Teach Nasser How to Talk

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<span style="font-family:Book Antiqua">Well, Naseer (if that's your real name!), first and foremost, "what's up?" isn't supposed to be a question. Just say, "What's up?" back. Nothing more, nothing less. Leave it at that.Secondly, you asked if it is required to be an interesting person...What are you, retarded? If you'd like to conversate with people, at least attempt to be moderately interesting. If you can't handle talking about interesting subjects, why bother to even speak to people?Last but not least, about the ladies.. I usually ask them how they are and try to find anything to talk about. I won't say that I'm a playa or anything, but I do talk to a lot of chicks. I have girls writing on my arms, hugging me when they see me down the halls, etc. I suggest you just be cool, you know? Try your hardest to not be shy. How will you not be shy? Well, don't smile when you speak to girls, or guys (that's just weird)... Smiling shows that you are nervous. Try not to fidget neither.I taught myself how to not be shy. I also have a Forensics & Debate class. I talk pretty fast, so some people think I'm shy and just trying to get a conversation over with. In reality, I just naturally talk fast. Try hard not to talk fast, okay?</span>
 
I used to thing 'what's up' is a greeting. but whenever I say it they say like 'not much' or something like that.I used to be REALLY shy... you just gotta tell yourself it's not a big deal to go up to someone and bring up conversation. For me, it's hard to get to know someone right off the bat, but after that is done converstion is eaaaassssyyy..
 
Don't worry about it man. I have the same problem pretty much. I suck at talking to new people or making new friends. HAHA this thread will be useful though. Thanks guys.
 
"I Kid Kid" I think it was mad tv I heard that from or maybe the simpsons.. That ronald mcdonald nig. said it I think, tall white guy on mad tv.. played stuart. "look what I can do"alright I would give u advice on girls but I sucked and still suck with females I have actual feelings for. I say the dumbest sh*t. But the hoodrat chicks or girls are easier. back then I just joke around with little jokes here and there, and be the one to initiate touchin, cause if she does and she notices your nervous, your mostly likey defined as friend right there. as a result this can l lead too.... :doh: 18+ forum :shifty2:. Anyway a lot of girls giggle in sh*t to light sarcasm. Be animated too but not too much or your will look like an idiot.If a girl is just a friendly type well she would look at u weird. A girl that likes u would giggle or some sh*t.I just thought about for a min though. I'm in nyc and femmes here is STUCK THE F*ck UP. Well MOST of them nowadays. Even the UGLY n UGLIEST ones are stuck up. They should be happy a guy or even a homeless man wants to sit next to their ass. I might be givin u wrong advice but be cool with your jokes and don't just say it. Show a little accent change and pitch in your voice along with physical animation, like moving your arms or a part of your body. They most likely wont mind if u touch em too. especially if they kinda like you. Now if she got some past problems well.. touching may notbe a good idea. Thats what makes them confusing but whatever just try sh*t out. Lucky ass nig. u lucky u aint here. They will eat your money up!!! even as a friend. Yo and if u know what Dykes are. MAKE FRIENDS with them. They can hook u up with chicks easily or just friend girls.DYKES...MAKE FRIENDS WITH DYKES. well up here thats the case. I miss the 18+ forum
 
Wellllll....For the past few years I have tried to act like a jacka$$ to other people/do stupid sh*t to get attention and friends. It worked for some, while others began to hate me. This year I don't do stupid sh*t anymore, and rarely act like an ***hole to others to get attention. It looks a lot better to other people, and you don't get a bad reputation.As for girls, I am probably not the best advice giver as I am pretty shy and not outgoing like lots of others. I just simply am not the type of person to give random girls hugs in the hallway or go to the diner with a bunch of people. But with girls that I have gone out with/almost had, it has always been with being somewhat of a mystery, being cocky, tough to get, looking like I'm outgoing, etc... Most of the time this is the kind of person you have to be to get a girl, outgoing, social and at times hard to get. You have to somewhat change your personality, and while it sucks IMO, rewards are high (well, if you're lucky anyway!).
 
if they like to drink get drunk with them :happy0144: jk, earmuffs boys and girls.
 
