OT Rant

[Minstrel]

I’m not sure whether we agree or disagree.

It's the internet. You definitely disagree and you guys should probably try to pummel each other into submission.

 

[H.C.]

I’m the opposite. My parents are great and there when we need them. My wife’s? No. They don’t exist to us. Ain’t happening.

I fully trust your judgement on the matter and would never question it.
But as someone whos spent a decent amount of time around your kids. I feel sorry for your wife's parents for not having the pleasure of knowing their granddaughters.

But I understand to a point as my biological father won't know mine.

 

[jlprk]

3. An amended return is not what I'd have to do. So please before you attempt to give someone advice.... How is it you say it constantly and tell other posters to say the same thing to me? Shove it up your ass.

It's exactly what you should do, if you want to reverse your overpayment. She should, too. If she doesn't, your amended return will trigger her being fined.

If you'd rather overpay your tax to avoid arguing with her, then let it all go.

As for telling people to stick it up their ass, you're the only one I've said that to. It worked. You stopped stalking me on the board.

 

[H.C.]

It's exactly what you should do, if you want to reverse your overpayment. She should, too. If she doesn't, your amended return will trigger her being fined.

If you'd rather overpay your tax to avoid arguing with her, then let it all go.

As for telling people to stick it up their ass, you're the only one I've said that to. It worked. You stopped stalking me on the board.

too long, didn't read.
Go troll someone else.

 

[PtldPlatypus]

All these responses attacking the OP, or even telling him how to fix the situation when he specifically said he didn't want advice on how to fix it are crap. A little empathy can go a long way.

Hey @H.C.--that situation really sucks, and it's really crappy when family treats you poorly. I'm sorry to hear that, and I hope that somehow you're able to find a way to improve the situation.

 

[MarAzul]

I agree with @MarAzul?!?!?

 

[Lanny]

I have to get this out.
Not looking for assistance in fixing the issue as I know what I'd have to do.
It's just a rant.

I'm not close with my parents at all. Neither of them were really a 'parent' during my childhood.
One has got better, while the other is MIA in a different state.
I'm fine with this and I've moved on for the most part because negative people are forever negative people.

This is MY mistake for trusting people.

My mother decided to make it easy on me because I'm always super busy and e-file my taxes for me this year.
I was over the phone with her at the time.
Apparently she checked the box 'allow someone to claim me as a dependent.'
Claiming me as a dependent gave her an additional 500$. While it murdered my return.

Let me be very clear, I pay for everything I have.
I have no bills, no debt(except to a grandparent due to an 8 year college degree that will be paid off with interest in 2 1/2 years) I'm very responsible with my money. My grandmother was an accountant for big law firms, over the summer she forced all 11 of her grandchildren starting at age 8 to learn how to manage money.
At the time I hated it, now I thank her for it. As I'm unlike my friends who have thousands of debt due to CC or student loans.
I buy my mother groceries and give her gas money if she needs it. She doesn't ask, I simply go to her house. Look in the kitchen and see how much she has. Then I go to the store and get groceries. Sometimes she goes with me, other times she doesn't.

If she needed or even WANTED 500$ I would've gave it to her without hesitation. Literally no questions asked.
But no she decided to be shady and screw me out of my return. Which would've been FAR FAR FAR FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR FUCKING MORE THAN 500$.
Who knows maybe she didn't know it would murder my return. But why the fuck would you even attempt it.


I'm livid right now for trusting people.
Haven't been this mad in a long, long time.
Mad at myself.
DTA especially family.

I had similar problems with my mother.
On the other hand, I was extremely close to my father but he died in a fishing accident on the Dechutes while I was away in combat.
Thank God for my wife and my new relationship with my father's side of the family in Alabama. I've now contacted 17 cousins from that side of the family and my remaining three aunts. There is a lot of love coming from them and I need it and welcome it.

 

[Natebishop3]

telling him how to fix the situation when he specifically said he didn't want advice on how to fix it are crap.

You think I can just turn this off???

 

[MarAzul]

All these responses attacking the OP, or even telling him how to fix the situation when he specifically said he didn't want advice on how to fix it are crap. A little empathy can go a long way.

Hey @H.C.--that situation really sucks, and it's really crappy when family treats you poorly. I'm sorry to hear that, and I hope that somehow you're able to find a way to improve the situation.

