required? Do I really have to fucking spell it out in words of one syllable? OK, word of one syllable.

Rape.

Because if she is obligated to be fucked by him she can't say no. If she is required to be fucked by him he can do it by force if she says no. And every woman, OK, 99% of women, would hear a threat there.

Ask any woman how she felt when a man said she was required to be fucked by him. 99% heard a threat.

I can see why Terry Porter and other black men left, aside from being decent human beings, because this pathetic excuse for a man fed into the old racist SHIT about how all men of color, especially black men, want in life is to fuck/rape white women. You know, Mexico "sends rapists" to the US. Not to rape Latina women or Black women, Mexico is "sending rapists" to rape pristine little white girls.

Most of you are too young to remember Mary Bacon. She was a jockey. Although small stature is an advantage in that sport, most jockeys are still men, so she had quite a following. Until she revealed she was a member of the Ku Klux Klan, whom she described as "good Christian white people". (Some "very good people" as Trump later said.) When sportswriters castigated her for her Klan membership she told them, in these exact words, "when one of your wives or daughters gets raped by a n----r, you'll consider joining the Klan".

That the University allowed this fuckhead to continue is a disgrace. Someone in authority needed to take the stage and take the microphone away, then tell him to leave and apologize. Not let this shit go on and then say "have fun".

And neither the brave woman who wrote the article, nor I, nor any other woman, needs bodyman, maris, cippy, or anyone else to mansplain that gee we are just too sensitive. As Emma Gonzalez says, I call bullshit.

Lol. Been in a relationship for 6 years. This isn’t mansplaining. Nobody said racism doesn’t exist and same with misogyny but you’re over exaggerating on this one, go figure. I also believe this dude never said anything about rape so I don’t know where that comes from and he never said women owe him sex. He made a couple dumb jokes that weren’t funny. That’s all he’s guilty of

 

[Cippy91]

You aren't too sensitive. You are too wrong. Show me one quote where the moron said "women owe me sex"

Where? Where? Where?

Olivia Sanchez is the one who said something about women owing him sex.

If I missed the tennis guy saying it please for the love of God quote it.

Come on, I know you can do it?

Otherwise we just have the same lesbian woman saying the same brainwashed bullshit.

If you have your way you'll soon change the name of the fucking dictionary to "mansplainer"

We are mansplaining misogynists and racists now according to some ideologues on this forum. It’s gets crazier and crazier every day. Fuck logic though

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

The Backlash is purely white privilege. White feminist values being imposed upon this young fellow who likes to fuck but cannot due to social structures imposed by basic white bitches.


Imagine if you were an Indian Male at the University of Portland. You would feel the pressure to conform to white values.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

"Gandhi didn’t fast for twenty days so that I could get to America and not sleep with white women."

Lol

 

[riverman]

You would feel the pressure to conform to white values.

uh...his speech was more Calcutta than Omaha dude....let's say he's an athlete in the throngs of a deep sexual panic and it's turned him into an asshole and leave it at that..dude embarrassed himself...good luck on the job market graduate!

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

uh...his speech was more Calcutta than Omaha dude....let's say he's an athlete in the throngs of a deep sexual panic and it's turned him into an asshole and leave it at that..dude embarrassed himself...good luck on the job market graduate!

He's going to get fame pussy from this.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

SORRY FOR BEING A SEXUAL BEING, CRACKAZ. BROWN PEOPLE NEED TO EXPRESS THEMSELVES TOO.

 

[barfo]

I think we've identified his target audience.

El Prez, maybe you could book him for a private show? Get his standup career restarted?

barfo

 

[MarAzul]

SORRY FOR BEING A SEXUAL BEING, CRACKAZ. BROWN PEOPLE NEED TO EXPRESS THEMSELVES TOO.

Perhaps you can help the dude out. He does need some training before bad shit happens to him. A mouth like that, attracts attention.


The dude sort of reminds me of fellow I worked with, from Delhi. When we worked together
we walked the circle around the parking lot at the lab after lunch each day. Shoot the shit for the most part, but he was kind a like this guy, always talking about stuff, that maybe was not quite right. Little fellow too, I sort of worried about him a little.

Ha! This fella always dressed the best, sharp looking suite everyday. I don't remember what brought it up, but one day I ask him where he shopped for his cloths? I mean, they usually don't have quality suites like yours in the boys department.

 

[riverman]

BROWN PEOPLE NEED TO EXPRESS THEMSELVES TOO.

rub one off and the urge will go away prez! who knows...maybe you can talk him into moving to LA? He'd blend right in in Hollywood.

 

[BlazerWookee]

Maybe I missed something.... but most of the jokes he made were just crass and uncouth. I didn't see anything about rape or violence. It's really hard for me to take someone seriously when they take something that's obviously inappropriate, but they want to go yard and make it even more than it already is. This guy sounds like a real piece of shit, but why make it about something that it's not?

Booyah.

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

Why did Terry Porter get to tell him to knock it off and then walk out? He should have put the kid in a sleeper hold at least.

