How Do You Know If Your In Love?

[iversonfan268]

Oh yeah, for the people that asked, I am actually good friends with her lol. It's not one of those situations where I would just see her walking down the halls. And also I did already ask her out but got rejected but things didn't really get weird between us so were still talking to each other a lot and stuff.

 

[Memphology]

Im sorry, but your not in love. Please dont take advice from PFF, hes what like 13? Its not love, especially if you havent dated that person...you will learn, when you start to date a girl she will act different around you...

 

[gentile]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Pacers fan forever @ Jun 20 2007, 07:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>IversonFan, you are in loveThe people in this thread are only debating the degree of love, but there's no doubt that you are in love, no matter what degree of love it is. If I were you I'd be with her as much as you could, go ahead and be with her and love her, you never forget your first love</div>Best post in this thread. I don't care who it comes from, but right is right.Can't nobody tell you what's in your own heart except maybe people that love and know you.

 

[the_pestilence]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (gentile @ Jun 20 2007, 11:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Best post in this thread. I don't care who it comes from, but right is right.Can't nobody tell you what's in your own heart except maybe people that love and know you.</div>bingo. As I said earlier, love is intangible and undefined, and you're the only one who can tell.

 

[Memphology]

Okay, come back in a year and tell us if you still "love" her...please...

 

[Pacers fan forever]

AustinGrizz, you are talking about true love, obviously she's not gonna be his wife, but any love is love, not just true love

 

[Memphology]

Well, when I think about love...im thinking about "true love"....it sounds like yall are talking about puppy love...which EVERYBODY goes through probably more than once....Its like how the saying goes, "its the blind leading the blind"...the 14yr olds on here are telling the other 14yr old hes in love...while the generally older posters are trying to tell him hes most likely not in love...just a major crush(which you start getting around 14 or so).

 

[gentile]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (tHe_pEsTiLeNcE @ Jun 20 2007, 02:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>bingo. As I said earlier, love is intangible and undefined, and you're the only one who can tell.</div>If they care to look, the women always know. All women.

 

[Pacers fan forever]

Yeah, but I'm a wise 14 year old

 

[Memphology]

....wow

 

[Pacers fan forever]

you just realized that?

 

[kingjamez]

I think its very possible to be in love at 14-15.. I am, I think.. I've been friends with this girl for about 7-8 years, and we've always had a thing for eachother. Even when we go out with other people it isn't the same, and were always jealous of eachother. We won't take the chance of going out right now and getting in a deep relationship right now because it could just screw our friendship up completely. We need eachother to much for that to happen. We are in love, but were not mature enough to get into any long, consuming relationship at age 15. I love how it is right now, theres no stress on either of us and we can just be friends for now.. :dribble: I think it is possible to be in love at any age, it's just a matter of maturity.

 

[S_Gurad]

when ya dick goes up.|

 

[noballer08]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (S_Guard @ Jun 20 2007, 03:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>when ya dick goes up.|</div>LMFAO!

 

[Memphology]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Pacers fan forever @ Jun 20 2007, 03:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>you just realized that?</div>I cant believe you just said what you said....Do yall have any idea how much you, and the girls around you will completely change in the next couple years? Okay, if you want to call a major crush "love"...you do that. But when yall get older, and really realize what "love" is...then you will laugh at yourselves for thinking your in love with a chick you have a middle school crush on....

 

[Pacers fan forever]

Iversonfan is in f*cking 10th grade, I think it's love

 

[808Hornetsfan]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BluffCityBlue @ Jun 20 2007, 12:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I cant believe you just said what you said....Do yall have any idea how much you, and the girls around you will completely change in the next couple years? Okay, if you want to call a major crush "love"...you do that. But when yall get older, and really realize what "love" is...then you will laugh at yourselves for thinking your in love with a chick you have a middle school crush on....</div>I have to agree with that, there have been so many girls that I though I was "in love" with, but I really don't think about any of them now. Sometimes you just notice a girl and start to develop feelings for her, but I doubt it's actual love.

 

[808Hornetsfan]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Pacers fan forever @ Jun 20 2007, 12:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Iversonfan is in f*cking 10th grade, I think it's love</div>that doesn't make any sense...

 

[Pacers fan forever]

AustinGrizz was talking about middle school love when iversonfan's a sophomore

 

[Memphology]

Okay...whatever...the point is, your not going to fall in love when your 14...im sorry, but you have so much growing up to do from being 14, its just a crush.

 

[808Hornetsfan]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (iversonfan268 @ Jun 19 2007, 07:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Yeah I know it's pretty rare especially when your not even dating the person. I'll do my best to describe everything. Alright so there's the obvious things like she's constantly on my mind, when I'm around her I feel like one of the happiest guys in the world, other than friends and family she's all I really care about anymore, she's more important to me than my own life, etc. But there's more to it than that. One of the main things that makes this different than any other crush I've ever had is she actually has every single personality trait and physical attribute I look for in a girl(and I'm pretty picky btw). Another thing is for the first time ever just being around her is good enough for me. Just talking or hanging out with her satisfies me enough. Like I know if I do start going out with her, she won't be comfortable going past 1st or 2nd base in High School because she's the goody goody type with good morals but I'm ok with that. Just as long as I'm around her I don't care what I'm doing with her. Another thing is all of a sudden no others girl other than her really appeal to me anymore. Now that I've found a girl that has everything I look for, I don't even have the slightest interest in anyone else.Like if I got to choose between her and Jessica Alba I would choose her. I feel like there's a lot more I have to say but a lot of it I just don't know how to describe in the right way to be honest.BTW The Truth I'm 14 but I'll be 15 in less than 2 months and I'm going into 10th grade lol...</div>I'm sorry, but that still sounds like a huge crush to me... I've had the same feelings for a lot of girls, and it was not love. Iversonfan, you should just go for it and ask her out. I bet she has the same feelings for you and if your as happy as you say you are being with her, then you could both end up in a meaningful relationship.