Does going halfway count?

 

[dviss1]

Not the post you liked that told him to go fuck himself and grow a brain? Just the goofy response Maris posted?

Really bro, how you gonna take Maris side right here?

And yes, somebody saying what he said deserves to Fuck off.

 

[dviss1]

Hey @H.C.--that situation really sucks, and it's really crappy when family treats you poorly. I'm sorry to hear that, and I hope that somehow you're able to find a way to improve the situation.

This is really easy to do y'all.

Really...

 

[BLAZINGGIANTS]

I fully trust your judgement on the matter and would never question it.
But as someone whos spent a decent amount of time around your kids. I feel sorry for your wife's parents for not having the pleasure of knowing their granddaughters.

But I understand to a point as my biological father won't know mine.

My kids are successful, intelligent, bright kids in spite of the damage their grand-ho brought upon them. Moving out here has brought out the best in them, and you’re aware of their intelligence, kindness, etc.

 

[BLAZINGGIANTS]

I will go ahead and claim victory while you're confused.

Your victory is weak and futile.

Like the rest of your posts.

 

[BLAZINGGIANTS]

It's the internet. You definitely disagree and you guys should probably try to pummel each other into submission.

Yeah.

We have a scheduled meeting at Mt. Tabor.

 

[MarAzul]

Mt. Tabor!
I haven't hear of this in quite some time.
Tag teams or grudge match?

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

Really bro, how you gonna take Maris side right here?

And yes, somebody saying what he said deserves to Fuck off.

Didn't take his side.

Hcp telling cippy he hopes he doesn't have kids because of his mentality deserves a punch in the ear. Cippy got banned. To me, anything cippy said after that point was fine. I'm not the one who is supposed to administer the rules. (Or let them slide on the rules and use an old agreement against them when they screw up)

Someone else liked that post but I had to go back and look who it was because a regular poster liking it is perfectly acceptable to me.

This is just like a cop "accidentally" smashing a murder suspect's head into the door of the cop car because the guy deserves it.

 

[THE HCP]

Didn't take his side.

Hcp telling cippy he hopes he doesn't have kids because of his mentality deserves a punch in the ear. Cippy got banned. To me, anything cippy said after that point was fine. I'm not the one who is supposed to administer the rules. (Or let them slide on the rules and use an old agreement against them when they screw up)

Someone else liked that post but I had to go back and look who it was because a regular poster liking it is perfectly acceptable to me.

This is just like a cop "accidentally" smashing a murder suspect's head into the door of the cop car because the guy deserves it.

I’m not quite sure, but I believe I said I hope he didn’t pass his beliefs along to his children. I don’t believe I said that I hoped he didn’t HAVE children. Did you misquote me on purpose? Maybe I’m not remembering correctly though. And are you implying that he got banned BECAUSE of me? I don’t think that’s what happened.

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

I’m not quite sure, but I believe I said I hope he didn’t pass his beliefs along to his children. I don’t believe I said that I hoped he didn’t HAVE children. Did you misquote me on purpose? Maybe I’m not remembering correctly though. And are you implying that he got banned BECAUSE of me? I don’t think that’s what happened.

I think the mods have access to the deleted posts. You both had multiple posts deleted.

I remember the way I rephrased it being much much closer than the way you worded it.

Even still I'd have told you to fuck off for what you think you said.

 

[SlyPokerDog]

Can't we just all go back to talking about what a horrible person I am.

 

[SlyPokerDog]

Can't we just all go back to talking about what a horrible person I am.

Or dog.

 

[bodyman5000 and 1]

Can't we just all go back to talking about what a horrible person I am.

I need a break every so often.

 

[Lanny]

Can't we just all go back to talking about what a horrible person I am.

Well, I can. I don't even think it's going to be all that difficult to do.

 

[Lanny]

I think the mods have access to the deleted posts. You both had multiple posts deleted.

I remember the way I rephrased it being much much closer than the way you worded it.

Even still I'd have told you to fuck off for what you think you said.

Lookie here, telling someone to fuck off is just too much for me. I think I'm gonna go and have a good cry.
Nobody in the Army or on the construction site ever said anything like that to me. Well, maybe my wife. Okay, there was that altercation with my Priest. Oh, let's not forget my psychiatrist. Did I mention my best friend? How about my grandmother, she still gives me the finger.