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Can anyone give me tips to fighting, for self defense? I won both my fights but I want some pointers.
 
dont swing randomly, back up and square ur opponent up for a hit
 
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I have yet to witness a girl fight in person....sadly. (Although I condone fighting, and hope that no girls actually get hurt in the process...in fact I HATE when girls fight....but anyway.)

Unfortunetly, the girls that I know of that have gotten into fights get into organized fights..as in typical brown fights where loads of people are called for absolutely no reason. However, I remember in one case I heard about this girl I knew from school, and her crew, going into another school and just grabbing the girls that talked sh*t about them and beatin each one of them seperately in between classes. I don't know how they managed to avoid the authorities for that long, enough to beat down all the girls involved, and I definetly don't know wtf was wrong with that's school's security system, but it worked.

When I was in grade 9, these two dudes got so into thier fighting (over something BEYOND stupid...it was cause the guy brushed him or something) that one of them (who talked a lot of sh*t and always boasted about his crew, and initiated the fight) ended up with a broken FACE...the other guy was a boxer or something and beat the living shi*t out of him in the cafe. Funny thing is, the "crew" that the guy used to always boast about didn't really step into the fight until thier friend had the living shi*t beaten out of him already and the teachers had come in to rescue him.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quoting Carter:</div><div class="quote_post">Can anyone give me tips to fighting, for self defense? I won both my fights but I want some pointers.</div>

block with your weaker arm, keep blocking until u see an opening, and connect with your stronger arm

most people are stupid, dey swing randomly and hope it'll connect...u want to connect hard, u only need to do it a couple times before the other person is too hurt to keep on
 
^ yea or keep blocking and have them wear them selves down by swining
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quoting Carter:</div><div class="quote_post">Can anyone give me tips to fighting, for self defense? I won both my fights but I want some pointers.</div>
Like I said I've never been in a fight but I've seen plenty of them and you should have some technique or strategy when you fight instead of just going in swinging. Like KS1 said, try to protect your face with your weak arm like a boxer would. Also you should assess the physical size of your opponent; if he's bigger or heavier then you want to avoid being hit at all costs because one good shot could really hurt you and you want to find and opening nail him and get back out of his reach (then repeat). If he's smaller than you you'd probably want to get as close as possible so you can hit him more. Also from what I've seen getting the first punch in is gonna sway things to your side since fights are usually pretty short and every good punch counts alot. So be the aggressor in a fight unless you know the guy is a very good fighter.

Also you gotta be quick on your feet, constantly moving. I can remember one fight back in 8th grade where these 2 guys were fighting and one pushed the other one away but after pushing him he was on his heels and the guy who got pushed took a huge stride and clocked the guy, it was lights out at that point. So stay on your toes and don't get flat footed (might be easier if you've played organized football before since they drill that into your head).
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quoting Carter:</div><div class="quote_post">Can anyone give me tips to fighting, for self defense? I won both my fights but I want some pointers.</div>

Take up Martial Arts or Amatuer Wrestling. In my honest opinion those are great for self-defense. Just don't get overboard with either of them, alright? Remember that until someone actually tries to hit you, you shouldn't have to hit them. Even so, if they're swinging wildly and never hit you or hurt you for that matter just toss em' to the ground until they stop.

That way you don't even have to really hurt anyone.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quoting Chutney:</div><div class="quote_post">I've never lost a fight because I know how to
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lol, i also have never been in a real fight. I find the funniest things about high school fights, is that they all start out with people getting in each others faces, then they go back and forth saying, "hit me first" like 100 times. People are such babies. No one has ever had any beef with me, so im good. But one time, this guy was like hit me, and see what happens, sot eh gusy creamed him. The other guy got up, and called him a pu**y, and said he wasnt worth his time, it was hilarious.
 
I been in a couple fights in my life, a few have been because of basketball.

Once, in 9th grade, in summer league, someone just grabbed me from behind while I up in the air for a shot(which would of cause serious injuy if I came down and landed wrong), I landed on my back, rebounded up, and just one hit, pop the guy across the face, blood just started spilling everywhere, he fell down on the floor crying...and whenever we played each other's team from then on, he hasn't played...at all.
Or last year, some guy(who was on my team) confronted me about hitting on his ex girlfriend(she was hittin on me, I was just enjoying it), we were best friends before this, he got all in my face, all talking ****, so I pushed him off of me, he swung at me, I blocked it, pushed him back to cause him to swing forward and popped him the mouth, then I proceeded to slap him around a little bit, until the principal came out

I'm a nice kid, I try to be a nice kid, just laid back whatever, let people talk ****...but I got a major anger problem, so once in a while, I just hit somebody...normally, I just keep hittin the gym pads or punching bags...
 
