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<div class="quote_poster">M Two One Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">NTC, always be happy who you are. That goes for anyone. We're all unique individuals, even those little suckers that get banned for spamming.</div>
Oh I am now, I just went through a stage there where I didnt. I never really "hated" myself per say, should've worded it better, it was more, I didnt like the way I looked, I didnt like the way I was becoming. And that just really hurt my interaction 'skills' with women. I'm alot better when it comes to talking to them today, but I still need to learn to open up a bit more easily.
Oh I am now, I just went through a stage there where I didnt. I never really "hated" myself per say, should've worded it better, it was more, I didnt like the way I looked, I didnt like the way I was becoming. And that just really hurt my interaction 'skills' with women. I'm alot better when it comes to talking to them today, but I still need to learn to open up a bit more easily.
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NTC, your story is kind of similar to mine on some levels. The only thing I'm still struggling with is being somewhat skinny; I'm assuming I'll gain weight once I get into University next year. How old are you now by the way?
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<div class="quote_poster">Karma Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">NTC, your story is kind of similar to mine on some levels. The only thing I'm still struggling with is being somewhat skinny; I'm assuming I'll gain weight once I get into University next year. How old are you now by the way?</div>
I just turned 20 in March
I just turned 20 in March
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<div class="quote_poster">NTC Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Oh I am now, I just went through a stage there where I didnt. I never really "hated" myself per say, should've worded it better, it was more, I didnt like the way I looked, I didnt like the way I was becoming. And that just really hurt my interaction 'skills' with women. I'm alot better when it comes to talking to them today, but I still need to learn to open up a bit more easily.</div>
I can relate to you, though I was confident around girls once I hit 16. What I mean though is that I didn't like the way I looked, but I think I had good reason. I was too overweight. What didn't you like about yourself?
I can relate to you, though I was confident around girls once I hit 16. What I mean though is that I didn't like the way I looked, but I think I had good reason. I was too overweight. What didn't you like about yourself?
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<div class="quote_poster">M Two One Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I can relate to you, though I was confident around girls once I hit 16. What I mean though is that I didn't like the way I looked, but I think I had good reason. I was too overweight. What didn't you like about yourself?</div>
Well I started getting acne, I was pretty tall, skinny, pale, I just felt ugly, and it didnt help having people call me ugly too, wether jokingly or not. Sort of just killed my confidence within myself off. But like I said, I managed to get it back.
Well I started getting acne, I was pretty tall, skinny, pale, I just felt ugly, and it didnt help having people call me ugly too, wether jokingly or not. Sort of just killed my confidence within myself off. But like I said, I managed to get it back.
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<div class="quote_poster">Quote:</div><div class="quote_post">
I just turned 20 in March
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Sorry to veer the topic off on a personal topic, but did your metabolism naturally slow down or you just started eating much more and much healthier than before along with working out?
I just turned 20 in March
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Sorry to veer the topic off on a personal topic, but did your metabolism naturally slow down or you just started eating much more and much healthier than before along with working out?
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<div class="quote_poster">NTC Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Well I started getting acne, I was pretty tall, skinny, pale, I just felt ugly, and it didnt help having people call me ugly too, wether jokingly or not. Sort of just killed my confidence within myself off. But like I said, I managed to get it back.</div>
I still have some acne, but not bad. Usually on the legs or arms a bit, but nothing major. My confidence started to falter when I was told that my arms were too skinny when I always felt I was rather strong there. Still bothers me, but I have high confidence these days since working out more often and especially now that I'm engaged. It is a cool feeling when someone asks me out on a date and then I get to say, "I'm sorry, but I'm engaged." Then they're all surprised because I'm only 23.
I still have some acne, but not bad. Usually on the legs or arms a bit, but nothing major. My confidence started to falter when I was told that my arms were too skinny when I always felt I was rather strong there. Still bothers me, but I have high confidence these days since working out more often and especially now that I'm engaged. It is a cool feeling when someone asks me out on a date and then I get to say, "I'm sorry, but I'm engaged." Then they're all surprised because I'm only 23.
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Give Oprah a call - The JBB Special.
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<div class="quote_poster">M Two One Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Then they're all surprised because I'm only 23.</div>
You're 23? I was imagining you to be like 30 or 40?
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<div class="quote_poster">M Two One Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Then they're all surprised because I'm only 23.</div>
You're 23? I was imagining you to be like 30 or 40?
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<div class="quote_poster">Karma Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Sorry to veer the topic off on a personal topic, but did your metabolism naturally slow down or you just started eating much more and much healthier than before along with working out?</div>
I just started eating more healthy, and more meals.
<div class="quote_poster">M Two One Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I still have some acne, but not bad.</div>
So do I
I just started eating more healthy, and more meals.
