School problems..

[KobeBryant_24]

I know this may sound weird asking advice from people I don't even know.......but I got a big problem. These "friends" of mine... well they basically treat me like sh*t day in and day out. Hit me multiple times, (not seriously), but they do and kick me and think it's funny. I went along with it as I thought it was just a joke. A few days later the guy told me he'd stop if I slapped this other kid, and I was like "WTF I'm not messed up like you:"...but anyway I can't fight back because I am not getting kicked off the football team. I can't stop going around there because one day I did and they looked all over for me and found me and then dragged me in the bathroom and hit and kicked me...it's complete bullsh** and has been going on for about 2 months...wtf should I do?

 

[GeraldGreen5]

when I first started reading I was going to say just spazz on em but I guess that aint an option. obviously the thing adults would tell you to do is tell a teacher, or a family member, or even tell your friends how they really feel, but lets be honest, this is the 21st century and if you do any of those you're going to get laughed at...so best advice I got is try to avoid em and just find a new group of people to hang around until after football then beat the sh*t outta em.

 

[Pacers fan forever]

<span style="font-size:36pt;line-height:100%">TELL AN ADULT</span>Tell an adult you're cool with - who understands teenage guys and will not panic or do some dorky tell on them thing. Hopefully they can help. If that doesn't help go to your religious leader and seek help from him/her.

 

[KobeBryant_24]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GeraldGreen5 @ Mar 20 2007, 03:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>when I first started reading I was going to say just spazz on em but I guess that aint an option. obviously the thing adults would tell you to do is tell a teacher, or a family member, or even tell your friends how they really feel, but lets be honest, this is the 21st century and if you do any of those you're going to get laughed at...so best advice I got is try to avoid em and just find a new group of people to hang around until after football then beat the sh*t outta em.</div>Avoid them until November????? And also I already tried to

 

[The Captain]

Next time just pull out an AR-15 or an M-16.They'll stop bothering you.Or just stop bathing for a few months. They won't even want to go near you.

 

[KobeBryant_24]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Pacers fan forever @ Mar 20 2007, 03:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-size:36pt;line-height:100%">TELL AN ADULT</span>Tell an adult you're cool with - who understands teenage guys and will not panic or do some dorky tell on them thing. Hopefully they can help. If that doesn't help go to your religious leader and seek help from him/her.</div>Like GG5 said.......it's the 21st century... that stuff doesn't fly no more

 

[Pacers fan forever]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (KobeBryant_24 @ Mar 20 2007, 06:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Like GG5 said.......it's the 21st century... that stuff doesn't fly no more</div>Did you read the whole thing? Tell an adult who ain't gonna do that stuff. Anyway. Who cares? <span style="font-size:36pt;line-height:100%">Being laughed at > Being bullied at</span>Besides, you can sue the bullies. If an adult tells them to stop and they continue to do it you can even call the police.

 

[tmgbball15]

I kind of would try avopdiding thema as much as possible but often that doesn't work all the time. So for the rest of the time just try and be in a group when u go near them cause I doubt theyll mess with more than 1 person

 

[GeraldGreen5]

Isn't being laughed at and being bullied kinda in the same boat though? So you'd basically be calling the police either way.

 

[Pacers fan forever]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (GeraldGreen5 @ Mar 20 2007, 06:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-size:12pt;line-height:100%">Isn't being laughed at and being bullied kinda in the same boat though?</span> So you'd basically be calling the police either way.</div>Nope, not even close.

 

[GeraldGreen5]

Well not physically the same, but if he told someone, and then people made fun of him for it then that would definitely still be bullying.However, at this point I kind of agree, doesn't seem like you have any other options out there to choose from besides telling someone.

 

[BrewCityBuck]

These people are your friends? Or just people you know that bother you? Just do your best to ignore them, you can't get kicked off the football team for defending yourself. If you do ignore them and they start something, defend yourself, I highly doubt you'd get in trouble if it were like three guys going after you.

 

[SirLaker]

Change schools? Find new friends...maybe bigger friends.

 

[BrewCityBuck]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (LakersFan247 @ Mar 20 2007, 05:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Change schools? Find new friends...maybe bigger friends.</div> Haha. Bring me to school Kobe, I'll put one of them in an escort hold and make them cry. :happy0144:

 

[KobeBryant_24]

I tried to go hang out with 2 of my other REAL friends but then they came and grabbed me annd threw me in the bathroom like I already said... loldont know wtf there problem is... I didnt do sh*t to them when we used to be friends

 

[SirLaker]

Better yet, since you are on the football team make friends with a group of guys on the team. I'm sure most of the team includes big tough dudes. It will take time, but eventually just start hanging out with them or invite them over after practice. (after you talk and stuff for a while during practice/games) Now I don't know if those assholes that mess with you are on the team or not but it doesn't matter. There are alot of people on a football team and I'm sure you can be friends with some of them while staying away from the assholes.

