So you want people to be respectful in their posts and interactions with, and you'll respond in kind, while at the same time firing off because of past instances and interactions instead of the specific topic and thread. And then tell others to be better?? People have been telling you for like 2 years or more now to put hcp on ignore but its like you're a masochist with it, I dunno.
It feels you believe there's some grand conspiracy here against you all the time, and you're here fighting the fight for the little guy while we all hob nob in secret hidden threads smoking cigars and stroking our beards. Or braids, sorry crandc!