Only white people use that term. It's used because they're afraid to realize or even care about the truth.
You can bring a bullet, bring a sword
Bring a morgue, but thou can't bring the truth to me.
- Kendrick Lamar
I kind of disagree with this, but I'm having a really hard time explaining it. I definitely see the point your making, but I think there is more to it in my mind then just white people don't want the truth.
I don't want to speak for "whites" or whatever so I'll just speak for myself.
I get frustrated with the "victim" thing at times, when people immediately jump to this only happened to me because I'm insert race, gender, religion / world view, etc. Sometimes things definitely are driven by racism and I believe we should always try to snuff that stuff out.
I also get frustrated at how both sides play this game with us (the people), where they are actively profiting off of keeping groups at each other.
I have a friend who has been through (not exaggerating) 20+ jobs in the last 3 years, nice guy but super lazy and with a straight face he will tell you it's all because he's a white male and if he was something else he wouldn't get fired. That's just freaking nonsense right? I don't believe it for a second, but he believes it, he is convinced he's just a victim of his skin color and gender.
Now I can't speak for other people, be it black or white but I hear people say this stuff all the time where this only happened because I'm "something", and I KNOW for a fact that things happen to people of color because of their skin, but it's also really hard at least for me to tell when something happened to them because they are brown, or when something happened to them because of their actions, or just being in the wrong place at the wrong time.
I know I'm not saying this well, and it's why I shouldn't be part of the off topic threads like this.
Anyways I do respect your opinions a lot, like I have said in other threads, so none of this is meant for you to take personally. The whole "race" issue is hard for me to talk about not because I don't want the truth, but because the truth in this is buried inside of people's heads or hearts or whatever you want to call it, and a lot of the time what truly motivates treating people wrong is hard to extract.