At my American Legion Post we used to go to Friday Night Dances. Most of the people at that post got in on daddy or mommy or other relatives 214. I rode my own coat tails in there. Some bimbo asked me one night if I had an American Legion Card, I told her anyone can buy that but a personal 214 or DD Form two must be earned. I left the VFW for the same reason. Didn't used to be that way, I remember going to an American Legion Dance in Ashburnham Mass and the only reason we were let in was because we were active duty. A night out at a regular bar for us would not cost much more, I quit drinking (1974) and girlfriend limits herself at two.