We need more fathers like this

[bluefrog]

[video=youtube;RVBtygUx-Lo]

 

[julius]

Bet you the father gets arrested for that.

 

[BoBoBREWSKI]

I didnt understand much of what they said.

 

[Colonel Ronan]

How is beating a child a good sign of parenting?

 

[Colonel Ronan]

I don't have sound so I'm probably missing most of the information -- or not.

 

[bluefrog]

summary:
Boy posted some gangster stuff about shooting people and drugs on Facebook.

Uncle beats nephew , forcing him to recant everything he posted and makes him post video of beating and recant on Facebook

Uncle: He ain't no gang member. We don't come from that shit. You tell 'em. All that bullshit.

Nephew: It's all fake.

Uncle: This ass-whoopin' ain't gonna be fake.

 

[Eastoff]

I don't approve of corporal punishment, but it is good to see parents standing up against gangs (real and fake).

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

 

[Ed O]

How embarrassing for all parties involved.

Ed O.

 

[maxiep]

I didn't watch the video, but I don't get the problem with corporal punishment. Some of the biggest lessons I ever learned as a kid involved a thick belt or fraternity paddle and a very red ass. There are some behaviors a "Time Out" and a good talk can't cure. The executive function in the brain doesn't fully develop until the early 20s. Until that point intellectual reasoning can only go so far.

 

[Ed O]

I didn't watch the video, but I don't get the problem with corporal punishment. Some of the biggest lessons I ever learned as a kid involved a thick belt or fraternity paddle and a very red ass. There are some behaviors a "Time Out" and a good talk can't cure. The executive function in the brain doesn't fully develop until the early 20s. Until that point intellectual reasoning can only go so far.

While I'm not sure I'll ever spank my kids (should I have any) I agree that I learned a lot as a child knowing that there were physical repercussions for bad acts. I don't think that time outs or mere talking would have had the same impact on me... I was too much of a smart ass and quite good at both rationalizing my actions and entertaining myself.

Ed O.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

How embarrassing for all parties involved.

Ed O.

clearly, you have forgotten what its like to grow up in the hood.

 

[Ed O]

clearly, you have forgotten what its like to grow up in the hood.

I was on the streets before YouTube. :|

Ed O.

 

[maxiep]

While I'm not sure I'll ever spank my kids (should I have any) I agree that I learned a lot as a child knowing that there were physical repercussions for bad acts. I don't think that time outs or mere talking would have had the same impact on me... I was too much of a smart ass and quite good at both rationalizing my actions and entertaining myself.

Ed O.

I had the same problems regarding my big mouth. It's going to kill me to spank my son, but in the end it doesn't matter how it makes me feel. It's what's best for him that matters. The key is never to give physical punishment when you're angry.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

I always see bad parents at the mall just yelling and abusing their kids. Why even have kids when you treat them like a piece of shit? That shit bugs me.

They basically treat them as if they are pets.

 

[bluefrog]

I think teenage boys especially respond to physical punishment. I know its sexist but I base it on my own experiences. Teenagers are the most unpleasant creatures to be around and they make some of the worst decisions. I know I had some sense knocked into me on more than one occasion.

 

[GriLtCheeZ]

I can only recall getting spanked a few times as a child. I remember the last time rather well 'cause I started laughing somewhere around stroke number two or three. I was pretty well behaved for the most part.

 

[Eastoff]

I had the same problems regarding my big mouth. It's going to kill me to spank my son, but in the end it doesn't matter how it makes me feel. It's what's best for him that matters. The key is never to give physical punishment when you're angry.

I agree, so what are you going to do when your son just ruined your favorite *object*? Are you going to not be angry about that? Maybe have your wife who doesn't care about it punish him?

 

[maxiep]

I agree, so what are you going to do when your son just ruined your favorite *object*? Are you going to not be angry about that? Maybe have your wife who doesn't care about it punish him?

