Crushes and what you did with them?

[Memphology]

When yall have a crush, what do yall do? Go up and talk to them or just sit back and watch your girl get away?Used to, I would not say anything about it, but now I try and talk to them and get something going. One of my biggest crushes was one my girlfriends friend, so I didnt do anyting about that. The reason I bring this up cause I just saw the girl who I had a huge crush on. We're talking(texting really), but nothing will probably happen, our friends are nothing alike.

 

[YarnIdge]

Before I used to not bother with it, but now I just go try get somethin up. It really sucks though wen u have a crush on your girl's friend or a friend's girl.

 

[iFR3SHi]

I always talked to them. I was always close to them. After like 5 months I asked her out and she liked me back and all.

 

[P0W3RBALLIN]

I don't really care for them unless I can hint that they have interest in me too. But I do flirt with the occasional random girl just for fun.

 

[AiRuPtHeRe]

Well, when I use to like girls. I would sorta flirt with them a little bit and get to know them a little more. Then we just become good friends.

 

[kingjamez]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (AiRuPtHeRe? @ Mar 9 2007, 07:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Well, when I use to like girls.</div>Did you recently turn gay?

 

[AiRuPtHeRe]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (kingjamez @ Mar 9 2007, 07:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Did you recently turn gay?</div> :HAHAHA: :HAHAHA: OMFG. I didn't even mean it like that. I have a girlfriend, so I don't like anyone besides her. Before her, I would like so many girls lol. Now it's only one.

 

[Memphology]

I dont understand how you still arent attracted to girls even if you are dating or got a girlfriend...I know alotve people who say they arent attracted to whoever cause they have a boy or girlfriend

 

[STAT]

I go up and talk to them. Try to get something started.

 

[mavsfan1000]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (austingriz @ Mar 10 2007, 12:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I dont understand how you still arent attracted to girls even if you are dating or got a girlfriend...I know alotve people who say they arent attracted to whoever cause they have a boy or girlfriend</div>They are trying not to be attracted to other girls while having a girlfriend by avoiding the situation.

 

[7Goat]

I used to have so much balls before, just go up and talk to them. Now I don't know... I really like this one girl but I'm too afraid to talk to her.Kinda sucks...

 

[junot111]

I dont even know..I guess I just become friends with them and thats it

 

[BrewCityBuck]

When I have a crush on a girl and go up to her...I go Borat on her, wrap her in a blanket.

 

[AiRuPtHeRe]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (austingriz @ Mar 9 2007, 07:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I dont understand how you still arent attracted to girls even if you are dating or got a girlfriend...I know alotve people who say they arent attracted to whoever cause they have a boy or girlfriend</div>Try being with a girl for two years. :winkglasses:

 

[Memphology]

I was with her for 13 or 14 months..something like that. Still was attracted to other women...and she knew it, but she knew I wouldnt do anything...maybe its just me.

 

[iversonfan268]

I was about to make a topic about this because there's this girl right now I' f*cking crazy about. Worst I've had it for a girl ever probably. She's on my mind f*cking 24/7 and I'm like crazy about her right now. Usually I'm not really the confident type and sit back and watch, but it's different with this girl for some reason. I'm like way different around her. I'm funnier, less shy, etc. when I'm around her so I've been working on trying to get her a lot lately. I wanna get to know her well and have a better idea if she likes me or not before I ask her out. The only thing is we don't have really anything in common as far as hobbies go but hey, opposites attract don't they lol.

 

[ASUFan22]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (austingriz @ Mar 9 2007, 04:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>When yall have a crush, what do yall do? Go up and talk to them or just sit back and watch your girl get away?Used to, I would not say anything about it, but now I try and talk to them and get something going. One of my biggest crushes was one my girlfriends friend, so I didnt do anyting about that. The reason I bring this up cause I just saw the girl who I had a huge crush on. We're talking(texting really), but nothing will probably happen, our friends are nothing alike.</div>it sux...