 

[P0W3RBALLIN]

Go get some new friends dude.

 

[yankshater213]

stop being a pussy about iteither beat the sh*t out of them or steer clear of them

 

[wade2shaq93]

Tell them to stop and if they dont tell someone or fight back...Once u show them your not afraid of them they'll probably stop messing with u. U can't get thrown off the football team if u protect yourself from kids that are hitting u, that's bullsh**

 

[KobeBryant_24]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (LakersFan247 @ Mar 20 2007, 03:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Better yet, since you are on the football team make friends with a group of guys on the team. I'm sure most of the team includes big tough dudes. It will take time, but eventually just start hanging out with them or invite them over after practice. (after you talk and stuff for a while during practice/games) Now I don't know if those assholes that mess with you are on the team or not but it doesn't matter. There are alot of people on a football team and I'm sure you can be friends with some of them while staying away from the assholes.</div>Dude one of the 2 people is my teammate.

 

[Pacers fan forever]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (wade2shaq93 @ Mar 20 2007, 06:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Tell them to stop and if they dont tell someone or fight back...Once u show them your not afraid of them they'll probably stop messing with u. U can't get thrown off the football team if u protect yourself from kids that are hitting u, that's bullsh**</div>Real life is bullsh** and you can be kicked off the team for fighting because there is always the "man".

 

[CB4allstar]

If they keep on doing this after you told them to stop, then they obviously aren't your friends. Stay away from them, and if they keep on doing this to you, you gotta confront them and do something about it, or else it will go on for ever.

 

[KobeBryant_24]

Yeah someone already got kicked off for fighting back last week

 

[wade2shaq93]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Pacers fan forever @ Mar 20 2007, 05:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Real life is bullsh** and you can be kicked off the team for fighting because there is always the "man".</div>your telling me, u would get punished for taking care of your well-being? I rather get kicked off the team than get beat up by some punk ass kids and possibly get seriously hurt.

 

[SirLaker]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (KobeBryant_24 @ Mar 20 2007, 03:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Dude one of the 2 people is my teammate.</div>Like I said, even if they are on the team it shouldn't matter. There are alot of people on a football team. Just start sort of hanging around someone else on the team that happens to be...idk...tough/big whatever. If the ***hole who is on the team tries to mess with you in practice or whatever while you are hanging around this new friend. THAT is when you defend yourself like you never have. Your new friend will notice you are not some pussy and will defend you after or next time it happens. Trust Me.BTW: I am giving you a seriously good idea and putting thought into this so... I'm just looking out for a fellow Laker fan.If all else fails, don't tell any old adult/teacher...tell a parent. Let them know how you feel and how you just want to get away..start over. So basically if nothing else just change schools. And when you get to your new school, stand up for yourself right away.

 

[wade2shaq93]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (KobeBryant_24 @ Mar 20 2007, 05:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Yeah someone already got kicked off for fighting back last week</div>Tell the coach that one of your teammates is bullying u and the coach might get him to stop? If not, it seems u either gotta decide if u rather get beat up or if u would rather stay on the team and take the beatings

 

[SirLaker]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (wade2shaq93 @ Mar 20 2007, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Tell the coach that one of your teammates is bullying u and the coach might get him to stop? If not, it seems u either gotta decide if u rather get beat up or if u would rather stay on the team and take the beatings</div>You obviously don't know football coaches. A coach will likely tell you to stop being a baby and just say stick up for yourself.

 

[wade2shaq93]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (LakersFan247 @ Mar 20 2007, 05:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>You obviously don't know football coaches. A coach will likely tell you to stop being a baby and just say stick up for yourself.</div>Not all football coaches are the same, Ive had a few and not all are like that. If u tell him what's going on he could threaten to kick the other guy off the team if he doesn't stop it. I would think that he cares for his players.

 

[GeraldGreen5]

If you tell the coach during off time then you're probably going to get a better response than if you tell him during practice or sometime like that.

 

[SirLaker]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (wade2shaq93 @ Mar 20 2007, 03:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Not all football coaches are the same, Ive had a few and not all are like that. If u tell him what's going on he could threaten to kick the other guy off the team if he doesn't stop it. I would think that he cares for his players.</div>Yeah, I guess it is possible. The coaches at my school are all assholes though.