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Yes..absolutely.When you say women decide does that include trans women?
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Yes..absolutely.When you say women decide does that include trans women?
This is an interesting question, and it makes me sad that folks assume a trans woman is just a man in women’s clothes. The effects of chemically transitioning are all-encompassing. That there are any trans women who are still built like men is a symptom of a health care system actively trying to keep us from getting the hormones we wanted when we wanted them.
Most trans women didn’t want their male puberty. If I had unlimited access to a Time Machine and hormones, I’d never have experienced the bone and muscle growth of a male puberty. I would have instead had the female puberty I wanted.
I didn’t want to be six feet tall. I didn’t want the muscles I got. I felt like a gorilla out there every day, covered in hair I didn’t want, feet the size of fucking aircraft carriers, gross in every way. Being so uncomfortable with locker rooms meant that I didn’t try out for sports after 9th grade.
If trans kids could just get access to the medicine they need, then the trans women athletes wouldn’t be “women with the bodies of grown men” in the first place. But instead of working for the betterment of all, the cis decide to deny us health care, then deny us participation BECAUSE they denied us health care. We get punished over and over and over because of fear.
With regards to athletic competition, If the women and trans women could come together and establish some guidelines for participation (I believe that's been done already) and have checks and balances to keep out those who are not meeting legit criteria and just fucking around. it can work.
The % of women trans that want to compete probably isn't all that great so it should be manageable.
Men would not have an issue with male trans if they wanted to compete so why should women? Just needs to be done correctly for women's sports.
I have a trans nephew who didn't begin transition until his 20s. Always been tall but frankly does not and probably never will look like a man. But at least he is happy, living and working in England and has a cute girlfriend.
Or kids for that matter.I wonder if that's the case? We don't seem hear about it as a concern, but I wonder how much of that is related to why gay men seem to get more hatred than gay women do? Not saying lesbians don't get attacked or marginalized, I'm sure they do. I just would assume that most of the marginalizing is done by straight men, and on average, I think straight men are fine with lesbians (as a sexual fantasy too).
Although that in itself is a form of marginalization, that straight men are capable of 'fixing' lesbian women.
Just don't get why we can't let adults be adults, with other adults.
Sorry if my question/comment came off as though I thought a trans woman is just a man in a woman's clothes. I just wondered if that was actually even a thing (in the sense of a clear cut "unfair" physical advantage). Don't know if that was clear or not. I don't think that a trans woman (or young woman/high school or college age) competing in a sports with cis women is just a case where a physically stronger (born) male is just going to by physically dominant as if there is no physical or muscular changes made.
Growing up I had a friend who was not very tall. Maybe 5'3". So he was smaller than your typical male. And if he were to compete against women, he wouldn't have dominated or in all honestly, probably even won, even though he was in great physical shape (he was deceptively strong).
I posit that people think that it's just a case of young boys/men who are bigger and stronger athletes just want to change into women for the sake of being able to kick ass. I think a lot of it is the examples we saw in TV shows and comedies that gave birth to this stereotype. I.e., Jim Carrey's Vera De Milo character from In Living Color (not that that character was trans, but it was a masculine female body builder), or Martin Lawrences Sheneneh (I don't think the Sheneneh character was supposed to be a trans woman, but imho, it was intended to belittle or make fun of trans women), or the professional wrestler Chyna (who had masculine features, and grew up constantly with people assuming she was a male, and fans and other wrestlers used that as a joke at her expense).
I think a lot more cis gender males can relate to some of that feeling. The uncomfortable with their body, I mean. Lord knows, especially if you're heavy or small or super skinny, etc, that it's not uncommon to feel uncomfortable in your own body. I'm not saying it's the same as being in the wrong body, though. We tend to be given the liberty of "growing into our bodies" etc, whereas I would assume that was not something you were afforded until much later in life and after a lot of help or counseling.
I don't disagree with you at all. But the fact that they are shitty people doesn't change the fact that they exist.
Shitty people will use this to ruin women's sports for one reason or another.
Yeah, I have no problem at all with any trans.See, this is why I said we should change the thread title to "I'm Dealing with a Few Cisgender Issues" lol
Like for fuck's sake. This is just cis-on-cis crime.
Yeah, I have no problem at all with any trans.
Only people who would destroy women's sports. My only concern, is in allowing women the ability to compete in fair competitions.
I just feel that women should not be disadvantaged in their sport or division, and anybody who would put them at a disadvantage should compete up to the next division. Nobody should ever be prevented from competing if they can compete.
I understand that it's a sensitive issue, but we have rules to make things possible for the most people.
There has to be a line somewhere that prevents abuse of the system.
Now, whatever is deemed to be fair, I'm alright with.
Perhaps a law allowing anybody who hasn't been through male puberty to compete with women would be fair? I'm not sure. I don't know if we even have enough information to make that call. If so, I'm good with it.
It seems certain that anybody who has gone through male puberty has a definite advantage over anybody who has not in most athletic competitions. So that seems to be a good place to draw the line.
If we can come up with an acceptable way to verify that it seems a good place to start.