Chick fights rule.

I saw the most vicious fight ever last year.

This black and this Puerto Rican were arguin' about some dude. And out of no where the black walks away, but the PR grabbed her by her hair and yanked her so hard that she ripped her weave out. All of a sudden the black girl turned with cat like reflexes and just smashed her in the face about 4 or 5 times. The PR fell and the B got on top of her, and just started whalin on her face. Somehow they managed to get up, and the B was still just ownin' this broad. Security came and literally pulled her up in the air, but as she was pullin' her in the air, the B swung her leg and popped the PR right in the damn face (It looked like Dunleavy/Newble). The B then jumped over the security guard, well on her back, and started swinging she hit the PR again, but also hit the security guard, so the SG slammed the B down to the ground.

It was a holy ****, that was fucking awesome, yet very brutal, I could only see that in a movie type of thing.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quoting TheBlackMamba:</div><div class="quote_post">Chick fights rule.

I saw the most vicious fight ever last year.

This black and this Puerto Rican were arguin' about some dude. And out of no where the black walks away, but the PR grabbed her by her hair and yanked her so hard that she ripped her weave out. All of a sudden the black girl turned with cat like reflexes and just smashed her in the face about 4 or 5 times. The PR fell and the B got on top of her, and just started whalin on her face. Somehow they managed to get up, and the B was still just ownin' this broad. Security came and literally pulled her up in the air, but as she was pullin' her in the air, the B swung her leg and popped the PR right in the damn face (It looked like Dunleavy/Newble). The B then jumped over the security guard, well on her back, and started swinging she hit the PR again, but also hit the security guard, so the SG slammed the B down to the ground.

It was a holy ****, that was fucking awesome, yet very brutal, I could only see that in a movie type of thing.</div>
You never want to rip out a black girl's weave.
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I've seen one chick fight...

This white girl(who's 6'2 atleast) from my school's been talking **** the whole game cuz they been winning the whole game...finally, the captain(5'10) from the other team, who's been guarding the trash talking girl decks her.
My school had just scored or something, so the white girl's walking back on to D, and basically bumps into the captain chick, who just pushed her off her lightly, and when the white chick rebounded back, just decked her cross the face. The white girl fell to the floor crying(she basically just crumpled), she was falt on her stomach, kicking and screaming, and crying for mercy...
The funniest thing I ever seen...
 
I saw this saddest "fight" like a month ago. I was on vacation in Swiss, and it was around 4:00 in the morning and the club just closed. The hottest chick in the club (Italian) was like dancing with everyone and being nice during the whole night. Me and my two cousins leave the club to find somewhere to pee
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On our way back to home, we was gonna walk past the club again. When we get there we see like 10 people standing there at the entrence and we hear a girl screaming. There are many Albanians in Swiss and they're known for being "bad" (no offense to all albanians). The girl looks really like shaken but she's drunk and is screaming at the guy, "you albanian thief, son of a who**", and all that crap. The guy actually starts screaming back, looking very cocky, it all ends like this; The girl gets beaten to the ground, her purse which she had left beside her, is totally emptied by the refugees
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standing around the scene. What is even more sad is that all the guys there try to take advantage of her situtation, sex, money... I had never seen something like that.
So sad... My cousin actually tried to settle things, but he got threathened by this guy who prolly just was after what was in her purse.

Just as a tip; Never try to act a hero, especially when handling influenced people of any kind.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quoting KS1:</div><div class="quote_post">I've seen one chick fight...

This white girl(who's 6'2 atleast) from my school's been talking **** the whole game cuz they been winning the whole game...finally, the captain(5'10) from the other team, who's been guarding the trash talking girl decks her.
My school had just scored or something, so the white girl's walking back on to D, and basically bumps into the captain chick, who just pushed her off her lightly, and when the white chick rebounded back, just decked her cross the face. The white girl fell to the floor crying(she basically just crumpled), she was falt on her stomach, kicking and screaming, and crying for mercy...
The funniest thing I ever seen...</div>

The "white girl" eh? You could just address both from rival schools.
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I'm not a fighter. No one starts with me and I don't start with them. Of course I did have a small fight when I was around 10. The guy kept picking on me so, I gave him a few punches in the mouth and he has been polite to me ever since lol.

