Well, I Screwed Up..

[ABM]

Relationship Rule #1: Don't make assumptions.

Talk FIRST, then plan. It will save a lot of stress, and problems down the road. Its' OK for the man to make all the plans, etc. But, just ask her first what she wants to do and when she wants to do it, and then you do the rest. She'll get what she wants, and ultimately, you'll get what you want. She will appreciate your consideration, and also the effort you put into planning things to accommodate her needs.

And, if you screw up (in her eyes), apologize and send flowers.

BNM

Point WELL taken!! +1

 

[Spud147]

Point WELL taken!! +1

And this my friends is why Boob-No-More and ABM get laid like carpet.

 

[3RA1N1AC]

And this my friends is why Boob-No-More and ABM get laid like carpet.

also like carpet, they get walked all over

 

[tlongII]

also like carpet, they get walked all over

BOOM! goes the dynamite!

 

[magnifier661]

And, if you screw up (in her eyes), apologize and send flowers.

BNM

Yeah if you are whipped. But real men will acknowledge they are wrong; not say they are wrong just because the woman thinks he is.

I used to be like that and got taken advantage of. Now I treat my girl with the same level of respect as I would a friend and we have an equal relationship. Works much better.

 

[BlazerWookee]

And this my friends is why Boob-No-More and ABM get laid like carpet.

Laid like carpet? You mean they just lie there and collect dust?

 

[3RA1N1AC]

Laid like carpet? You mean they just lie there and collect dust?

like they are never in the kitchen?

 

[RR7]

carpet, like inferior to hard wood?

 

[Spud147]

If they're all consenting adults... I don't judge.

Although they do seem to be pretty happy guys, just sayin'.

 

[Spud147]

P.S. The rest of you sound bitter and frustrated. And from the looks of it you're all typing one handed.

 

[BlazerWookee]

I have yet to see a domestic situation (short of physical abuse) that couldn't be fixed with a right good rogering.

 

[BLAZINGGIANTS]

I have yet to see a domestic situation (short of physical abuse) that couldn't be fixed with a right good rogering.

Learned from experience, eh?

 

[ABM]

also like carpet, they get walked all over

Spoken like a true, young, single, and somewhat ignorant lad. Hey, am I wrong?

There's no getting walked on going on here. Trust me on that one.

 

[Spud147]

I have yet to see a domestic situation (short of physical abuse) that couldn't be fixed with a right good rogering.

Incorrect! You don't get make up rogering until you've made up.

 

[ABM]

Although they do seem to be pretty happy guys, just sayin'.

Remember when you and I met at the state fair and I had to walk away for a minute? It's because I farted. Yes, I'm a true gentleman....and a VERY happy guy. Thanks for noticing.

 

[Boob-No-More]

And this my friends is why Boob-No-More and ABM get laid like carpet.

I'm a VERY lucky boy!

BNM

 

[Spud147]

Spoken like a true, young, single, and somewhat ignorant lad. Hey, am I wrong?

There's no getting walked on going on here. Trust me on that one.

Let's just say the more a woman trusts you because of the way you treat her, the more she's going to trust you in the bedroom. It's a win-win.

 

[Spud147]

Remember when you and I met at the state fair and I had to walk away for a minute? It's because I farted. Yes, I'm a true gentleman....and a VERY happy guy. Thanks for noticing.

I thought it was coming from the barn.

 

[Boob-No-More]

also like carpet, they get walked all over

No one is getting walked all over - at least not in my case. After 51 years of looking, I can honestly say I have finally found someone who is my equal in every way (physically, emotionally, sexually, etc.). We're not clones (that would be boring), but we are compatible in our beliefs, our priorities an lifestyle. I treat her with respect, she treats me with respect and we have a great life together.

BNM

 

[ABM]

I thought it was coming from the barn.

That was the intention, yes. Anyway, the chili was good, was it not?

 

[Boob-No-More]

Yeah if you are whipped. But real men will acknowledge they are wrong; not say they are wrong just because the woman thinks he is.

I used to be like that and got taken advantage of. Now I treat my girl with the same level of respect as I would a friend and we have an equal relationship. Works much better.

Define whipped. If being pussy whipped means I get all the pussy I want, whenever, wherever and however I want it, sign me up!

Seriously, I treat my girl as my equal, because she is. She appreciates that. She's a rational, intelligent human being. If she thinks I did something wrong, she tells me. Sometimes she's right, sometimes it was just a misunderstanding. Either way, open, honest communication lets us fix any little problems before they become big ones.

BNM

 

[ABM]

Define whipped. If being pussy whipped means I get all the pussy I want, whenever, wherever and however I want it, sign me up!

