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The Dream

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I'm tired and I had a long night, but I just needed to get this off my chest.................THE DREAM is a single man once again......after a heated argument last night, me and my girl are callin it quits. It all started because my girl went through my phone while I was in another room. She asked me a question about a text message and I cleared it up.....because it was no big deal....BUT I'm not big on other people going through my phone....especially someone who I consider as a person who "trusts" me......so I asked her why she looked through my phone (because I have nothing to hide) and she said she "didn't have a reason"......somehow I didn't buy that, we argued for a good hour and now we're done..........so Alicia Keys here I come.......
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<div class="quote_poster">THE DREAM Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I'm tired and I had a long night, but I just needed to get this off my chest.................THE DREAM is a single man once again......after a heated argument last night, me and my girl are callin it quits. It all started because my girl went through my phone while I was in another room. She asked me a question about a text message and I cleared it up.....because it was no big deal....BUT I'm not big on other people going through my phone....especially someone who I consider as a person who "trusts" me......so I asked her why she looked through my phone (because I have nothing to hide) and she said she "didn't have a reason"......somehow I didn't buy that, we argued for a good hour and now we're done..........so Alicia Keys here I come.......
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Sorry to here that man, yeah, lol, call Alicia Keys up!
 
on a real though there is a chick in my phone who I've kept in contact with over the past couple of months.....not anything serious, but she sends me a text message every now and then....I think I'll give her a ring today
 
<div class="quote_poster">THE DREAM Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">It all started because my girl went through my phone while I was in another room.</div>

This already means the end of a relationship before it becomes official. Sorry for you buddy.
 
yeah I haven't had a girl do that to me since highschool and she's 24 years old....I'd expect better from her......and her excuse was just lame, it's obvious she was curious about finding something.
 
I wouldn't have reacted like that(no offense) but I still probably wouldn't be too thrilled about that.
 
well the thing is at first I was upset about it, so I thought I'd just leave and go home and talk about it today....BUT she blocked the doorway of her room and insisted that we talk about it....I didn't want to put my hands on her and move her out the way, so all of my pent up energy went to yelling....and saying a few curse words......she started crying and then that was the end of it....
 
Sorry to hear that man. I'm like Smitty too, I don't think I would have reacted like that but at the same time I wouldn't be happy about it either. Seems kind of trivial to break up over especially if it was a serious relationship.
 
Sorry to tell you this fam, but uhm, Alicia is with me.
 
then I'll take gabby, but yeah she's the one that suggested the break up, I asked her if she was sure about it and she was hesitant, but it seems like what she wanted so that's it.
 
Moral of the story: Keep your cell phone with you at all times.

Nah, I'm joking but yeah, sorry to hear that man. Good luck with Alicia!
 
If a girl doesn't trust you it's probably because she's guilty of doing something herself.

I've noticed girls in that 22-24 range try to have one last chance at single life.

I'm sure this wasn't the first big fight you've had and it's probably for the best to move on.
 
Yeah I think it's the best thing to do to, she's one of those chicks that likes to argue over every single thing and I consider myself a pretty easy going person, so it got kind of annoying after a while...D Wade > Kobe > Lebron.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Epidemik Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Moral of the story: Keep your cell phone with you at all times.

Nah, I'm joking but yeah, sorry to hear that man. Good luck with Alicia!</div>


lol I was actually driving this morning and just thinking "what if I had my cell on me"....oh well everything happens for a reason.
 
<div class="quote_poster">THE DREAM Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">lol I was actually driving this morning and just thinking "what if I had my cell on me"....oh well everything happens for a reason.</div>
My basic cell phone rules when I have a girlfriend:

1- Always put females under names like "Mike" or "Bob" in your contact list.
2- Delete all questionable calls/texts immediately.
3- Never leave your cell phone unattended
4- Always keep your phone on vibrate.

If you follow these rules, your cell phone will never be a weapon that can be used against you.
 
<div class="quote_poster">44Thrilla Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">My basic cell phone rules when I have a girlfriend:

1- Always put females under names like "Mike" or "Bob" in your contact list.
2- Delete all questionable calls/texts immediately.
3- Never leave your cell phone unattended
4- Always keep your phone on vibrate.

If you follow these rules, your cell phone will never be a weapon that can be used against you.</div>

1. LOL, I'll do that for now on
2. I do this
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3. I slipped up on this last night, but normally I'm good at doing it
4. I do this
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LOL I can just imagine though, you have 1 text message from Bob:
"Hey baby, wanna come over to my place tonight?"
 
Bah you could have done better than her Dream. Good job you got rid of her.
 
I think she wanted me to stay last night, because she wanted me to try to work it out, but I was tired so I just fell asleep woke up this morning and left....good Lord I have a headache this morning....no girlfriends for me for a while.....at least I got the Rockets tonight and the Super Bowl tomorrow....that will free up my mind some.
 
<div class="quote_poster">huevonkiller Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Bah you could have done better than her Dream. Good job you got rid of her.</div>

I don't know I mean someone tell me if I'm wrong, but what is the point of going through someone's phone while they're not in the room??? I mean that just looks bad imo, but she tried to say that she just did it "because".....I'm just not grasping that.
 
<div class="quote_poster">THE DREAM Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I don't know I mean someone tell me if I'm wrong, but what is the point of going through someone's phone while they're not in the room??? I mean that just looks bad imo, but she tried to say that she just did it "because".....I'm just not grasping that.</div>

She wants to see who's in your top 5.
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<div class="quote_poster">THE DREAM Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">on a real though there is a chick in my phone who I've kept in contact with over the past couple of months.....not anything serious, but she sends me a text message every now and then....I think I'll give her a ring today</div>

I guess maybe your girl had a reason to be worried?
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quote:</div><div class="quote_post">She wants to see who's in your top 5.</div>

hahaha....well it definitely isn't her....I still consider her a friend, but her insecurities about me just won't cut it in a relationship.....funny thing is she was angry, because "everyone keeps saying the same things about her"....well get a damn clue, because if everyone is saying it, then maybe there's some truth behind it.
 
<div class="quote_poster">norespect Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I guess maybe your girl had a reason to be worried?</div>


no......this was a girl who I met at a bar a while back and I got her number BEFORE me and my girl "got together"....she's a spurs fan so she sends me text messages everynow and then when the spurs win, and I do the same when the rockets beat the spurs...
 
well....I don't know you but in my experience a break up like that usually dosen't take....i've broken up with my current girl 4 times in a 2 and a half year stint.....my money is on you two gettin back together.
 
I would attempt getting back together with her, but that would take a lot of effort on my part to put up with her constant nagging...it's just not worth it...
 
That's a lame excuse on her part. Sorry, for the breakup, but that probably would've pissed me off too.

At least you're free to get that Houston Rockets cheerleader.
 
^^^^you don't understand how serious I am when I'd say I'd get at her if I had a chance...lol...but she was "intimidated" by me for some reason....she thought I looked down on her, because her opinions couldn't measure up to my expectations......I'll be the first to admit that I'm a VERY sarcastic/opinionated person, BUT I do respect others opinions, so I don't know why she felt threatened.
 
I consider myself lucky to have a girl that speaks several languages, is gorgeous, has a strong opinion and good taste. Some guys find a girl like this, but you got to go through the bullshit of a bunch of morons first to find the right one.

I'm sure you will.
 
one thing that bothered me was her taste in hip hop music...it didn't bother me to the point of not liking her, but people with bad taste in hip hop music (something I love) bother me sligthly.
 

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