LOL. You guys are way off-base, but I'm not shocked it's the two of you. Papa likes to sweat me for some reason. I don't brag about taking vacations without my kids. Those are conversations how kids hold people back, which I totally disagree. Figure you'd twist the words. We have opportunities and do take trips with and without the kids.
Maris, I ask you.... Do you have kids? Where were they during the day? We're you a stay-at-home dad? Somebody has to work to pay bills. I dunno how you and Papa paid the bills while staying home at tending to the kids. Please do tell me. For that, I would genuinely envy you guys. I thought it was great that my kids never went to daycare and instead spent the day with family. But kudos to you guys for getting to stay-at-home or work from home and take care of the kids at once. I'm truly jealous. That makes you guys extremely rare company.
And Papa, don't judge what you don't know. That's just pathetic and sad. I come home from work, spend 3 hours with my kids, bathe them, put them into bed, and read for 30 minutes before they're asleep. I spend at least one entire day per weekend just my kids and I. We go do an activity out and about during that time every weekend. I'll always strive to be a better parent, but I have no guilt over what I do or do not provide my children. I don judge you, so keep my name outta your mouth or I'll report you (before you think I'm upset and heated, that last line was a joke. Really.)