e_blazer
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A truly excellent post. Thanks.
I understand that most later term abortions historically have been due to health concerns (either for the fetus or the mother) but that doesn't account for all. And those are the ones that bother me. And it's not saying "We know better than women", it's saying the life of the newborn overrides the decisions of the Individual which just happens to be a woman. Now please don't get me wrong, I am pro choice, but this is the problem that I have. I do think that a woman, her loved ones, doctors, clergy are all closer to the situation then the government is and I think overall it's better the decision be left out of the governments prevue. My problem is more theory. I hear pro-choice activists talk about the woman's right to choose, but that comes across as callus without admitting that as time goes on there is a life at stake besides the mother.
And scientifically I don't know where to draw the line. One possible choice is at conception, but to me that's ridiculous. Another option is at the point that the baby could possibly live outside the womb, around 5 months.
Overall, I am just uncomfortable with this as a subject. I feel compassion for the women, what they go through, what they will go through. I also feel for the potential baby. It leaves me without answers. However, without a more definitive scientific guideline that makes sense to me, I would acquiesce to the Woman as the one who knows best her situation.
I share your concerns about late-term abortions, Further. I'm a grandfather to two wonderful, healthy boys who were both premies, born at 31 and 32 weeks respectively. One of them had an identical twin who was severely deformed and that pregnancy had to be terminated early on in order for his brother to survive. Those are the kinds of heart-breaking decisions that parents sometimes have to make even when they dearly want both babies to live. I think that, as crandc says, the vast majority of late term abortions are for medical reasons. But I do have concerns about the few that may be done for any number of reasons that may seem valid to the mother (economic concerns, breaking up with the father, etc.). A mother's right to choose, IMO, should never be questioned when there are sound medical reasons for the decision. But when those reasons don't exist, no matter how small that percentage may be, the baby's simple right to exist has to be a consideration at the point of viability. This issue is so fraught with religious and women's rights issues that I don't know if we'll ever be able to come up with laws that everyone can agree with, but that doesn't mean that we don't keep trying.

