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Nasser if you don't learn how to talk your never going to get any pussi lol, your going to be a virgin for ever.
 
I was exactly like you last year. Now I'm totally different. The main thing is to stay calm, think about what you are going to say, and just go with it. I found that making good eye contact helps too. Don't look at the ground, or anything like that.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Dmoney @ Mar 12 2007, 01:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Nasser if you don't learn how to talk your never going to get any pussi lol, your going to be a virgin for ever.</div> :cry2: Corona, Ginger, a good school.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (austingriz76 @ Oct 18 2006, 09:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Dont do that, it is weird
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, just try to get involved with them, theres different ways to get to know girls. One of the old school ways I was taught it when a girl does something funny, just look at them weird and a laugh just a little bit. Then they will notice you then. After that maybe ask her a question about school, and/or if you see them with a book, or a magazine or hear them talking about something you know about, start a conversation about that. Then after that you should be pretty comfortable talking to her. And when people say "whats up", what I do is say"whats up" and keep walking :lol:btw, im shy also and it works for me</div>Thats exactly wut I do. I had to present some crap in 2 classes today and I met some white girls by doing the whole "lookin at dem weird when they do something funny" thing. because I mean, they were blonde.. and they were dumb as hell. I couldnt help but laugh
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dont EVER talk about a girls hair.I once said just a little thing to this girl, and then she like ran out of words and was like about to cry so I was like sorry I didnt mean it like that and stuff..so yeah, dont ever talk about a girls hair unless you're sure you're complimenting it without sounding weird/gay.I know some people say dont act like u are very interested and whatever and so on, but I think some girls want attention. so yeah like whoever said talk about their interests... but dont sound like a stalker...I guess u just need practice..
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (tHe_pEsTiLeNcE @ Mar 12 2007, 08:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>take a theatre improv class. That sh*t works wonders on your social skills.</div> Only hardcore nerds are in improv....thats the way it was when I was in HS.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (BrewCityBuck @ Mar 13 2007, 07:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Only hardcore nerds are in improv....thats the way it was when I was in HS.</div>Yes, but a good improv class will totally get you out of your shell and force social skills upon you
 
lol. I think theres an Improv club at my school. I only know one guy in there, and he's like a real life Napolean Dynamite.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (ASUFan22 @ Mar 12 2007, 05:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>:cry2: Corona, Ginger, a good school.</div>corona del sol? Screw that place lol. Sports teams aren't so good but your band's supposed to be great.
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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Something-To-Say @ Mar 13 2007, 09:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>corona del sol? Screw that place lol. Sports teams aren't so good but your band's supposed to be great.
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</div>Football usually isn'tgood but basketball, baseball and girl's sports re.
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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (ASUFan22 @ Mar 13 2007, 10:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Football usually isn'tgood but basketball, baseball and girl's sports re.
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</div>What the hell? When's the last time corona didn't suck at basketball?
 
Just don't thin ktoo much bout wat other people wud say. And one thing I used 2 have problems with was talkin to like just a group of people. No1 is too cool or watever for u to talk to. With girls here, they like to really flirt so just flirt.
 
The first thing you have to do is to be yourself, and you have to understand that not everyone will like you and you can not be afraid of rejection. To talk, you have to be comfortable in what you are saying and you cant fake that you are interested in something that you infact are not because the person will sooner or later figure it out. Also when u speak, have confidence, if ure confident peopel will take you seriously even if what you are saying is a little akward. Also like someone said before, dont smile whiel ure talking or talk to fats that just shows that you are a little scared. As for a topic of converstaion, anything works as long as you know the person you are talking to may be able to relate to it a little bit. School is always an easy topic to go to when trying to talk to a girl. Just go to a girls locker that you know and just start talking to her that will boost up ure confidence and will allow u to talk to more people. One thing is to never tell a girl u dont shes a slut unless you kinow them real well and they woudl take it as a joke, or if the girl knows urejoking. I was talking to this girl on aim that is very close to one of my friends, and when she asked me what my friend said about her I said "he says ure a slut, lol j/k", but she took it very serious and almost screwed my friend over.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Something-To-Say @ Mar 13 2007, 10:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>What the hell? When's the last time corona didn't suck at basketball?</div>Quarterfinals this year, finals last year and a pretty darn good history under the 2 Duane's.
 
Well, I got meself the normal guy, friend talk down now that I'm lifting weights and I have another topic to talk about. All I need to do is watch a few more movies and I'll be more interesting. :)Now to move on and focus totally on chicks. Now there's this very hot, in my opinion, Mexican/Latina/w/e girl in one of my classes. She has a boyfriend but he's a douche bag so no need to worry about him...but WOW is she hot or what? Yes.
 
haha theres this spanish girl in my class too, shes my friend...some people think shes hot, but idk... I think she is just a girl that developed very quickly.. shes only 13/14 and she has a pretty big ass and tits already...and shes rich and her dad is white her mom is from peru..Yeah lolumh does this mexican/latina girl act white or does she act like a mexican whore?
 