I did witness a fight in my other High School, it was between two black chicks and a gay guy.
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The two chicks had whooped his ass. Pretty funny to watch.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quoting NTC187:</div><div class="quote_post">Never been in a proper full on fight.

The first rule of a fight, is to avoid them at all costs, unless you really have to defend yourself. Thats the philosphy I follow. I also dont want to go to jail for manslaughter or fork out money to have my teeth/face fixed because of some stupid little thing.</div>

Thats it bro. Thats all you need to know. I have never fought in my time living in Florida because I don't have any reasons to fight in the first place, if you never start nothing there wont be anything. In New York though it was a different story. Kids would pick fights for no f***ing reason in my old school.
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This isn't to say I'm one of those kids who gets beat up and doesn't fight back, I mean I can defend myself when need be, but there really is no reason to fight in the first place unless you got a big mouth like some wack people I used to know.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quoting Carter:</div><div class="quote_post">Can anyone give me tips to fighting, for self defense? I won both my fights but I want some pointers.</div>

This may sound stupid to some, but I picked up a few things watching mixed martial arts, such as UFC, Pride etc. So my suggestion to you, especially if you dont want to spend money taking specific classes, is hire out some of these DVD's, and just study them closely. Considering there is usually a dominant fighter in the match, study him, like how he watches his opponent, what he does when he has him where he wants him, how he blocks the opposing strikes etc.

<div class="quote_poster">Quoting Franchise4Ever:</div><div class="quote_post">Thats it bro. Thats all you need to know. I have never fought in my time living in Florida because I don't have any reasons to fight in the first place, if you never start nothing there wont be anything. In New York though it was a different story. Kids would pick fights for no f***ing reason in my old school.
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This isn't to say I'm one of those kids who gets beat up and doesn't fight back, I mean I can defend myself when need be, but there really is no reason to fight in the first place unless you got a big mouth like some wack people I used to know.</div>

Yeah exactly, I mean I've seen fights start over things like "hey you! wtf are you looking at!?" *brawl ensues*, its ridiculous.

I'm the same as you, I've never been bullied or anything like that, I just have more common sense than brawn than to go around starting fights with people over stupid things. Even when I'm out drinking, I still always have enough sense to not try and start anything with people, and that could be after like 14 drinks.
 
I've never really been picked or bullied on in my life. When I first came to Canada when I was younger (I wasn't born here but came at a relatively young age), some dudes (I think they were in grade 5 when I was in grade 1 or 2) stole my winter toque and passed it around to themselves. I think they may have been because I was like only one of 10 brown kids in that entire school. Anyways, I just ran to the teacher out on the field and they gave it back
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<div class="quote_poster">Quoting authentiq:</div><div class="quote_post">It's not fun getting picked on as a kid for being mixed..</div>

Really? It's quite the opposite for me. Quite frankly, I'd be amazed to meet a mix person since there aren't that many in my school.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Quote:</div><div class="quote_post">Really? It's quite the opposite for me. Quite frankly, I'd be amazed to meet a mix person since there aren't that many in my school.</div>
When you're mixed, especially growing up in Virginia and New York, you get jumped just for being "different" or not 100% black. I remember my cousin and older brother had to protect my ass when I was in grade school. There are a lot of rascist folks up in VA and NY (BX, Harlem)
 
I've only been in one fight and it was in self defense. It was a few years ago, on Halloween night. I wasn't trick-or-treatin or anything, i was just walking around with some friends. We ended up playin some basketball at a court in my town, and this kid who had some beef with me for no reason happened to be there. He started talking s--t, and I was tryin to stay out of it because I knew for a fact that he was carryin some kind of knife with him. Plus, he was the kind of kid that would be losin a fight and stab you to turn the tables. But I didnt get a chance to walk away because he charged me, so instead I managed to take him to the ground and just startin punching him in the back of the head and slamming his face into the ground. I knocked him out cold, and just left. Since then, whenver I've seen him, he's been cool as hell to me
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The saddest fight I've ever seen was last year in high school when these 5 football players jumped this fat emo kid because he would always flirt with their girlfriends. The emo kid had to spend time in the hospital and I think he sued them (and won).
 

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