So you seriously think that the media should've thought "we shouldn't ask questions about the rape allegations because... wife and kids"?
Of course nothing is their [wife and kids] fault, but given that this was 100% going to happen, whoever decided that they should be there seems more at fault than the press, who would be abdicating their responsibility if they didn't ask.
Besides, even if this is CHAUNCEY'S proud day, it's not necessarily the family's. Most kids that age don't give a shit about their parent's jobs. And that's as it should be - they're kids.