This forum's wound a bit tight lately...it does seem like there's a low-grade hostility at work
In a job, we have ways of communicating displeasure. We can have underlings tell another department how we want something done. Or we can phone a peon and have him tell his boss something. Or we can delay what they want done, hinting to them when they complain.
But this is a message board---a message board severely lacking in one thing. It won't cost much to remedy your deficiency. I refer, of course, to the type of employee you need to hire so badly---the Fuck Off Man.
I work for a pittance, and you really ought to consider it. Why should one poster become the enemy of another? How can these two people associate with each other at the Bash? In a job, opposing Dept. Heads are friendly to each other. Why? Because they have---the Fuck Off Man.
For the sake of future Bashes, a small investment in peace is warranted. This time only I will give a free sample--Please, do not expect this again, and don't embarrass yourself asking for a free sample again. Now, let's say PapaG hired me. I would post, without telling anyone I was working for him, so that he can attend future Bashes in his usual sociable persona. You need to imagine I am yelling at the top of my lungs, but I would formulate my post something like this---
HEY BLAZERBEAV!! FUCK OFF!!
HEY ABM!! FUCK OFF!!
HEY BLAZERCARAVAN!! FUCK OFF!!
HEY TOUTLAW25!! FUCK OFF!!
HEY NOKNOBS!! FUCK OFF!!
I would add a few big words, of course, to smooth over the effect. The whole thread would then turn against me instead of my client, and I would absorb the wrath incurred, while maintaining my client's absolute confidentiality. Don't take my word for it. Shop around, and you won't find a better alternative than---the Fuck Off Man.