I guess I just don't see the need for negativity on anyone's body. We all are who we are and that should be fine. And if someone does have an "undesirable" body, the last place they should be fun of is in a gym where they are actively working on it. I just don't know why everything has to be an extreme in society right now. Someone is either a big fat cow or a bimbo. I dint know man, it all just comes off so aggressively and negative. Maybe you have some self image issues and get worked up and start judging other people over their bodies. And I get that. I struggle with the same thoughts sometimes. I am a generous 5'9" and 137lbs. I sometimes get self conscious about that and think people judge me for being small. Regardless, I think a person should always be comfortable in their body, and shaming anybody who hashas a different physique is some high-school level bully shit.
I've never said one word to any one of the people who subject me to the horrors of their flab. I don't have self image issues that aren't completely 100 percent backed by facts. I've lost 140 lbs or so as of today. I am not perfect, my stomach is still horrific to look at. I don't force it on other people.
Why fat women seem to think the outfit a petite woman wears to the gym is somehow a requirement I do not know.
There is one woman who I'd say is in her mid to late 20's that joined probably a week after the wife and I did. She comes to the gym, sees her trainer and wears appropriate outfits for her body. I'd say she has lost 50 lbs or more. I want to give her a high five every time I see her but most people just want to be left alone.
Is it fair that tiny little females who couldn't gain weight if you hooked them to an IV 24/7 look good in those outfits? Maybe not, but it is reality.
If anyone asked me, I could help a ton of the larger women that show up to the gym for a few days and then are never seen again.
1. Despite what your online certificate bearing trainer says, putting all 300lbs of your mass on one knee isn't good for you. (saw a trainer playing on his phone while this obese girl did just this, bet my wife we'd never see her again...never have)
2. Spending 70 percent of your time at the gym doing ab exercises isn't the best use of your time.
3. Letting an insane 40 year old woman who has 5 percent body fat but isn't a trainer tell you what to do is not good for you. I literally watched a couple of new girls ask a woman who is always there what they should do for exercises. I watched in amazement as she had a couple of 250 lb noobs doing bizarre football training camp shit from the 60's.
4. Going to a class with fit women and trying to keep up with everything they do is idiotic. You are going to hurt yourself and not want to come back.
Luckily for me, most of these people join and don't keep coming. I wish they would for their sake but the gym would be over capacity if they actually kept coming.
