OK, I think the thread should be closed because it's gone way off and out of line.
DaRizzle, I owe you an apology; re-reading my post, I did not react well. You probably, I am sure, meant well. Please understand I have dealt with a lot of years of frustration and sometimes downright silly suggestions (wear noseplugs, hold my breath - for 2 days!). And since "seeing is believing" too many folks think that something that they can't see isn't real. Only a real nutcase would tell Christopher Reeve he could have walked if he set his mind to it and he should get out of the wheelchair and stop making a fuss, but I have been told I can breathe if I put my mind to it. And around some things I can't breathe.
I'll check out the eco-friendly hotels. Unfortunately a lot of "eco-friendly" just means they serve organic food, which is fine, but not much help if I can't breathe.
If anyone else has a suggestion (I really don't have the time to contact 200 B & B's) please PM me.
Mods, can this thread be closed? Mocking lesbians and women's breasts is not what it was started for. (yes I know I should not end a sentence with a preposition)