PCmor7
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People like this are why people question allegations when there is no physical evidence (probably most notably rape allegations).
It's better to allow a guilty person to go free than have the justice department ruin an innocent person's life. And I prefer law that errs on that side of caution.
I'm sorry you've had any false allegations against you (I know they were far less than rape allegations, but it's a terrible betrayal all the same).
I hope things are getting better.
Thank you.
Obviously, there's so much wrong with stuff like this. I'm still limited in being able to get a job in my field and even to travel just because of the allegations, most of which were eventually removed completely or substantially downgraded. The initial reports still are out there. The DA's office had all of the evidence, knew there wasn't any reason to charge me with anything, and still went ahead with it. And, of course, they work in the same building with the accusers, as does the judge, and their code of ethics says none of them should have been doing anything with the case.
Then I've been getting harassed at my home or on line by the accusers and their families. There are a lot of things I still have to look into.
The big thing is that you're right. When this kind of thing happens, it casts doubt on when women really are sexually assaulted, stalked or harassed, because you have someone pressing charges for being given a card that says "I'm sorry about your aunt. She was a nice person and your family was lucky to have her in their lives," and, because she works in the courthouse, she can use her position to influence her colleagues and try to ruin someone's life. People hear about that, and then they wonder when someone else makes an accusation if it's real or if it's just someone holding a grudge or just wanting to be mean to someone.