I cannot share your sympathy, sorry...I honestly do not know anyone more outgoing that myself, and I am hella funny. I don't say that, other people tell me so. I can quite honestly talk to anyone.Here is some tips however...When in a conversation, and there is not much to talk about, ask the other person questions about themselves... "How was your day?" "What did you do?" ETC... If you do this you can keep even the most lame convo going till a spark starts, cause people like to talk about themselves ALOT, much more than others.Next...Don't be just another number, another person. What makes me personally such a unique, funny, and charismatic person is my signature mannerisms, sayings, and just style of speech...Like yesterday my friend who is new at my job finally found out how to process checks correctly, and I held him by his head, and said... "I call you son, cause you shine like one."Also not being so damn predictable can be fun, just try to have fun with life... Like yesterday at my job (Grocery Store) This Mom had just gotten Sushi buy one get 1 free, and I was talking to her while the sh!t processed about how much I love Sushi, ETC... Than her two kids started fighting over who would get to eat the sushi, and the Mom was obviously annoined... So I said... "Hey! Children, stop fighting over the Sushi, or soon Josh (Points to name tag) Will be eating the Sushi!"The Mom got a nice laugh, and it wasn't really funny what I said, it just was not expected.In anything you try to do, find people to emulate, but be your own, and make sure to use those examples of people you emulate TO NOT act like. People in general love other people who are unique and different. You do not have to be weird.Also do not analyze situations... I do this sometimes, all humans do, and when you do this it makes you shy, instead of thinking "What should I say" be like "What is so interesting about this person? Oh, they are wearing Jordans."... "SON!!! I like them Jay's!" Bam, now a convo is started, you can move to your shoes, or go anywhere, just don't limit yourself, try to have fun, and above all else, DONT OVERTHINK!Even the most funny, and charismatic people seem/feel lame sometimes, and some people I honestly flop around, it's all good, no one is perfect, just use what you got.I hope I helped without bragging too much. :doh:
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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (tmgbball15 @ Mar 14 2007, 12:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>The first thing you have to do is to be yourself, and you have to understand that not everyone will like you and you can not be afraid of rejection.</div>5 stars, seriously... Once I learned this, my social life was so much better.In middle school I was not funny, or cool AT ALL... Although alot of circumstances that were out of my hands hurt me socially, once I learned this, I was so much better...Being a social person is a skill, just like basketball, it must be developed, and practiced. Some people are naturally gifted, but being around people and practicing (Which is fun) improves your social ability's , and keeps you on point.Also this tip than tmg gave you is gold.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (junot111 @ Mar 24 2007, 09:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>haha theres this spanish girl in my class too, shes my friend...some people think shes hot, but idk... I think she is just a girl that developed very quickly.. shes only 13/14 and she has a pretty big ass and tits already...and shes rich and her dad is white her mom is from peru..Yeah lolumh does this mexican/latina girl act white or does she act like a mexican whore?</div>Not a whore, she acts normal...
 
get the boyfriend jealous :Dit can actually have a positive effect.and also heres another tip, improvise. use what you have available infront of you. thats what makes comedians so funny, the ability to make stuff up, not just say something based on a script..
 
What do you suggest I do? I rarely talk to here. What would be a great first thing to talk about and when would be the best time to work my way towards her to talk?
 
Just talk to her as a friend and try to comfort her, like try to find out things she's interested in and just talk to her about stuff and make sure she knows that your there for her.
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (ASUFan22 @ Mar 24 2007, 05:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>What do you suggest I do? I rarely talk to here. What would be a great first thing to talk about and when would be the best time to work my way towards her to talk?</div>Well if shes in any of ure classes, or has any of teh same teachers an easy topic to talk about is about the class. That would get the conversation started, after that you could ask her about her a little since girls really enjoy talking about themselves. The key is to listen and pay attention to her so that you can say something when she is done. Overall just treat her as a regular person, but most importantly be youselve because you want someoen to like you for who you are
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (tmgbball15 @ Mar 14 2007, 10:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>dont smile whiel ure talking or talk to fats that just shows that you are a little scared.</div> Hey man, what you got against fat people? I have some friends who are a little chubby and I'm not scared when I talk to them.
 
you have to really know them..I think I was kind of fortunate because for me and this girl the whole class considered me the joker and we started talking like not anything big just occasionally I'd talk to her make her laugh but see I had friends who were in the "click" or whatever like friends with her.. so it kinda made it easier for them to know me...cause when you know people who know that person, u can do things like goto movies and stuff when that person is there...u know what I mean
 
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (The Captain @ Mar 24 2007, 07:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Hey man, what you got against fat people? I have some friends who are a little chubby and I'm not scared when I talk to them.</div> :HAHAHA:
 
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