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Play Barry White. Who can resist that man's voice?
 
<div class="quote_poster">I-Miss-MJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Not if she is a goth.</div>

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Go for the casual approach dude. Atleast get to know her a bit more before you actually go in for the kill. Forget the looks, she could turn out to be a control-freak that hates all men who don't follow her command or somethign (I'm hoping she's not lol).

If the casual part goes smoothly (atleast a week), then you can go in for the kill much more easily and most importantly, more COMFORTABLY.
 
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My boss just called me and told me he doesnt need me to work tonight because there arent any bookings, so tonights plans go straight out the window.

Next time we're both working together is Friday, so another 2 days of waiting.
 
I'd be laughing if she has a boyfriend already, and when he sees you with her, he comes outta know where and beats the mess out of you.
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JK, good luck bro!
 
"But I do know one thing though - bitches they come, they go" -- Eminem, Superman

Pretty much sums it up. NTC, I think you're a little sprung, especially since you said it was a love at first sight kind of thing. But by all means do you; go on the date and become friends with this girl. With friends might come benefits as well.
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Btw, Umair, Iverson is screaming to get out of your sig!
 
<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">
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My boss just called me and told me he doesnt need me to work tonight because there arent any bookings, so tonights plans go straight out the window.

Next time we're both working together is Friday, so another 2 days of waiting.</div>

This is like some weird 21st century version of Romeo and Juliet.
 
<div class="quote_poster">MrJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">"But I do know one thing though - bitches they come, they go" -- Eminem, Superman

Pretty much sums it up. NTC, I think you're a little sprung, especially since you said it was a love at first sight kind of thing. But by all means do you; go on the date and become friends with this girl. With friends might come benefits as well.
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Btw, Umair, Iverson is screaming to get out of your sig!</div>
I think his freestyling skills carried over to signature-making.
 
Here's some words of wisdom for you young bucks.

For every hot girl you come across, there's a guy out there who got tired of dealing with her drama. She's single for a reason boys.

NTC187 I don't know how long this back and forth flirtation has been going on for, but you need to make the first move. The more you obsess over her, the worse you're going to feel if it doesn't work out.

If I were you I'd go out in a big group to see what kind of girlfriends she hangs around. Hot girls usually travel in packs so increase our odds by meeting more of her friends. Girls are motivated by jealously, so make her jealous.
 
<div class="quote_poster">MrJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Btw, Umair, Iverson is screaming to get out of your sig!</div>
He is screaming like your mom was last night.
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<div class="quote_poster">Locke Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I think his freestyling skills carried over to signature-making.</div>
I know man. Both are superb aren't they?
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<div class="quote_poster">Umair15 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">He is screaming like your mom was last night.
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OHHHHH no he did-ent (in a voice of a white man trying to sound black)
 
<div class="quote_poster">hustler Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">He looks as if someone cut his balls off...</div>

Oddly enough, considering the thread, it is somewhat appropriate you mention that.
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<div class="quote_poster">Umair15 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">I'd be laughing if she has a boyfriend already, and when he sees you with her, he comes outta know where and beats the mess out of you.
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JK, good luck bro!</div>

Hahahahaha, he'd better bring an army with him if that was the case

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<div class="quote_poster">MrJ Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">"But I do know one thing though - bitches they come, they go" -- Eminem, Superman

Pretty much sums it up. NTC, I think you're a little sprung, especially since you said it was a love at first sight kind of thing. But by all means do you; go on the date and become friends with this girl. With friends might come benefits as well.
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Btw, Umair, Iverson is screaming to get out of your sig!</div>

I'll just clear up, that I'm not in love, yet, I just wanted to give the topic a better title than somthing like "Liek OMGZ!!11! I Like A GIRL!!1!!1!", lol.

Thats my plans for now, just get to know her a bit better, then see what happens from there, I'm just one of those people that doesnt like to sit around waiting for things to happen.

Basically, I'm just really anxcious to see her again, so I can get to know her better.

<div class="quote_poster">shapecity Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Here's some words of wisdom for you young bucks.

For every hot girl you come across, there's a guy out there who got tired of dealing with her drama. She's single for a reason boys.

NTC187 I don't know how long this back and forth flirtation has been going on for, but you need to make the first move. The more you obsess over her, the worse you're going to feel if it doesn't work out.

If I were you I'd go out in a big group to see what kind of girlfriends she hangs around. Hot girls usually travel in packs so increase our odds by meeting more of her friends. Girls are motivated by jealously, so make her jealous.</div>

Oh I plan on making the first move, thats the other reason I'm real anxcious, about this, I just want to see her again, so I can get to know her a bit better, and see if she really is the kind of girl I want to be with.

As for the going out thing, thats what I was planning on doing, just ask her (like in a casual manner), then tell her to bring a friend/s if she would like too, that way she hopefully would feel a bit more comfortable, and not pressured like if it was a date or somthing. Then if that goes down well, and I really fall for her, then I'll take it to the next level.

I dont think she is a high maintence kind of girl, I mean from the way your post came across, it sounded as though it was catering more towards a "Paris Hilton" type of hot girl, but she isnt like that, I mean she is hot, but not a "stupid" hot if you know what I mean. Like I know and have come across many of the girls you're talking about, and this girl isnt like them. I personally think guys may be a bit turned off by her height, as I said, she's about 5'9, 5'10, she isnt like some lankey freak (ala Deuce Bigalow, lol), shes just tall, but I mean I'm 5'11 - 6'0 myself, so its not an issue for me. I mean I know I usually would like a girl to be somthing like 5'6, 5'7.
 
