Wow, the white people you know must be real assholes.
I'm a 56-year old white male and I think that makes me about as white as white can be, but I'm not saying or thinking anything of the kind, nor is anyone I know. Everyone I know who smokes weed is white and no one thinks it's a big deal. Most people I know would consider a DUI a more serious offense, because getting behind the wheel while impaired is much more dangerous.
I think you need to start associating with a better class of white people. If the white people you know are racists, find new white people to hang out with. Once a bigot, always a bigot.
BNM