Ignorance is bliss to some, I guess?
I don't think I've ever told this story on here, but I think now is a good time.
I grew up with 4 brothers in a small Oregon town. When I was 26 and after attending OSU (say what you will about their diversity) I was looking for a new living situation and a coworker had just begun renting a large house and had an extra room in Portland. The living situation was unique. It was:
- her, and her girlfriend
- Her girlfriends sister, and her girlfriend
- 3 other girls
I had only met them a couple of times socially, but knew they were great people. I immediately said yes and I think that decision had a major impact on my perspective as I grew into adulthood. Was it uncomfortable at times? Sure! But as a kid growing up without a sister, I'm glad I did. Those women had a major impact on me. I would not be who I am today if it weren't for those women.
Maybe this wasn't the right thread for it, but your comment made me think about how important it is to accept what you don't know. If you want to understand a different perspective, jump in feet first!
Alright, I'm running on 3 hours of sleep today, enough outta me!