 

[Cippy91]

Why did Terry Porter get to tell him to knock it off and then walk out? He should have put the kid in a sleeper hold at least.

Somebody also needs to tell me why just because terry porter and some others walked out, that it’s even a bigger deal. I understand it’s terry porter, blazer legend but damn some of you only reference this. You don’t know terry porter as quite frankly I question his decisions especially after he made that lemonade commercial

 

[UncleCliffy'sDaddy]

The Backlash is purely white privilege. White feminist values being imposed upon this young fellow who likes to fuck but cannot due to social structures imposed by basic white bitches.


Imagine if you were an Indian Male at the University of Portland. You would feel the pressure to conform to white values.

Imagine if you were a white male at an Indian university. You would feel pressure to conform to Indian values. I guess what I’m saying is that maybe this U of P idiot is full of resentment and acting out because he can’t rape with impunity.....like they do in his native country......Indian chauvinistic values imposed on this young white fellow who likes to fuck but cannot due to social strucures imposed by basic respect for other human beings.....see what I did there?

 

[Cippy91]

Imagine if you were a white male at an Indian university. You would feel pressure to conform to Indian values. I guess what I’m saying is that maybe this U of P idiot is full of resentment and acting out because he can’t rape with impunity.....like they do in his native country......Indian chauvinistic values imposed on this young white fellow who likes to fuck but cannot due to social strucures imposed by basic respect for other human beings.....see what I did there?

What’s up with this whole this dude wants to rape girls narrative? He told a joke now all of a sudden certain members on this forum say he just wants to rape girls and shit he never said. They were jokes that didn’t go over well. At all. That’s all there is to it. Doesn’t make him a rapist or misogynist. Makes him horrible at trying to be funny. That’s all

 

[Cippy91]

Why did Terry Porter get to tell him to knock it off and then walk out? He should have put the kid in a sleeper hold at least.

Look at this fucking rapist and misogynist piece of shit. There years before he would go on stage and rape a girl with words. Wow I can’t believe it. She’s scarred the rest of her life, ptsd and all that, somebody get her help quick.

 

[UncleCliffy'sDaddy]

What’s up with this whole this dude wants to rape girls narrative? He told a joke now all of a sudden certain members on this forum say he just wants to rape girls and shit he never said. They were jokes that didn’t go over well. At all. That’s all there is to it. Doesn’t make him a rapist or misogynist. Makes him horrible at trying to be funny. That’s all

How can any human being with any kind of intelligence and awareness be so oblivious to where we are in our current culture that they think it is okay to stand up in front of a room (at an athletic function no less) full gender and racial diversity and think those kinds of remarks are acceptable in any situation, but especially that one??? Sorry you don’t get that but I guess (hopefully) it will come with age and experience. Become a father to a daughter and then tell us what you think. That idiot should have saved his remarks for beer night with like minded buddies.....if he had to share them at all.

 

[MarAzul]

if he had to share them at all.

Ha! Well the guys from the subcontinent need a little help. But spot on you are.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

Perhaps you can help the dude out. He does need some training before bad shit happens to him. A mouth like that, attracts attention.

The dude sort of reminds me of fellow I worked with, from Delhi. When we worked together
we walked the circle around the parking lot at the lab after lunch each day. Shoot the shit for the most part, but he was kind a like this guy, always talking about stuff, that maybe was not quite right. Little fellow too, I sort of worried about him a little.

Ha! This fella always dressed the best, sharp looking suite everyday. I don't remember what brought it up, but one day I ask him where he shopped for his cloths? I mean, they usually don't have quality suites like yours in the boys department.

You have to be a top 1% Indian dude to get white girls.

 

[Cippy91]

How can any human being with any kind of intelligence and awareness be so oblivious to where we are in our current culture that they think it is okay to stand up in front of a room (at an athletic function no less) full gender and racial diversity and think those kinds of remarks are acceptable in any situation, but especially that one??? Sorry you don’t get that but I guess (hopefully) it will come with age and experience. Become a father to a daughter and then tell us what you think. That idiot should have saved his remarks for beer night with like minded buddies.....if he had to share them at all.

I just told you the only thing he is dumb for is for telling these jokes in 2018 especially at the university of Portland. However he said nothing about raping anybody. He basically made a joke campaigning for white girls to have sex with Indian guys. Nothing about rape, nothing violent or even violating. Sure he can be a moron for telling the jokes but to say he went up there and said things he didn’t and go act like he was serious is just ridiculous.

 

[riverman]

You have to be a top 1% Indian dude to get white girls.

You need to be a guru with a fleet of Rolls Royce's and a whole county in Oregon

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

How can any human being with any kind of intelligence and awareness be so oblivious to where we are in our current culture that they think it is okay to stand up in front of a room (at an athletic function no less) full gender and racial diversity and think those kinds of remarks are acceptable in any situation, but especially that one??? Sorry you don’t get that but I guess (hopefully) it will come with age and experience. Become a father to a daughter and then tell us what you think. That idiot should have saved his remarks for beer night with like minded buddies.....if he had to share them at all.