 

[tmgbball15]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (iversonfan268 @ Mar 9 2007, 10:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I was about to make a topic about this because there's this girl right now I' f*cking crazy about. Worst I've had it for a girl ever probably. She's on my mind f*cking 24/7 and I'm like crazy about her right now. Usually I'm not really the confident type and sit back and watch, but it's different with this girl for some reason. I'm like way different around her. I'm funnier, less shy, etc. when I'm around her so I've been working on trying to get her a lot lately. I wanna get to know her well and have a better idea if she likes me or not before I ask her out. The only thing is we don't have really anything in common as far as hobbies go but hey, opposites attract don't they lol.</div>wow, no joke I feel the same way about thsi one girl. Im usually not too shy around girls, but with her it just comes even more easily, it feels as if im talking to one of my best guy friends, I can talk to her about anything and she wont mind

 

[P0W3RBALLIN]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (austingriz @ Mar 9 2007, 03:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>When yall have a crush, what do yall do? Go up and talk to them or just sit back and watch your girl get away?</div>this kinda just happend to me.. I was actually trying to get her to like me, but the girls im friends with.. they're just weird.. she just HAD to be with this one dude and pretty much ignored me. like the last time we hung out, she invited me to go ice skating with her and a few other friends. I thought it was an opportunity.. but NOOO. she had to invite that guy dat she liked and they were all holding hands and crap...

So shes outta my mind now. and I'm talking to my ex a lot lately. dont think anythings gonna get back to before tho.

 

[GeraldGreen5]

I can relate to this. Last year I liked this girl, but I kinda shy and she's kinda shy so we kinda had issues, but we did like each other. Basically we took it incredibly slow (as in liking each other starting in SEPTEMBER and finally doing something about it in JUNE lmao) Everything was going fine, this were getting better, we were each getting to know each other and becoming less shy, and then all of a sudden she basically just left. To this day still don't know why. Ever since her, I've been cursed.

 

[carolina_kid22]

When I was in high school, I thought I was awesome so I always approached women first and went out of my way to talk to all chicks I thought was hot. Now I'm alot more layed back, and wait to see how things play out. You guys will learn this, when you go to a club, you have to scope things out first before you go hitting on women. That's the quickest way to engage in a fight, or piss a female off is to go straight in talking to them without evaluating things first.

 

[Chris]

I'll go and talk to them (it's much easier if they're in at least 1 class of mine) as long as I know there's SOME chance I could get with them. Even becoming friends is fine with me, it's alot easier if you have a friend who knows them too.Usually for me the girl's always end up just wanting to be really good friends, which is fine by me...of course I've had girlfriends, but more than half the time that ends up happening.

 

[mavsfan1000]

Yeah that's a good idea. To become friends with them first. Than maybe things get more serious later on.

 

[the_pestilence]

Depends on the age. With 13-15 year olds it's better to become friends first. 16+ it's better to just strike up a conversation, hang out a couple times and then ask them out pretty early on.

 

[playaofthegame]

It's easier to have a lot of options instead of limiting yourself to one girl you have little/no chance with...you'll just end up making yourself feel like sh*t and getting depressed over it..just approach different girls..find one you have a chemistry with and ask her out on a date..and work from there

 

[junot111]

but as u get older u will realise when a girl is your "friend" thats all they will ever be.

 

[Illosophee]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (P0W3RBALLIN @ Mar 9 2007, 06:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>I don't really care for them unless I can hint that they have interest in me too. But I do flirt with the occasional random girl just for fun.</div><span style="font-family:Century Gothic">Same here. I wouldn't necessarily consider my "game" as flirting; it's on some real sex talk. I let everything loose (no homo) and tell the girl everything I have to say to her.</span>

 

[Memphology]

okay, no girl, unless they are horny as hell, finds sex talk attractive when your trying to hook-up with them for a date or something...especialy girls around our ages.

 

[ballerman2112]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (mavsfan1000 @ Mar 10 2007, 01:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div><div class='quotemain'>Yeah that's a good idea. To become friends with them first. Than maybe things get more serious later on.</div>That never works. Once you are too good of friends with a girl, they dont look at you in any other way. Go with what the pestilence said. Its 100 percent true.

 

[iversonfan268]

Becoming friends first works around my age. That's what almost everybody does at my school around my age. It's easier for me to make a girl like me by spending time with them around school and getting to them them better.