<div class="quote_poster">M Two One Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I still have some acne, but not bad.</div>
So do I
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Well, the girl I've been wanting to get at from work resigned last week, didnt manage to get her number or anything, but I dont really care, I'm over it now. I dont think she was the right girl for me anyway.
I've got a couple of girls I've been talking to on MSN and MySpace over the last 2-3 weeks, and things are going well with them. Havent met up with them yet, but I'm meeting up with one not this weekend, but the one after, she has a boyfriend, although I just got this message from her which was saying "I'm so lucky to have a new friend as good looking as you, you're really cute etc." so I mean yeah, I dunno what thats supposed to mean, lol, but I'm not complaining. She is quite cute herself, and exactly what I look for in a girl.
The other one is an Asian girl, she gave me her number, and I gave her mine, and on Saturday night she was out (I was going to go too, probally meet up with her there, but I needed to pay off some debts, so I had to bail) and she kept texting me most of the night.
The internet is a pretty good way of meeting girls, lol, I really like this method, just eliminates the whole "approach anxiety", gives you a chance to get to know the person before you decide if you want to meet up with them or not, I like it. And just for the record, I got these girls emails off this Club's message board that I go to pretty much every weekend (as do they), so I've most likely seen them out and about already (just incase you guys think I like stalk the internet preying on girls, lol)
EDIT: Holy sh*t... the girl with the boyfriend just sent me a crazy good message through MySpace, I dont know if I should post it or not though...
I've got a couple of girls I've been talking to on MSN and MySpace over the last 2-3 weeks, and things are going well with them. Havent met up with them yet, but I'm meeting up with one not this weekend, but the one after, she has a boyfriend, although I just got this message from her which was saying "I'm so lucky to have a new friend as good looking as you, you're really cute etc." so I mean yeah, I dunno what thats supposed to mean, lol, but I'm not complaining. She is quite cute herself, and exactly what I look for in a girl.
The other one is an Asian girl, she gave me her number, and I gave her mine, and on Saturday night she was out (I was going to go too, probally meet up with her there, but I needed to pay off some debts, so I had to bail) and she kept texting me most of the night.
The internet is a pretty good way of meeting girls, lol, I really like this method, just eliminates the whole "approach anxiety", gives you a chance to get to know the person before you decide if you want to meet up with them or not, I like it. And just for the record, I got these girls emails off this Club's message board that I go to pretty much every weekend (as do they), so I've most likely seen them out and about already (just incase you guys think I like stalk the internet preying on girls, lol)
EDIT: Holy sh*t... the girl with the boyfriend just sent me a crazy good message through MySpace, I dont know if I should post it or not though...
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<div class="quote_poster">Quote:</div><div class="quote_post">Holy sh*t... the girl with the boyfriend just sent me a crazy good message through MySpace, I dont know if I should post it or not though...</div>
Do I even have to bring up the whole "internet forum rules demands it" part?
Do I even have to bring up the whole "internet forum rules demands it" part?
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<div class="quote_poster">NTC Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">
EDIT: Holy sh*t... the girl with the boyfriend just sent me a crazy good message through MySpace, I dont know if I should post it or not though...
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Post it and picture please!
EDIT: Holy sh*t... the girl with the boyfriend just sent me a crazy good message through MySpace, I dont know if I should post it or not though...
Post it and picture please!
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<div class="quote_poster">Iggy Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">EXPLAIN!</div>
This girl is someone I have always wanted but it just never happened for weird/stupid reasons. She is so damn hot and so damn smart.
We met years ago (I think i was in year 11, so 2001), she had a boyfriend then. He treated her like crap.
We used to talk on the phone for hours every night anyway one night we were out together and I made my move (oh yes when she had the boyfriend) and she made the move back.
So naturally I was thinking its happening, but not so. For some reason that I can't remember we never happened then, and she never told her boyfriend.
Anyway I told her to tell her boyfriend (again I dunno why) and she did and he actually didn't do anything, just was silent and walked off.
Anyway they eventually broke up, but at this time I was kinda seeing someone else, but we didn't last and we ended it. But once when I was with the girl I was seeing, I went swimming with the girl of my dreams at the local pools which apparently didn't go down well with the girl I was seeings cousin (who was going out with my friend and went to the same school as the girl of my dreams), so she started a rumor that I was cheating on the girl i was seeing with the girl of my dreams (which I wasn't).
Not long after I stopped seeing the girl, me and girl of dreams went to the movies (Lord of the Rings - Two Towers if you must know). And we did the teenage making out in the movies thing and for some DUMB reason I said we shouldn't because everyone will think we were going behind the other girls back. So we didn't.
Anyway after that we lost contact a bit, spoke sparsely etc.
One day I saw her at the train station with another guy making out like Rabbits - at this stage I had a long term girlfriend - I got insanely jealous and we had a argument later that night (me and girl of dreams).
