I'd much rather have the intimidation that comes from society towards a white person, than the one that comes towards minorities from our society. You know, the one that assumes all Mexicans are here illegally, don't speak English and we should be able to ask any brown skinned person for their ID when they're close to the border. Or that once a black person is president finally, we still have to hear about how he's not a "real American" or that he wasn't born in the US, or he's being disrespectful to the office by putting his foot up on a desk in the oval office or having a marine (or someone in the military) holding an umbrella out in public.
I think instead of repeating a lot of what I said, I'll just ask this.
You don't deny that whites were given a head start, and the rest of the country is catching up, right?
So if you've been given a head start, and in some cases don't have to struggle nearly as much to get your foot in the door, you'll be ahead. It doesn't mean you've cheated, or didn't work hard, it just meant that a lot of the struggles others faced, you didn't.
your grandfather not getting a loan because he was black (say, in the 40's or 50's) to buy a house to raise his family, could have an impact on your life. So instead they struggled to find a decent home to live in, and maybe were forced to live in a crappier part of town. So maybe their kids didn't have access to a decent school, and it would've been harder to get into a better college. Maybe they didn't get into college at all, and worked a factory job and maybe never had stability.
And yes, this happens to all races of people, but the %'s of minorities who this story fits is much more significant.
That's why stuff that happened 100 years ago, 50 years ago, has an impact on people today. not the threat of being lynched, but the impact of the actions that put people further behind in the "race".