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Chris Craig said:
Others were not allowed to rail on you. Posts were removed.

It could have been avoided by you ignoring his response too.

Why do you care so much what others think about you?
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because i have been falsely accused of some serious shit because i was opposed to someones behavior on here.
To the point that dude beought it up again today, In this thread and roundabout accused me again of shit i never did!!!

He is the forum pet, so people believe him and look down on me, regardless of knowing the facts. he has cohersed others into thinking im some slimy dude that would do such things outside of this forum aNd their treatment of me is clearly evident of this.

I mean he tried to do it again today!!!

you'd be concerned about it too, if you were still being accused of shit you never did….
 
That's some paranoid shit right there. Who is he coercing and manipulating into thinking of you like that?
 
Orion Bailey said:
i didnt say they should. I used the olympics as an example. I also mentioned possible weight classes.

This is ridiculous.

Look ill just remember to never post anything unless ive gone through the minstrel scrutiny to make sure my post is deserving of something more than snark…

how that for a solution???
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Look all I am saying is I looked back and I see where both of you are coming from.

I agree this ridiculous.

Look, posts get criticized. I've lost count how many posts of mine have been criticized over the years. I've learned not to take it too seriously. Opinions are like lips and assholes, everyone has them and they are all different.
 
Orion Bailey said:
because i have been falsely accused of some serious shit because i was opposed to someones behavior on here.
To the point that dude beought it up again today, In this thread and roundabout accused me again of shit i never did!!!

He is the forum pet, so people believe him and look down on me, regardless of knowing the facts. he has cohersed others into thinking im some slimy dude that would do such things outside of this forum aNd their treatment of me is clearly evident of this.

I mean he tried to do it again today!!!

you'd be concerned about it too, if you were still being accused of shit you never did….
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I am well aware of the history between you two

I think at this point we all wish none of that ever happened.

There are no forum pets. Who cares what people believe. You know what is true?

No one thinks you are a slimy dude
 
Orion Bailey said:
You.
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LOL, you're delusional if you think my assessment of you is based off of anything other than your posting style in this forum. I've never communicated with HCP outside of the forum to be under his spell. Hell, I completely missed all of the original employment drama.
 
RR7 said:
LOL, you're delusional if you think my assessment of you is based off of anything other than your posting style in this forum. I've never communicated with HCP outside of the forum to be under his spell. Hell, I completely missed all of the original employment drama.
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THE HCP = the real THROAT GOAT
 
I get crap in here - from every direction, on virtually every subject - all of the time. Basically, it all stems from my religious and political beliefs. Moreover, because I voted twice for Trump. Prior to that, I did just fine. Been a well liked moderator here in past years, as well. At any rate, in light of the jabs, accusations, and insults, I've engaged in snarky snark, facetiousness, and/or sarcasm on many occasions.
 
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Orion Bailey said:
its an open ended discussion of thoughts and ideas. Of.m course they arent fully thought out. Its called brainstorming.
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That's fine. But IF you choose to "brainstorm" ideas that you haven't thought through fully, don't get upset if people poke holes in what you decided to toss out there. That was my point. It's not up to me, or to anyone responding to you, to figure out how to complete your thoughts.
 
ABM said:
I get crap in here - from every direction, on virtually every subject - in here all of the time. Basically, it all stems from my religious and political beliefs. Moreover, because I voted twice for Trump. Prior to that, I did just fine. Been a well liked moderator here in past years, as well. At any rate, in light of the jabs, accusations, and insults, I've engaged in snarky snark, facetiousness, and/or sarcasm on many occasions.
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And you take it all in stride and don't go on daily tantrums posting hundreds of words on how unfair it all is, and the bias of it all and the woe and the victimhood. Only to repeat it again. Amazing.
 
RR7 said:
I've never communicated with HCP outside of the forum to be under his spell. Hell, I completely missed all of the original employment drama.
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How sad that you had to type, “original employment drama”. That fact that you had to decipher WHICH time somebody on here tried to ruin me and my family’s life is mind blowing.
 
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RR7 said:
And you take it all in stride and don't go on daily tantrums posting hundreds of words on how unfair it all is, and the bias of it all and the woe and the victimhood. Only to repeat it again. Amazing.
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I challenge you to post when/where I've gone on so-called tantrums of unfairness, etc., and I'll address accordingly.
 
THE HCP said:
How sad that you had to type, “original employment drama”. That fact that you had to decider WHICH time somebody on here tried to ruin me and my family’s life is mind blowing.
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Ok. Let's let sleeping dogs lie. It won't benefit you to dredge this up again.
 
ABM said:
I challenge you to post when/where I've gone on so-called tantrums of unfairness, etc., and I'll address accordingly.
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I think RR7 was commending you on the fact that you don't throw so-called tantrums.
 
RR7 said:
And you take it all in stride and don't go on daily tantrums posting hundreds of words on how unfair it all is, and the bias of it all and the woe and the victimhood. Only to repeat it again. Amazing.
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Thank you.
 
Lol!

toughen up. Everyone snarks at each other. Its common. Its accepted. Dont ever push back on it.
either join and accept it or dont engage.

No one here is ever gonna look in on their own communication styles to see if they can improve. Why? Its accepted already!

Its easier to rail on those who think thats bullshit. Rather than look into oneself and see if improvements could have been made to allow for a better, more positive interaction….

instead lets put all the honus and responsibility on the other to learn to accept it or else….