Then again lost contact for a bit and spoke to her a bit down the track and she had a new boyfriend. And they went overseas together to Spain where she went to study at university, she came back a year later and she was engaged.
At this point I lost all hope of ever getting her, but last night I sent her a text message out of a whim and she replied back and we spoke online for a bit and I found out she is now single as off a few weeks ago - after I celebrated like I won the NBA Championship in my room - we spoke a bit more but I don't know why they broke up, which doesn't matter.
So now I see it as a 2nd chance, a sign from God, fate, what is meant to be, and a miracle.
Now I just gotta play it right.
And that is my long insanely stupid story.
and the lesson to be learned from it is - Don't worry what others will think of you. I learned that the hard way.
This girl is someone I have always wanted but it just never happened for weird/stupid reasons. She is so damn hot and so damn smart.
We met years ago (I think i was in year 11, so 2001), she had a boyfriend then. He treated her like crap.
We used to talk on the phone for hours every night anyway one night we were out together and I made my move (oh yes when she had the boyfriend) and she made the move back.
So naturally I was thinking its happening, but not so. For some reason that I can't remember we never happened then, and she never told her boyfriend.
Anyway I told her to tell her boyfriend (again I dunno why) and she did and he actually didn't do anything, just was silent and walked off.
Anyway they eventually broke up, but at this time I was kinda seeing someone else, but we didn't last and we ended it. But once when I was with the girl I was seeing, I went swimming with the girl of my dreams at the local pools which apparently didn't go down well with the girl I was seeings cousin (who was going out with my friend and went to the same school as the girl of my dreams), so she started a rumor that I was cheating on the girl i was seeing with the girl of my dreams (which I wasn't).
Not long after I stopped seeing the girl, me and girl of dreams went to the movies (Lord of the Rings - Two Towers if you must know). And we did the teenage making out in the movies thing and for some DUMB reason I said we shouldn't because everyone will think we were going behind the other girls back. So we didn't.
Anyway after that we lost contact a bit, spoke sparsely etc.
One day I saw her at the train station with another guy making out like Rabbits - at this stage I had a long term girlfriend - I got insanely jealous and we had a argument later that night (me and girl of dreams).
Then again lost contact for a bit and spoke to her a bit down the track and she had a new boyfriend. And they went overseas together to Spain where she went to study at university, she came back a year later and she was engaged.
At this point I lost all hope of ever getting her, but last night I sent her a text message out of a whim and she replied back and we spoke online for a bit and I found out she is now single as off a few weeks ago - after I celebrated like I won the NBA Championship in my room - we spoke a bit more but I don't know why they broke up, which doesn't matter.
So now I see it as a 2nd chance, a sign from God, fate, what is meant to be, and a miracle.
Now I just gotta play it right.
And that is my long insanely stupid story.
and the lesson to be learned from it is - Don't worry what others will think of you. I learned that the hard way.
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<div class="quote_poster">A.F. Venom Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Why are yall in NTC's business on some younger brother "let me see!" ish..
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lol, my fault, I shouldnt have said anything, it just took me by complete surprise.
<div class="quote_poster">I-Miss-MJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Not long after I stopped seeing the girl, me and girl of dreams went to the movies (Lord of the Rings - Two Towers if you must know).</div>
I'll be able to sleep tonight, thank god
j/k
Anyways, go for it man, sounds like you should probally be with this girl, the signs are there.
lol, my fault, I shouldnt have said anything, it just took me by complete surprise.
<div class="quote_poster">I-Miss-MJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Not long after I stopped seeing the girl, me and girl of dreams went to the movies (Lord of the Rings - Two Towers if you must know).</div>
I'll be able to sleep tonight, thank god
Anyways, go for it man, sounds like you should probally be with this girl, the signs are there.
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<div class="quote_poster">A.F. Venom Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Why are yall in NTC's business on some younger brother "let me see!" ish..
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lol, reminds me of Stiffler's younger brother in American Pie.
Good luck I-Miss-MJ. Hopefully you get a "Hollywood-romantic movie" type happy ending.
lol, reminds me of Stiffler's younger brother in American Pie.
Good luck I-Miss-MJ. Hopefully you get a "Hollywood-romantic movie" type happy ending.
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<div class="quote_poster">Chutney Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Good luck I-Miss-MJ. Hopefully you get a "Hollywood-romantic movie" type happy ending.</div>
or I get the TV sitcom where in the early days guy likes girl, and then they finally get together. Guys screws it up and they go off on other things and then series final they end up getting together.
(yes I watch too much TV)
<div class="quote_poster">NTC Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I'll be able to sleep tonight, thank god
j/k</div>
It is weird to watch The Two Towers now cos every time I watch it I think about that day and what happened.
