Anyhow...
If I were shopping for a house, I wouldn't buy one in Cox Cable's service area. My experience is they're extremely well run but they have absurd data caps that serve no good purpose.
Before the FCC got involved, the cable companies and phone companies were routinely working on and deploying technology to speed up their service. I remember a few years ago at CTIA (on CSPAN), the Cable Companies demonstrated 150mbit Internet (25mbit was the fastest around at the time) and were eager to deploy it.
The carriers have this attitude I call "network boner syndrome." They all want the biggest, fastest, most bad ass networks they can build. Their business is building out and running WANs. They advertise their networks all the time (who has the best coverage, etc.).
The Internet always has had "fast lanes." Yahoo! early on spent $billions making their site reachable under situations where the network is having issues. They did so by distributing servers all over the world, with the result being that some servers would (almost) always be reachable due to shorter network path between browser and server (on average). Akamai and others have built entire businesses around Content Distribution Networks (CDNs) where you can distribute the files that are part of your WWW pages to their servers that are located all over the world in tens of thousands of locations. They sell their service as "PREMIUM BANDWIDTH."
A site like S2 doesn't warrant the use of a CDN due to its size. Google, Yahoo!, ESPN, etc., DO warrant the use of a CDN. An S2 user on the east coast has to fetch the RipCityTwo banner via the network and across the country, thousands of miles (think round trip, too), and all the potential congestion along the way. Fetching the google logo for their homepage is likely to access a server a few miles away, or even right on your ISP's network.
People are using loaded terminology to scare the masses about what's going on. The Internet has grown and become technically advanced as time goes on. It was working exactly as it should have all along.