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It's not a problem for me. I always have something to say, and I am too talkative. If you are too shy then thats alright. Just try to get conversation started. Talk about something..etc..
 
<span style="font-family:Book Antiqua">I have the tendency to joke around a lot. Why not try to crack jokes about anything and everything? Just always show a sign of sarcasm...</span>
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (SunnyD @ Oct 19 2006, 05:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>
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This thread is pretty awesome.Nasser, you were talking about Sidesh, it's fun to make fun at yourself sometimes too. Even if it causes embarressment for a while, people forget the little things quicker than you'd think.</div>I do make fun of myself. Plenty of terrorist jokes. :happy0144:
 
<span style="font-family:Book Antiqua">Aww... Naseer, you're Middle Eastern, eh? I'm Pakistani. I'm not a terrorist, but I am the guy who helps Iraqi's sell gas. I also own those liquor stores where black people are treated like sh*t because I think they steal my slushi drinks...
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Well today was a good day, mostly because other people had something to say so I just went with that. During the 2nd half of the day though I was tired and had a headache so I forgot to say hi to a few people and was really quiet it sucked.<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Illosophee @ Oct 19 2006, 09:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'><span style="font-family:Book Antiqua">Aww... Naseer, you're Middle Eastern, eh? I'm Pakistani. I'm not a terrorist, but I am the guy who helps Iraqi's sell gas. I also own those liquor stores where black people are treated like sh*t because I think they steal my slushi drinks...
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</span></div> :happy0144: I'm Iranian so this is really the best time for some terrorist jokes.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (ASUFan22 @ Oct 19 2006, 11:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>:happy0144: I'm Iranian so this is really the best time for some terrorist jokes.</div>Sorry, we have to ban you or the terrorists have won.
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Dont learn how to talk to girls in the internet or basketball forum......j/kuhm, just wondering, do you have a squeky voice? If so, talk low and it makes you sound better. Ive noticed one of my friends does that, and it works.
 
This isn't just about talking to girls, just talking...I have a pretty low voice.
 
OMG, I'm talking more now except for when I'm really tired. It's like a whole new world...damn, it's so great to talk though I'm still pretty shy.
 
I get nervous when I speak in front of a class room for some reason, even when it's not that big of a deal. Does anyone now how to solve that?
 
I don't. I feel pretty comfortable in my World History class but I still couldn't read a full sentence without pausing. Maybe I need to drink more water....
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (ASUFan22 @ Nov 15 2006, 10:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I don't. I feel pretty comfortable in my World History class but I still couldn't read a full sentence without pausing. Maybe I need to drink more water....</div>Yeah...I can't even read a paragraph in like...my english class without hearing my voice quiver. I don't get it.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (coyn3burglar @ Nov 15 2006, 09:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I get nervous when I speak in front of a class room for some reason, even when it's not that big of a deal. Does anyone now how to solve that?</div>Imagine everyone naked.Except that one guy, he should have a hat on.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (coyn3burglar @ Nov 15 2006, 11:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I get nervous when I speak in front of a class room for some reason, even when it's not that big of a deal. Does anyone now how to solve that?</div>I dont think it is something you can solve, it just has to do with personality. I am probably the least-shy person ever. I say withe I want to say, when I want. I think you should just have confidence in what you are saying, not worry, and just talk.
 
Ugh...bump. I'm entering the quietest stage of the year. I don't know where all my talk from a few months ago went.
 
wat u can do is eaves drop on the people u are shy about talking to...
 
I just have nothing to start a conversation about except for sports and sports talk isn't that great at school. Name some good topics for discussion. I'll watch 300 later this week so I'll have 1 conversation ready.
 
thats why u gotta eaves drop a little, to find out some topics they are interested in.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BALLAHOLLIC @ Oct 18 2006, 11:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>1.) Talk about them, People love talking about themselves so discuss there common interests. If you know they enjoy something.. Then talk about it. "Hey how is your soccer season going" Things like that work wonders.</div> Tony hit it right on the head. When you ask people about them or their interests they are much more apt to want to talk to you...or think about you positively. I'm pretty good with talking to people or bullshitting conversations....because I'm snappy and can make people laugh. Just be more loose ASU. Posting on forums isn't going to help either....haha.
 
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