Good luck. I guess its your first time, since you sound nervous. But no matter what happens, just go for it. Its your chance dude. And use some advices posted here. GOOD LUCK!
 
lol, its not my first time, I'm not nervous either. I'm anxcious, theres a difference. Nervous is being to scared to do anything about somthing out of fear of failiure or rejection, none of that worries me. I just want to make sure I get this right, as I said, I havent felt this way about girl in a while, and I dont want to screw up any possible relationship (wether it be romantic, or casual) over doing somthing stupid.

Coming here and talking about it with you guys, hearing your opinions is therapudic (sp?) for me.
 
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<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Hahahahaha, he'd better bring an army with him if that was the case

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I'll just clear up, that I'm not in love, yet, I just wanted to give the topic a better title than somthing like "Liek OMGZ!!11! I Like A GIRL!!1!!1!", lol.

Thats my plans for now, just get to know her a bit better, then see what happens from there, I'm just one of those people that doesnt like to sit around waiting for things to happen.

Basically, I'm just really anxcious to see her again, so I can get to know her better.



Oh I plan on making the first move, thats the other reason I'm real anxcious, about this, I just want to see her again, so I can get to know her a bit better, and see if she really is the kind of girl I want to be with.

As for the going out thing, thats what I was planning on doing, just ask her (like in a casual manner), then tell her to bring a friend/s if she would like too, that way she hopefully would feel a bit more comfortable, and not pressured like if it was a date or somthing. Then if that goes down well, and I really fall for her, then I'll take it to the next level.

I dont think she is a high maintence kind of girl, I mean from the way your post came across, it sounded as though it was catering more towards a "Paris Hilton" type of hot girl, but she isnt like that, I mean she is hot, but not a "stupid" hot if you know what I mean. Like I know and have come across many of the girls you're talking about, and this girl isnt like them. I personally think guys may be a bit turned off by her height, as I said, she's about 5'9, 5'10, she isnt like some lankey freak (ala Deuce Bigalow, lol), shes just tall, but I mean I'm 5'11 - 6'0 myself, so its not an issue for me. I mean I know I usually would like a girl to be somthing like 5'6, 5'7.</div>

Just reading your post, you come across as very nervous just talking about her.
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Keep us updated on your progress and execute your gamplan.
 
lol, really? How did that sound nervous?

I guess maybe I am a little bit nervous, not about asking her out or whatever, just about screwing up.
 
dude is a playa.

dude you screw up and you're totally f****d since you work with her and the whole awkwardness surrounding you both. Then she walks in with some burly hunk of a man and you go straight to the bottle and drink yourself into oblivion and......i've ranted enough.

Just when she is bending over doing something, walk past and say "I'd hit that"

putty in your hands.
 
ntc since u know very little about her, what would u do if u found out she was a killer of children?
 
<div class="quote_poster">deception Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">ntc since u know very little about her, what would u do if u found out she was a killer of children?</div>

What do you think?

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<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">lol, really? How did that sound nervous?

I guess maybe I am a little bit nervous, not about asking her out or whatever, just about screwing up.</div>

well your nervous to know what might/might not happen and at the same time anxious to know what will happen. Almost same. But keep us updated.

NTC is thinking: I'm in luv with a strippa, I'm in luv with a strippa.
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Well yeah, I guess I am nervous on that point, I guess I'm just going to have to be patient, lol. Anyway I'll let you guys know what happens tomorrow as thats when shes working next.
 
Shape made a really great point about the jealousy aspect. I didn't really realize this before but you realize it more as you get older. Basically, the more you chase after them, the more gassed they get, the more they think they can do better. That goes for any guy going after any girl basically. When you have a certain amount of guys, all after you, you tend to get gassed sooner or later. Basically, the one guy that plays "hard to get" and makes the girl feel like their just an *option* rather then a priority, his chances are higher to get her (depending on if she's attracted to you or not).

I'm not saying apply this theory to your girl because it's kind of a different situation but ignoring girls you want to notice you definetly works (pending that you ALREADY talk to them, but want they to like you). Also, more girls come to you when you're talking to girls, it's like they want to be in the other girl's position. This is only in school settings though, I've never tried to date a girl from work before.
 
<div class="quote_poster">NTC187 Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">What do you think?

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hopefully u would report her but then again u might go into hiding together
 
Man this thread is getting more posts per day than any other thread out there.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Pakman Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">Man this thread is getting more posts per day than any other thread out there.</div>

It's called caring.
 
NTC, man up! You can't talk to her when you're nervous. Girls like confident people. How do you normally apporach girls? Just do the same with her and take it slow, it seems as if you're already thinking about marriage.
 
<div class="quote_poster">Laker_fan Wrote</div><div class="quote_post">NTC, man up! You can't talk to her when you're nervous. Girls like confident people. How do you normally apporach girls? Just do the same with her and take it slow, it seems as if you're already thinking about marriage.</div>

Where did this come from?
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Did you actually read any of what I said? I'm not nervous about talking to her at all, I cant wait to see / talk to her again, I'm only nervous about rejection, or failiure, but I'm sure most guys feel like that when in my position aswell.

I have no problem in talking to her, or wanting to ask her out, so I dont understand where you got that from.
 
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