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No matter what your believes are, there is a lot of good information here if any of you are curious. He was on there for 6 so I'll break up one questions and answer by post.

Also he's pretty damn funny.

 
If god forgives all, why is there hell?


He forgives us when we ask. If we choose to go against Him our whole lives, then He will not force us to be with Him in eternal life. He won't violate our free will.
 
BYW, me posting this is not an endorsement of his or the Catholic churches believes or views. I may or may not agree with what he's saying but I respect what he says and how he says it.
 
How difficult was the decision to forgo the possibility of marriage/having a family when you became a priest?

If you don't want to be a natural father, that's a huge red flag for men wanting to be priests.
I would have loved to have kids, so it was a sacrifice. Thankfully, I'm still a spiritual father and I can still be involved in people's lives and still form good relationships.
 
Can Catholic priests drink booze besides wine?


Can and do. I have Johnny Walker Red (high class!) in my cabinet. It might happen tonight.
And, BTW, it's not wine at Mass. What's in the chalice after Consecration is Jesus.
 
Do you believe in life on other planets?

It could exist. There are many, many planets out there.



Would you consider those alien beings to be creatures of God as well ?

God made the universe, so Yes. The Vatican actually has a fairly official opinion about this if you care to google it.

The official response is that God is responsible for life, so any life in the Universe is also by his design and equally welcome.
 
As a born and raised Catholic I always wondered how the priests could afford material things. I know priests are supposed to do away with material things but I know the one priest at my parish has a car and always wondered how he paid for it. Basically I guess I'm asking how do you have any money that you have and do you own a car, cell phone, etc.

Diocesan priests agree to live simply, but we do not have a vow of poverty (that's religious order priests, like Jesuits and Franciscans). My food and housing are paid for by the church I work for and I get a small allowance for my car. I also receive a salary like any other white collar worker.
I do have a cell phone that I pay for myself. It's an android smart phone. I'm cool and hip! Cowabunga! Wazzup!
 
How do you respond when someone tells you that they disagree with your beliefs?

It depends on the disagreement. Usually I sit and listen, unless it's Universalists. Then I jump on the table and strangle them.
Are you by any chance a Universalist?



Whats a universalist?



They're the ones that killed Elvis and they run the military industrial complex.
 
What are your thoughts on condoms?

I believe with the Church, so "intrinsically immoral".

Care to elaborate, why do you see them as immoral?

The Church saying so is enough, but I have also studied why. They separate the two necessary elements to the "marital act" (sex): unitive and procreative. Condoms remove the procreative element from sex, therefore making a lie out of sex.
With sex, the Church is a romantic. The Church wants it only to be within marriage between spouses. In marriage, you give yourself entirely to the other. If you hold something back, you're lying to them.
Therefore, by condoms holding back the procreative part of sex, the spouse is lying to the other- the act says "I give myself entirely" but the reality of the condom says "except this".
That's why the Church, if grave need is present, opts for NFP.




Is there any room for the idea that, for example, in parts of Africa or Eastern Europe where HIV and AIDS are rampant, that condoms are the lesser of two evils in sustaining human life, so we may be uniting and procreating without spreading disease that kills in a terrible way?
I don't ask this to be provocative, I simply am a big believer in radical acceptance of reality, and I don't really think abstinence answers this question effectively. It'd be nice if this wasn't the situation, but that isn't reality, and it would be helpful if the catholic church could answer this question in a way that addresses reality. I mean, we could work on education, but these are impoverished areas that still practice genital mutilation and breast ironing as measures to deter intercourse, and yet it keeps happening anyhow. So, can the church find some sort of balance between faith and reality, so people don't spread disease and die before fulfilling God's plan for them?



You'll have to see the Pope. I think condoms are still "intrinsically immoral". As for the rest, the Church doesn't want us mutilating people.



Do you believe that things may be "intrinsically immoral" despite not being decreed so by the Bible, or by the Church? I would appreciate if you could expand on your meaning of "intrinsically immoral so that I may understand what you are implying.

The Church does not rely on the Bible alone. That would be Protestants. We also have tradition and the magisterium.




So having sex should be for procreation, but here is a way that the Catholic church recommends that allows you to have sex without it resulting in a child.
Huh.


No. Sex is meant to be unitive and procreative, not "just for children". Children are the natural 'fruit' of sex, but that's not the sole purpose.
Also, as I mentioned, grave necessity must be present for the use of NFP.
 
Opinion on Gay Marriage? Personal, not just a copy o the official church standpoint

I believe with the Church. Too many people think secular laws = morality, too, which complicates things.
I think it should be civil unions for everyone and let us (and any other group) do marriages on our own.
 
Are there non-Catholics in heaven? Protestants? Buddhists? Folks that were around before Jesus/The Bible? People never exposed to Catholicism?
Can I be a very good person and non-Catholic all my life and still be saved?


Sure. The New Testament talks about the prophets in Heaven and they're not Catholic. Others can get there, but it's easiest through the Church.
 
I'm a catholic and this has been bugging me for a while.
I understand that the Church teaches that faith and good works are needed to enter into the Kingdom of God, but I also understand that the Church rejects nothing that is true and holy (I believe JP2 used Buddhism and Hinduism as examples).
Correct me if this is wrong, but it essentially means that even if a religion has drastically different teachings to the popular monotheistic religions, that they can still achieve enlightenment in the afterlife so long as their moral teachings are reasonable.
The Catholic Church also teaches that hell is a place of separation from God, and also of suffering by the "eternal fire."
Which brings me to my question. Atheists don't have anything that is true and holy, since they reject all that is holy. Thus, separation from God makes perfect sense, since why would someone who rejected Him all their life want to spend eternity with Him? However, I have a hard time believing that a merciful God would condemn someone who is inherently good and does many good things in the world to an eternity of suffering in the fire and brimstone of hell. So what happens to these inherently good people who happen not to believe in a higher power?
Sorry for the long explanation, I just wanted everyone to understand the frame of mind I have.



even if a religion has drastically different teachings to the popular monotheistic religions, that they can still achieve enlightenment in the afterlife
They may be able to get to heaven, but it will be much more difficult than being a Catholic.
Atheists don't have anything that is true and holy, since they reject all that is holy.
That depends on the individual atheist. They may revere truth (Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life), they may revere love (God is Love), they may do all sorts of things.
Thus, separation from God makes perfect sense, since why would someone who rejected Him all their life want to spend eternity with Him?
They may be rejecting what they think God is and yet be close to Him elsewhere through a pursuit of doing what is right.

I hope that helps.
 
What do you make of the child abuse allegations towards the Catholic Church? In all honesty, is there any truth to them?

I think it's terrible. Of course there is truth to them. Some people are scumbags who abuse kids and some of them become priests.
 
What're your thoughts on evolution?
Should schools be required to teach creationism and forbidden to teach evolution or vise versa?


I believe with the Church. The Church says it's (evolution is) the best looking theory for how God (ultimately) did it. It doesn't explain the soul, but it does a good job of everything else.
 
I only read Sly's exerpts--

So Catholics have no problem with alien civilizations, do not follow the Bible's every word ("That would be Protestants."), believe in evolution, and believe that non-Christians and atheists can get into heaven, since they may believe in God's principles while saying they don't.

I always found Roman Catholicism to be more liberal than Protestantism more often than not.
 

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