 

[Pacers fan forever]

Look, I understand why you may be skeptical, especailly with your situations, but I do believe that there are many 14 year olds who are in fact in love, especailly as puberty just gets younger and younger. I do understand that your personal situations may have made you more cautious or restrictive on the definition of love.

 

[808Hornetsfan]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Pacers fan forever @ Jun 20 2007, 12:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Look, I understand why you may be skeptical, especailly with your situations, but I do believe that there are many 14 year olds who are in fact in love, especailly as puberty just gets younger and younger. I do understand that your personal situations may have made you more cautious or restrictive on the definition of love.</div> Nevermind, my point is not getting across to you. BluffCity knows what I'm saying..

 

[Memphology]

What personal issues are you talking about?And what the hell are you talking about puberty getting younger and younger? Thats a natural process, its not something you can go through when you want...Since your talking about my personal issues, I went out with my best friend(it was a women)and for that year and a half, we were best friends, we did absolutley everything together, her friends were my friends and vice versa, I have never been closer to somebody than her, I knew and probably still know everything about her...her likes, dislikes, pet peeves, EVERYTHING. I love her with all my heart, but its not a love-marriage type of love. Theres girls I meet every few weeks who I go completely crazy over, and you know what? The next week, I hardly think about her again. When your around that age when your become more and more mature, you get very strong feelings for women, you cant stop thinking about a certain girl...but its not love. You have to go through so much stuff to really know if you love a perosn or not.

 

[808Hornetsfan]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BluffCityBlue @ Jun 20 2007, 12:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>What personal issues are you talking about?And what the hell are you talking about puberty getting younger and younger? Thats a natural process, its not something you can go through when you want...Since your talking about my personal issues, I went out with my best friend(it was a women)and for that year and a half, we were best friends, we did absolutley everything together, her friends were my friends and vice versa, I have never been closer to somebody than her, I knew and probably still know everything about her...he likes, dislikes, pet peeves, EVERYTHING. I love her with all my heart, but its not a love-marriage type of love. Theres girls I meet every few weeks who I go completely crazy over, and you know what? The next week, I hardly think about her again. When your around that age when your become more and more mature, you get very strong feelings for women, you cant stop thinking about a certain girl...but its not love. You have to go through so much stuff to really know if you love a perosn or not.</div>THANK YOU!!! :worthy: Exactly what I was saying only without the details.

 

[noballer08]

To me, love is a mutual thing. You can't truly love somebody without them loving you back or professing their love for you. A crush is when you like a girl and you like being around her etc. Iversonfan, I think you have a crush, but you should let this chick know so you can get something started and actually feel love.

 

[S_Gurad]

If you have the guts to say "I love you" in her face then you know you love her.| I aint talkin bout her sittin down on your lap causin emotions resulting in u blurtin out "I love you"Me- Yo Shaniquanitayallatashia!Shaniquanitayallatashia- What?Me- I love you!Shaniquanitayallatashia- (smile) I love you to!Me- IN YO FACE!!!Shaniquanitayallatashia- (she still smillin and gigglin) heheheNow thats love when you could say it right in her face eye to eye!-Don't follow this example- lol

 

[Memphology]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (S_Guard @ Jun 20 2007, 03:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>If you have the guts to say "I love you" in her face then you know you love her.| I aint talkin bout her sittin down on your lap causin emotions resulting in u blurtin out "I love you"Me- Yo Shaniquanitayallatashia!Shaniquanitayallatashia- What?Me- I love you!Shaniquanitayallatashia- (smile) I love you to!Me- IN YO FACE!!!Shaniquanitayallatashia- (she still smillin and gigglin) heheheNow thats love when you could say it right in her face eye to eye!-Don't follow this example- lol</div>thats a booty call, children

 

[STAT]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (S_Guard @ Jun 20 2007, 03:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>If you have the guts to say "I love you" in her face then you know you love her.| I aint talkin bout her sittin down on your lap causin emotions resulting in u blurtin out "I love you"Me- Yo Shaniquanitayallatashia!Shaniquanitayallatashia- What?Me- I love you!Shaniquanitayallatashia- (smile) I love you to!Me- IN YO FACE!!!Shaniquanitayallatashia- (she still smillin and gigglin) heheheNow thats love when you could say it right in her face eye to eye!-Don't follow this example- lol</div>

One of the funniest posts ever..And PFF, I don't think he is a sophomore...if he is going to turn 15, then that would probably make him a freshman...because you usually turn 16 as a soph.

 

[Rok]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'>And PFF, I don't think he is a sophomore...if he is going to turn 15, then that would probably make him a freshman...because you usually turn 16 as a soph.</div>Unless you failed a grade or started late. To me, 14 is the freshman age in high school.