But it must be based on science and facts. Not feelings or biases, IMO.
Regardless of this issue with women's sports, everyone should have access to the healthcare they and their doctor agree is needed.
Excellent points, and all very valid concerns. I'm good with paperwork as proof. That would mean a doctor was on board and verified everything.How would you measure the lack of male puberty? Paperwork? Hormone levels?
"Science and facts" is Ben Shapiro talk, but I understand the appeal to expertise.
I personally think paperwork should be enough: proof of puberty blockers starting before age 14. Proof of current prescription for blockers and/or estrogen HRT at the beginning of each season. When you start checking levels you're going to start reckoning with cis women who have higher testosterone levels being banned because of a quirk of genetics. I do not want that to happen, and I really dislike the olympic committee's rulings to that effect.
Also, as an aside, I think sports should be co-ed bracketed by age before 7th grade.
The trick is getting HRT/blockers into the hands of the kids in time. You know how there's always a bill up for vote in Oregon about putting in a Sales Tax with the promise that they'll definitely get rid of income tax or property tax to compensate? And it always gets voted down because everyone knows that they won't lower income or property taxes. That's how I feel about that rule about trans people who didn't have a male puberty. Like, it sounds totally reasonable right? But until we get accessible and accepted childhood hormone therapy, that rule would just be a ban.
I would be all for it, though, if we got the gender therapy we need.
There will be follow-on issues like how a lot of teens who get the HRT they need in time will be more likely to be stealth than current trans women are. In this way, matters of privacy (HIPAA or otherwise) need to be considered. And of course there will be the protests and walk-outs and angry carrying on... but it's better than "no blanket bans but every school is individually allowed to ban trans athletes"
The solution to me seems to be universal healthcare and making sure medical decisions are made between patients and doctors.It's getting harder and harder to transition early. So as @Everything Beagle said, trans people are getting punished twice.
I have yet to see actual evidence that cis girls and women are harmed by the presence of trans girls and women.
The solution to me seems to be universal healthcare and making sure medical decisions as are made between patients and doctors.
Idk if the rule allowing trans women to compete as long as they transitioned before the age of 12 is a good one. Does that go too far? Not far enough? Idk. This is a complex (or maybe it isn't) issue with seemingly slippery slope arguments on both sides.
Excellent points, and all very valid concerns. I'm good with paperwork as proof. That would mean a doctor was on board and verified everything.
That's all I've really ever suggested.
What age and when, I'll trust your judgement. 14 seems late to me, but I hit puberty at like 9.
I don’t have enough info to know either, but is a once male 18 year old (I’m using your term, because I don’t know what else to use) trans girl, lose their strength, power and speed simply by transitioning? Like it just goes away? Honest question. On the flip side, does a 18 year old trans boy acquire strength, power and speed? I don’t see many trans boys all of a sudden playing football or basketball. Please educate me on this…..It's getting harder and harder to transition early. So as @Everything Beagle said, trans people are getting punished twice.
I have yet to see actual evidence that cis girls and women are harmed by the presence of trans girls and women.
I don’t have enough info to know either, but is a once male 18 year old (I’m using your term, because I don’t know what else to use) trans girl, lose their strength, power and speed simply by transitioning? Like it just goes away? Honest question. On the flip side, does a 18 year old trans boy acquire strength, power and speed? I don’t see many trans boys all of a sudden playing football or basketball. Please educate me on this…..
@crandc the only reason I even posted in this thread is because in my opinion, I don’t want my daughter getting injured. I’ve seen what can happen in co-ed leagues.
Thanks for taking the time and having patience with me. I have NO experience with this and my only take can be on what’s best for my daughter out there. I’m curious about the other side though as well. Do you have any knowledge of a trans boy or man going out and killing it in the field of competitive sports? Just wondering if the process is opposite with them?Yes. There are studies (not many because there’s no money in studying trans women) that show after one year on Estradiol (the estrogen pill I take as part of my hormone replacement therapy), trans muscle mass and overall strength falls to the level of a comparably sized woman.
I want to offer up an example of sports with trans people working out well: the roller derby league here in Portland (the Rose City Rollers) allows trans women and non-binary people to play on their teams. One of my friends is a jammer on one of the teams, so I’ve been watching a lot over the last few seasons. In a high contact sport like derby, trans people have no advantage. One of the top 4 jammers is trans (most of the trans players are jammers because trans women stereotypically are pretty lanky), but the other three are cis. The injuries are a little one sided, though it’s trans people getting injured more often since the cis blockers have football player muscle mass on them.
Trans women are not going to injure your daughter, John. Please trust me on this. This is probably because no D1 team will have even one trans woman except possibly as a bench warmer walk-on. But also it’s because estrogen works really well at turning you into a girl.
Thanks for taking the time and having patience with me. I have NO experience with this and my only take can be on what’s best for my daughter out there. I’m curious about the other side though as well. Do you have any knowledge of a trans boy or man going out and killing it in the field of competitive sports? Just wondering if the process is opposite with them?
Hey, for real, thank you. This stuff is intimidating at first, but keeping an open mind about it is really appreciated.Thank you both.