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The problem is that some people see smoke when there is none. My wife has a cumpulsive about cleaning... I thought if we hired a cleaning person did extra cleaning etc... that she would not feel the need to spend so much time cleaning... but it doesn't work that way... her cleaning cumpulsion isn't based on whether or not something is dirty. The smoke that she is seeing doesn't exist.
It exists to her, though. Isn't that the point? "Smoke" is a subjective reality, based on how each individual person views their reality.