Seriously, I treat my girl as my equal, because she is. She appreciates that. She's a rational, intelligent human being. If she thinks I did something wrong, she tells me. Sometimes she's right, sometimes it was just a misunderstanding. Either way, open, honest communication lets us fix any little problems before they become big ones.

BNM

Ding! Ding! Ding!

 

[BlazerCaravan]

No one is getting walked all over - at least not in my case. After 51 years of looking, I can honestly say I have finally found someone who is my equal in every way (physically, emotionally, sexually, etc.). We're not clones (that would be boring), but we are compatible in our beliefs, our priorities an lifestyle. I treat her with respect, she treats me with respect and we have a great life together.

BNM

Awesome how that works out sometimes... my wife and I are similar: not working towards different ends in the relationship, and open to each other's individual needs/wants. And the best part is, we're mostly working in the same direction

 

[RR7]

Define whipped. If being pussy whipped means I get all the pussy I want, whenever, wherever and however I want it, sign me up!

Seriously, I treat my girl as my equal, because she is. She appreciates that. She's a rational, intelligent human being. If she thinks I did something wrong, she tells me. Sometimes she's right, sometimes it was just a misunderstanding. Either way, open, honest communication lets us fix any little problems before they become big ones.

BNM

Yes, but that wasn't what Mags was saying. Mags was saying you are if you tell her you were wrong even if you don't think you are. You know, the open and honest communication you refer to. It's not honest communication if you say you're wrong and don't feel it's the truth, just to appease someone from getting mad.

 

[BlazerWookee]

I should remind you all to take my advice for what it's worth coming from someone who even struck out trying to get a hug at the finish line at the Special Olympics...

 

[BlazerWookee]

Yes, but that wasn't what Mags was saying. Mags was saying you are if you tell her you were wrong even if you don't think you are. You know, the open and honest communication you refer to. It's not honest communication if you say you're wrong and don't feel it's the truth, just to appease someone from getting mad.

It doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong. It only matters that she is right.

 

[ABM]

It doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong. It only matters that she is right.

Perhaps......otherwise, it can sometime lead to this..

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I got the call today
That I didn't wanna hear
But I knew that it would come
An old, true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone
She said you'd found someone
And I thought of all the bad luck,
And the struggles we went through
And how I lost me and you lost you
What are these voices outside love's open door
Make us throw off our contentment
And beg for something more?
I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you sometimes
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again
I've been tryin' to get down
To the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about...forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore
Ah...these times are so uncertain
There's a yearning undefined
And people filled with rage
We all need a little tenderness
How can love survive in such a graceless age?
Ah...the trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
They're the very things - we kill I guess...
Ohh pride and competition
Cannot fill these empty arms
And the work I put between us
You know it doesn't keep me warm
I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you, baby
And the more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I'd figured out
I have to learn again
I've been trying to get down
To the heart of the matter
But everything changes
And my friends seem to scatter
But I think it's about...forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if, you don't love me anymore
There are people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down, you know they hurt your pride
You better put it all behind you baby; cause' life goes on
If you keep carryin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside, baby
I've been trying to get down
To the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me
I've been tryin' to get down
To the heart of the matter
Because the flesh will get weak
And the ashes will scatter
So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, you don't love me anymore...

 

[BlazerCaravan]

Yes, but that wasn't what Mags was saying. Mags was saying you are if you tell her you were wrong even if you don't think you are. You know, the open and honest communication you refer to. It's not honest communication if you say you're wrong and don't feel it's the truth, just to appease someone from getting mad.

I'm going to get branded as a hypocrite but whatever...

Sometimes sacrificing a pawn is necessary to protect the king. There's usually a greater truth that arguing over facts gets in the way of... damn that sounds awfully disingenuous, but I really believe it. I know that my wife also does the same thing.

 

[RR7]

I'm going to get branded as a hypocrite but whatever...

Sometimes sacrificing a pawn is necessary to protect the king. There's usually a greater truth that arguing over facts gets in the way of... damn that sounds awfully disingenuous, but I really believe it. I know that my wife also does the same thing.

Oh I agree for the most part, and understand that. It just seemed like BNM was missing that portion of what Mags said.

 

[magnifier661]

Define whipped. If being pussy whipped means I get all the pussy I want, whenever, wherever and however I want it, sign me up!

Seriously, I treat my girl as my equal, because she is. She appreciates that. She's a rational, intelligent human being. If she thinks I did something wrong, she tells me. Sometimes she's right, sometimes it was just a misunderstanding. Either way, open, honest communication lets us fix any little problems before they become big ones.

BNM

No being whipped is saying you're wrong because your girl thinks you are. And from the way I read your post, it sounded like you would say your wrong even if you disagree.

Btw I get all the pussy I want too. And I get to keep my dignity. I would rather be in that camp.