Counting to ten works wonders. If it doesn't work, you have to walk away until do you regain control. Kids can drive you nuts, but you can't ever let them see you lose it. It can be REALLY hard to control yourself, but your feelings have to come second when you take on the responsibility of being a parent.

 

[Paxil]

I don't agree with the father posting the video on youtube. If you take the punishment out in public like that you are just going to submit the kid to ridicule and he could very well make the jump from fake gang banger to real one.

 

[maxiep]

I don't agree with the father posting the video on youtube. If you take the punishment out in public like that you are just going to submit the kid to ridicule and he could very well make the jump from fake gang banger to real one.

Yep. Having the kid post an apology would have been much more effective.

 

[44Thrilla]

good for the father

 

[MARIS61]

The executive function in the brain doesn't fully develop until the early 20s. Until that point intellectual reasoning can only go so far.

Intellectual reasoning cannot occur without an open mind, which is why children are usually the most logical evaluators of problems and adults have trouble providing justification for their actions and rules.

If this board is any indication, the early 20s is the point when intellectual reasoning begins to die off completely.

 

[Natebishop3]

The pussification of America. He'll get arrested for disciplining his nephew. I have seen so many spoiled, unruly, undisciplined little brats in the last ten years, I'm truly scared for the future of this country. A bunch of helpless little shits who don't know how to do anything for themselves, are fat because they play video games all day, and can't write because they only know text speak. Actually, it's probably a good thing because none of them will be smart enough to take a job away from me when they get out of high school or college.

 

[Natebishop3]

Intellectual reasoning cannot occur without an open mind, which is why children are usually the most logical evaluators of problems and adults have trouble providing justification for their actions and rules.

If this board is any indication, the early 20s is the point when intellectual reasoning begins to die off completely.

I could easily go back and point to any 100 of your posts about Sergio Rodriguez and show that you have just as much intellectual reasoning as the rest of us.

 

[chris_in_pdx]

The pussification of America. He'll get arrested for disciplining his nephew. I have seen so many spoiled, unruly, undisciplined little brats in the last ten years, I'm truly scared for the future of this country. A bunch of helpless little shits who don't know how to do anything for themselves, are fat because they play video games all day, and can't write because they only know text speak. Actually, it's probably a good thing because none of them will be smart enough to take a job away from me when they get out of high school or college.

GET OFF MY LAWN!!!

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

The pussification of America. He'll get arrested for disciplining his nephew. I have seen so many spoiled, unruly, undisciplined little brats in the last ten years, I'm truly scared for the future of this country. A bunch of helpless little shits who don't know how to do anything for themselves, are fat because they play video games all day, and can't write because they only know text speak. Actually, it's probably a good thing because none of them will be smart enough to take a job away from me when they get out of high school or college.

So its ok to beat little kids? We should be able to beat the homeless too. That ought to straighten them up!

 

[Natebishop3]

So its ok to beat little kids? We should be able to beat the homeless too. That ought to straighten them up!

How is a swift swat on the bottom "beating" little kids? I'm not saying you need to beat them, but I think a spanking is appropriate if the punishment fits the crime. You know it's funny though, I've known an adult who needed his ass whooped from time to time as well.

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

How is a swift swat on the bottom "beating" little kids? I'm not saying you need to beat them, but I think a spanking is appropriate if the punishment fits the crime. You know it's funny though, I've known an adult who needed his ass whooped from time to time as well.

He was whipping him with a leather belt. If you did that to a dog, people would call it abuse. Imagine if that was a guy doing that on a dog on youtube, it would be a viral video and people would be outraged.

Discipline should come from authority and respect, not fear of getting physically abused. This is one thing I don't really get with parents. They fucking beat their kids. Spanking a kid is physical abuse. What if you did that to old people? To a random person on the street? To a store clerk? Just because kids are helpless, its a green light to physically abuse them like that?

 

[EL PRESIDENTE]

"I beat you out of love."