This allows the complete avoidance of any responsibility for ones behavior.

i need to utilize this trick more often.
 
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ABM said:
I took his response as a bit of sarcasm. Thanks for clarifying.
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Nah he is comparing you and i. As if everyone should be robotically the same and have the exact same reactions. Because were not individuals with our own opinions.
We should all just react exactly how he wants us to react amidst such negativity, Or its my issue. Not the spewer of negativity.
Lol.
The lengths to defend such negative behavior is astounding!
 
ABM said:
I took his response as a bit of sarcasm. Thanks for clarifying.
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Just pointing out it's very easy to misread a post
 
Orion Bailey said:
Lol!

toughen up. Everyone snarks at each other. Its common. Its accepted. Dont ever push back on it.
either join and accept it or dont engage.

No one here is ever gonna look in on their own communication styles to see if they can improve. Why? Its accepted already!

Its easier to rail on those who think thats bullshit. Rather than look into oneself and see if improvements could have been made to allow for a better, more positive interaction….

instead lets put all the honus and responsibility on the other to learn to accept it or else….

This allows the complete avoidance of any responsibility for ones behavior.

i need to utilize this trick more often.
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But you're the only one railing about it. If it weren't for you posting about it all the time it wouldn't be an issue.

I get that it doesn't make you feel good, but these long posts and arguments about it can't make you feel great either...
 
Orion Bailey said:
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Nah he is comparing you and i. As if everyone should be robotically the same and have the exact same reactions. Because were not individuals with our own opinions.
We should all just react exactly how he wants us to react amidst such negativity, Or its my issue. Not the spewer of negativity.
Lol.
The lengths to defend such negative behavior is astounding!
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He was comparing him to you, yes.

And we shouldn't be commenting on posters, but you continue this on and on and it makes it hard not to comment on it man. I get where you are coming from, I do. It's a bit overboard though man.

We would all be better to give ourselves a moment before we react.

Who is defending anyone? He was being thankful for a clarification.

I again only clarified to show posts can easily be misread and reactions can be easily over had.
 
Chris Craig said:
He was comparing him to you, yes.

And we shouldn't be commenting on posters, but you continue this on and on and it makes it hard not to comment on it man. I get where you are coming from, I do. It's a bit overboard though man.

We would all be better to give ourselves a moment before we react.

Who is defending anyone? He was being thankful for a clarification.

I again only clarified to show posts can easily be misread and reactions can be easily over had.
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It starts with the innitial negativity.
Until that is addressed, the fallout shouldn't be a factor.

And if a person is sooo stubborn they cant say you know. I feel my snark wasn't out of line, but i apologize if you felt i insulted you with my deserving nothing more comment,

then this would have all been over with too.

Im not the only stubborn one here but almost always accused of as the only stubborn one.
When that changes, ill change.

Its funny how someone else can start negativity, but all the responsibility to not let it escalate is on the recipient of negativity. Not on the one spreading such negativity.


But we all see things differently i suppose…
 
Orion Bailey said:
It starts with the innitial negativity.
Until that is addressed, the fallout shouldn't be a factor.

And if a person is sooo stubborn they cant say you know. I feel my snark wasn't out of line, but i apologize if you felt i insulted you with my deserving nothing more comment,

then this would have all been over with too.

Im not the only stubborn one here but almost always accused of as the only stubborn one.
When that changes, ill change.

Its funny how someone else can start negativity, but all the responsibility to not let it escalate is on the recipient of negativity. Not on the one spreading such negativity.


But we all see things differently i suppose…
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I think both of you were misunderstood.

So, you were saying there should be weight classes like in boxing for all sports. I don't think that would work. We can have a conversation on why if you like, but it's not important to my point here.

You used the special Olympics as an analogy. It was bad analogy sorry. Again We can go into that too if you'd like.

Your take on changing the process of competition to better fit trans people was taken as being discriminatory in trying to divide trans people from other competitors. I would still like clarification from you and Hoop on those posts.

Minstrel reacted. He used sarcasm, because he thought it was ridiculous to advocate such discriminatory divisions.

Could he have asked for clarification yes. And, he should have seeing he was critical that you didn't provide further reasoning behind your idea. If he wanted a more comprehensive reasoning he should have asked for clarification.
 
Chris Craig said:
I think both of you were misunderstood.

So, you were saying there should be weight classes like in boxing for all sports. I don't think that would work. We can have a conversation on why if you like, but it's not important to my point here.

You used the special Olympics as an analogy. It was bad analogy sorry. Again We can go into that too if you'd like.

Your take on changing the process of competition to better fit trans people was taken as being discriminatory in trying to divide trans people from other competitors. I would still like clarification from you and Hoop on those posts.

Minstrel reacted. He used sarcasm, because he thought it was ridiculous to advocate such discriminatory divisions.

Could he have asked for clarification probably.
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Well me personally i prefer to give people the benefit of the doubt before i judge them a bigot or discriminating against anything.
More than happy to continue it, but not here. not gonna subjugate myself to hasty judgements without being provided the benefit of the doubt and asked to clarify.

im one of the most non bigoted, accepting of all people, there are here. Because a person is brainstorming a conversation does not mean they have made a final analysis on thier opinion. Or thier “ nonthought out” post doesnt need a bit of direction without labeling it as not worthy of anything more than snark.
 
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