<div class="quote_poster">Quote:</div><div class="quote_post">Anyways, go for it man, sounds like you should probally be with this girl, the signs are there.</div>
Yeah I just gotta take it slow and not push her.
or I get the TV sitcom where in the early days guy likes girl, and then they finally get together. Guys screws it up and they go off on other things and then series final they end up getting together.
(yes I watch too much TV)
<div class="quote_poster">NTC Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I'll be able to sleep tonight, thank god
It is weird to watch The Two Towers now cos every time I watch it I think about that day and what happened.
<div class="quote_poster">Quote:</div><div class="quote_post">Anyways, go for it man, sounds like you should probally be with this girl, the signs are there.</div>
Yeah I just gotta take it slow and not push her.
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I went and saw her at work today for the first time in ages.
She is stunning. I so love her.
Didn't get a chance to spend much time with her, as someone on a motorbike got hit by a car so I had to help out there (the guy was fine, but police and ambulance and all that jazz).
She is stunning. I so love her.
Didn't get a chance to spend much time with her, as someone on a motorbike got hit by a car so I had to help out there (the guy was fine, but police and ambulance and all that jazz).
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I went out last night and met the girl I've been talking to on MSN over the last few weeks (the one with the boyfriend), things were going great, until I THREW UP ON HER!!!
I got to the club as they opened at 9, had about 6 drinks by this stage, knocked back a few more until I got a message from her at about 10.20 saying she was there. I ran into another girl I know (I've posted her photo on here before, cute Blonde girl) and talked to her for a few minutes before her and the guy she was with suggested we go for a dance, as I was walking towards to the dance floor, I saw the girl I was to meet at the Bar with her boyfriend and a couple of their mates. I was pretty wasted by this stage, but still in a good frame of mind, so I went up and introduced myself (I cant remember what was said
) and we just hung out after that.
I dont know what time it was by this stage, but her boyfriend got a call from some of his mates about catching up at another club, so we went outside to go to the other club, then he got another call saying they were coming to where we were, so he went back inside, and we were to follow, although they wouldnt let me back in because I was too drunk, so we went around the corner to another club, but they wouldnt let me in either, so we just sat outside while I tried to recover myself a bit.
After like 5 minutes of chilling out here, she says to me "You should kiss me now", so we made out for a while, then afterwards she was telling me how I'm a good kisser (I had talked myself up previously, lol) and like 1-2 minutes after that, out of nowhere, I just threw up. It wasnt so bad, mostly on myself, and a bit just got on her, but it was still quite embarassing and I felt like a complete idiot, she was kool about it though, told me not to worry about it, but it wasnt exactly the kind of first impression I wanted to leave. I tried to pull myself together after this, but it just wasnt happening, so she helped get me to a Taxi, and I was on my way home. Dont remember getting home at all as I passed out, lol.
I got a couple of messages from her this morning saying not to worry, she still loves me etc. so I'm glad, but like I said, not really the best first impression I wanted to leave. She's a gorgeous girl though, absolutley stunning, so cute and adorable, I cant wait to see her again.
I got to the club as they opened at 9, had about 6 drinks by this stage, knocked back a few more until I got a message from her at about 10.20 saying she was there. I ran into another girl I know (I've posted her photo on here before, cute Blonde girl) and talked to her for a few minutes before her and the guy she was with suggested we go for a dance, as I was walking towards to the dance floor, I saw the girl I was to meet at the Bar with her boyfriend and a couple of their mates. I was pretty wasted by this stage, but still in a good frame of mind, so I went up and introduced myself (I cant remember what was said
I dont know what time it was by this stage, but her boyfriend got a call from some of his mates about catching up at another club, so we went outside to go to the other club, then he got another call saying they were coming to where we were, so he went back inside, and we were to follow, although they wouldnt let me back in because I was too drunk, so we went around the corner to another club, but they wouldnt let me in either, so we just sat outside while I tried to recover myself a bit.
After like 5 minutes of chilling out here, she says to me "You should kiss me now", so we made out for a while, then afterwards she was telling me how I'm a good kisser (I had talked myself up previously, lol) and like 1-2 minutes after that, out of nowhere, I just threw up. It wasnt so bad, mostly on myself, and a bit just got on her, but it was still quite embarassing and I felt like a complete idiot, she was kool about it though, told me not to worry about it, but it wasnt exactly the kind of first impression I wanted to leave. I tried to pull myself together after this, but it just wasnt happening, so she helped get me to a Taxi, and I was on my way home. Dont remember getting home at all as I passed out, lol.
I got a couple of messages from her this morning saying not to worry, she still loves me etc. so I'm glad, but like I said, not really the best first impression I wanted to leave. She's a gorgeous girl though, absolutley stunning, so cute and adorable, I cant wait to see her again.
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More so on myself, but I think a bit got on her too, it came out of nowhere. I just feel so embarassed, and like such a stupid idiot. She sent me some text messages today telling me its ok, not to worry about it etc. but I still feel bad.