THAT is all true. All fine and dandy. Has nothing to do with his words being called violent.

I don't think we have video of his speech yet (which seems unbelievable) but I did read one article where he supposedly said women owe him sex. I'm not sure if he did say that or make any rape jokes.

Either way, his speech still isn't violence. Someone is going to become violent with one of these kids to show them the difference one day and it won't be pretty.

Words are not now and have never been the same thing as violence. They can incite violence but they aren't violence.

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

I just told you the only thing he is dumb for is for telling these jokes in 2018 especially at the university of Portland. However he said nothing about raping anybody. He basically made a joke campaigning for white girls to have sex with Indian guys. Nothing about rape, nothing violent or even violating. Sure he can be a moron for telling the jokes but to say he went up there and said things he didn’t and go act like he was serious is just ridiculous.

We don't really know what he said do we?

 

[Cippy91]

We don't really know what he said do we?

We don’t. That’s why I wish there was video of it in full context and tone. To me it sounds like he was trying to be funny and do this award show monologue funny thing but obviously he isn’t that funny which is why he plays tennis. Also, we are taking quotes word for word from a girl who claims she was shaking from these words you shouldn’t shake from and she felt violated. So who knows. It’s all stupid. We live in a simulation

 

[H.C.]

You know I can agree with @crandc that he should've been stopped sooner.
Also, If he submitted his speech, and it was approved. Heads need to roll.

But my question is...
Does every single person who takes the mic after this lone idiotic boy in this specific room on that night. Need to voice their displeasure and condemn the boy for his actions?
Do we as a society let this one boy, further ruin the night by allowing his words to put a halt to the award ceremony?
Or, can one or two people say what needs to be said. Then allow the ceremony to move on with honoring the student athletes?
Frankly, with your posts. And the part of the authors post I quoted earlier. That's what it seems like what you, and the author of the article want to everyone and anyone who steps up to the mic to condemn the boy.

I fully understand his thoughts aren't just lone by himself. There are other people in this world who believe the same way.
But to allow him to be the center of attention after his idiotic words were condemned. Further accomplishes his goal, to make the ceremony all about him.

Show him the door, condemn him and then get back to honoring the female & male student athletes who worked so hard to get to where they are.

Again, if he submitted his speech before hand, and it was approved by admins. Those admins need to face serious job consequences.

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

We don’t. That’s why I wish there was video of it in full context and tone. To me it sounds like he was trying to be funny and do this award show monologue funny thing but obviously he isn’t that funny which is why he plays tennis. Also, we are taking quotes word for word from a girl who claims she was shaking from these words you shouldn’t shake from and she felt violated. So who knows. It’s all stupid. We live in a simulation

The girl has the same temper problem I've had most of my life. I would get a physical reaction to my anger. Had to cry or smash something or someone to get it out.

If I somehow weathered the storm I'd have to twist my head until my neck cracked and I'd feel better.

 

[Cippy91]

The girl has the same temper problem I've had most of my life. I would get a physical reaction to my anger. Had to cry or smash something or someone to get it out.

If I somehow weathered the storm I'd have to twist my head until my neck cracked and I'd feel better.

The issue is she didn’t have a temper. She was shaking like she was in fear or something. It really makes me wonder what these kids are gonna do when they grow up and actually experience some crazy shit in their lives. If some Indian guy who says “go brown, it will turn your frown upside down” makes you shake and feel like you have been violated and that it was violence against women, then you’re in for a real fuckin treat when some real life shit happens. I’m 26 talking about people a few years younger than me and calling them kids. That’s the ridiculous part. Unfortunately that’s what they act like. It’s like what I said about people throwing out the word racist everywhere, what happened when the real tiki torch racists came out? That word didn’t mean shit anymore. So what happens when she really sees violence against women? It seems society is just making this stuff mean less and less. I wish this girl would go tell a woman who has been abused or raped her little sob story about an Indian kid telling inappropriate jokes and saying she was also a victim of violence against women and felt violated. It’s absurd

It’s another reason why feminism and this whole way of thinking is toxic. The wage gap myth, all that shit. You want real oppression. Look at the Middle East and how women are treated there. They get beat and if they speak up or go to the police, they get beat some more and told their husband was probably right. They have to wear their hijab. They can’t show anything. No freedom. You’re just a slave to your husband. Now that’s some fucked up shit worth fighting for. When it comes to these American women doing this shit, fuck them and their little pussy hats. No wonder they are single.

 

[julius]

Just a brown guy from a different culture who basically did a Jimmy Kimmel (white guy) monologue, but for some strange reason JK's fans didn't laugh.

Probably because they're racists!

Come on now, the only reason you know the name "Jimmy Kimmel" is because you watch Hannity. You've never seen his show, or know what any of his monologues look like or sound like. You said his name so you would feel like you fit in.

 

[stampedehero]

Here ya go.. Take that ...you skinny prick..